will you trust her again if she lie to you ?

• maxcp

  16 Jul 05, 03:20

  I found out she is seeing someone else and i confronted her and she promised to stop seeing him ... but she still see him behind my back ...
• stellazio

  16 Jul 05, 03:21

  once beaten twice shy.
• Patrik

  16 Jul 05, 04:00

  Its all about trust and understanding.
  Actually,u shld ask urself why is she doing all that?
  Are u not giving her the attention she wants?
  
• M©+square

  16 Jul 05, 06:42

  So what is your status with her now?
  
  Cheers
• maxcp

  16 Jul 05, 11:23

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  So what is your status with her now?
  
  Cheers

  seperated ..... and filing for divorce
• browniebaobao

  16 Jul 05, 11:29

  Is that guy juz a fren or wat?
  You can't restrict her from seeing her fren wor. It's her freedom.
• maxcp

  16 Jul 05, 11:36

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  Is that guy juz a fren or wat?
  You can't restrict her from seeing her fren wor. It's her freedom.

  they were dating .... when to watch movie but she lie to me she meeting classmate
• dcx

  16 Jul 05, 12:07

  haiz...divorce over such issues instead of trying to keep the marriage togather....
• maxcp

  16 Jul 05, 12:15

  Originally posted by dcx:

  haiz...divorce over such issues instead of trying to keep the marriage togather....

  I'm trying to keep but she prefer to divorce .... she said since both dun trust each other anymore .....
• Magnus

  16 Jul 05, 12:22

  You mean you guys are married?
  From the start of the thread, I thought you were just dating.
  How long have you been married?
  
• blowfish

  16 Jul 05, 12:23

  dump her
  
• maxcp

  16 Jul 05, 12:27

  Originally posted by Magnus:

  You mean you guys are married?
  From the start of the thread, I thought you were just dating.
  How long have you been married?
  

  yes we r married ..... we married last dec
• Yunhaier

  16 Jul 05, 14:16

  Originally posted by maxcp:

  yes we r married ..... we married last dec

  That only constitute 7 months of marriage life.
  
  I am pretty sure there are quite a number of undissolved issue from BGR, subconsciously or consciously brought forward into the marriage as well. In the first place, since your relationship is weak, why marriage?
  
  Cheers
• drx

  16 Jul 05, 14:49

  What is your age and hers?
  
• dcx

  16 Jul 05, 14:51

  Originally posted by maxcp:

  I'm trying to keep but she prefer to divorce .... she said since both dun trust each other anymore .....

  Ok..i understand your problem....frankly speaking, divorce's the best solution for the two of you...u noe it better than anyone else....
• maxcp

  17 Jul 05, 03:48

  Originally posted by drx:

  What is your age and hers?
  

  I'm 40 shes 30
• tut4nkh4m3n

  17 Jul 05, 05:51

  Originally posted by maxcp:

  I'm trying to keep but she prefer to divorce .... she said since both dun trust each other anymore .....

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• drx

  17 Jul 05, 12:03

  ok facts
  
  you are 40 she is 30
  
  married for 7 months
  
  1) how long were you 2 together before you are married?
  
  2) Did you encounter any problems like this before you get married?
  
  3) why did you get married in the first place?
  
  Humm seems a bit weird cos she is the one who is asking for divorce so quickly even without trying to patch up.
• MRMUSICPRODUCER

  17 Jul 05, 12:37

  honestly i think a leapord will nvr change its spot. gd luck pal
• setokaiba

  17 Jul 05, 12:44

  She agree to marry u but then at the same time she sees the other guy. I think she loves the other guy and to u its mayb appreciation. Sounds like typical drama script but thats what i see it as.
  
  I guess she can never put her love down. Maybe u shld have a talk with her to see what she really wants.
• maxcp

  18 Jul 05, 02:33

  Originally posted by drx:

  ok facts
  
  you are 40 she is 30
  
  married for 7 months
  
  1) how long were you 2 together before you are married?
  
  2) Did you encounter any problems like this before you get married?
  
  3) why did you get married in the first place?
  
  Humm seems a bit weird cos she is the one who is asking for divorce so quickly even without trying to patch up.

  I know her the year 2002 ..... 4 mths b4 wedding she when taiwan she told me she when alone but I found out she when there with another guy .... confronted her and tot she change ..... we got married becos she said she wanna settle down ....
• mach10

  18 Jul 05, 02:34

  Originally posted by maxcp:

  I found out she is seeing someone else and i confronted her and she promised to stop seeing him ... but she still see him behind my back ...

  Its ur turn so see other girls...
• maxcp

  18 Jul 05, 02:34

  Originally posted by setokaiba:

  She agree to marry u but then at the same time she sees the other guy. I think she loves the other guy and to u its mayb appreciation. Sounds like typical drama script but thats what i see it as.
  
  I guess she can never put her love down. Maybe u shld have a talk with her to see what she really wants.

  I did tok to her ..... she said she dun hv enuff freedom .....
• drx

  18 Jul 05, 02:54

  did you call someone to check on her ?
  
  If she cheats on you at least the person can help you to take some photographs and help you through the divorce.
  
  You will not have to pay a single maintance cost towards her.
• drx

  18 Jul 05, 02:55

  Seems that she got married to you for your money and not for your love.