=( haiz
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Just found out that the girl I deem perfect to me,is in a relationship.
Anyone out there felt the same as me?Blood rushing throughout,feeling very jerky and kept on bitting my nails?
Im not talking logically now.I have so many thoughts running thru my mind..all about how that guy will treat her.
Will he cheat on her?
Will he treat her well?
Will he force her to bed with him?<--particularly about this one..after browsing thru the bar section,just by seeing the topics,it had me worrying.
Im somewhat leaning towards the marriage b4 sex thinking..the thought of my perfect girl doin with another guy unwillingly or tricked into, is just horrible,i cant find any words to describe my feelings.
I guess all these thinkings are normal right...Im just sharing what im goin thru right now in e middle of e night all alone.
Maybe I shouldnt have logged in friendster and click on her contact..
I should have go after her earlier on.
I shouldnt be that gutless to do what I always wanted to.
Fark,i can really feel the ache from my heart..the feeling is sour. -
I understand how you feel...gone thru it too...
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How long you noe her?
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its ok.i'm sure there are many here who have experienced this before..
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You are just going to give up?
What if that guy treats her badly?
Remember, you are the ONLY ONE that is able to make sure of her wellness.
And that can only be achieved if she is WITH you.
Fight on... Fight to the end...
Can you take it if other guys hold her hands?
Can you take it if other guys touch her?
Can you take it if other guys hug her?
Can you take it if other guys kiss her?
Can you take it if other guys bed her?
CAN YOU TAKE IT IF SOMEONE ELSE'S PENIS IS IN HER?!
Can you?
Nope, I don't you can... even though if she's happy...
Fight on...
Fight to the end...
Fight to the day where she realises she can never shake you off and she'll be yours...
Don't worry about how she feels first.... GET HER TO UR SIDE FIRST... then you can slowly make her happy... -
me too, but i wished her all the best.Originally posted by bluey^blue~:Just found out that the girl I deem perfect to me,is in a relationship.
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er...
but if she says she love him alone and no one else, what will u do?
fight and fight? for someone who does not love you ?
If you really love someone then let her go to the one she loves.
Will you be happy if she gives you her body but not her love?
I got the same case as you before, I let her go to the one she loves.
now she is happily married and she had a cute little kid who keeps jumping around and asking me to play with her.
Sometimes is hard to let go, i know the feeling. I even helped them through their wedding, quarrels and the arrival of their baby but seeing her so happy really touch my heart cos I know she is with the one she true loves. -
learn to Let It Go
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I have not that generous...Originally posted by drx:er...
but if she says she love him alone and no one else, what will u do?
fight and fight? for someone who does not love you ?
If you really love someone then let her go to the one she loves.
Will you be happy if she gives you her body but not her love?
I got the same case as you before, I let her go to the one she loves.
now she is happily married and she had a cute little kid who keeps jumping around and asking me to play with her.
Sometimes is hard to let go, i know the feeling. I even helped them through their wedding, quarrels and the arrival of their baby but seeing her so happy really touch my heart cos I know she is with the one she true loves.
I'll FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT... Somehow break apart... using every means... DUN BLESS ANYONE UNLESS YOU ARE BLESSED FIRST...
If you dun back off? You think she'll have the mood to get married?
At long as she with you... tats all tat matter..You can make her happy afterwards... -
But If I Let You GoOriginally posted by mach10:learn to Let It Go
I Will Never Know
What My Life Will Be -
why not be there for her when she needs someone?
I mean not as a lover but as a friend who can guide her to her goals in life? -
But then horz... knowing me horz... I'll FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT... till I get her... then when I realised she is not happy... I'll let her go.... But I dunno why I must get her first then I can let go... No, I will buey gam kuan... like tat...Originally posted by drx:er...
but if she says she love him alone and no one else, what will u do?
fight and fight? for someone who does not love you ?
If you really love someone then let her go to the one she loves.
Will you be happy if she gives you her body but not her love?
I got the same case as you before, I let her go to the one she loves.
now she is happily married and she had a cute little kid who keeps jumping around and asking me to play with her.
Sometimes is hard to let go, i know the feeling. I even helped them through their wedding, quarrels and the arrival of their baby but seeing her so happy really touch my heart cos I know she is with the one she true loves.
I very weird hor? -
Then I wun be happy...Originally posted by drx:why not be there for her when she needs someone?
I mean not as a lover but as a friend who can guide her to her goals in life? -
Why let yourself down? Why dun fight for ur own happiness?Originally posted by drx:why not be there for her when she needs someone?
I mean not as a lover but as a friend who can guide her to her goals in life? -
Love is unselfish.ever heard of people letting go of their loved ones so that they can lead a happier life?Originally posted by Ayukat:Then I wun be happy... -
Remember... if you let go just because she doesn't like you or let go just because she has someone else...
History will always always repeats itself...always... and you'll always be a sad person...
Learn to fight for urself... -
Ya, leave me to be sad...either I am happy or all be sad together... either I win or no one wins for me...Originally posted by stellazio:Love is unselfish.ever heard of people letting go of their loved ones so that they can lead a happier life?
I mean...how many times in your life... would you meet someone you love? Dun miss out on any chance... keep on fighting...till ur next chance comes... -
Fighting for the sake of your OWN happiness right?Originally posted by Ayukat:Remember... if you let go just because she doesn't like you or let go just because she has someone else...
History will always always repeats itself...always... and you'll always be a sad person...
Learn to fight for urself...
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YES.Originally posted by M©+square:Fighting for the sake of your OWN happiness right?
Cheers -
I mean is everybody just going to let go because they get rejected? And keep letting go till the day someone doesn't reject you?
Don't you see my point? Fight for what you want, or history will always repeats itself and nothing will change. -
Ok if you wana think that way,though i think its kinda selfish,but i will support ya, afterall if you aren't gonna fight for your happiness,no one will.thinking about it,i kinda envy people who don't really need to fight for their own happiness but rather it comes naturally to them..Originally posted by Ayukat:YES. -
Like my friend... he didn't even need to ask his GF out for a date...Originally posted by stellazio:Ok if you wana think that way,though i think its kinda selfish,but i will support ya, afterall if you aren't gonna fight for your happiness,no one will.thinking about it,i kinda envy people who don't really need to fight for their own happiness but rather it comes naturally to them.. Becos they work together in a restaurant.... -
to Ayukat
Lets us change the story a bit,
You love girl A but she does not love you, so you fight and fight for her but she still thinks you are only her friend.
Girl B comes alone and falls in love with you. You do not like girl B but she keeps fighting for you. She wants your heart, mind and soul to be with her forever!
She keeps stopping you are meeting Girl A. Will you be happy with Girl B?
You slap and hit Girl B but she refused to leave you what can you do?
Girl B will FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT and somehow break apart you and Girl A up using every means possible.
She will never ever BLESS you and Girl A and will fight to the end!
She will never back off and will never ever let the both of you to get married.
She feels that as long as she with you... tats all tat matter..She can totally make you happy after you accepts Girl B.
So can you accept this Girl B to be your gf since she fight so much for you? -
Sad case.Originally posted by Ayukat:I mean is everybody just going to let go because they get rejected? And keep letting go till the day someone doesn't reject you?
Don't you see my point? Fight for what you want, or history will always repeats itself and nothing will change.
You always have to fight. Hai.
It seems like you're more of Zhang Fei calibre than Liu Bei.
There is a huge difference between these two men.
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What you said makes total sense,its takes 2 hearts for a relationship to last and grow..sometimes forcing it is not an option..but just let him fight,maybe if it still doesn't work out,hopefully he'll realize it..Originally posted by drx:to Ayukat
Lets us change the story a bit,
You love girl A but she does not love you, so you fight and fight for her but she still thinks you are only her friend.
Girl B comes alone and falls in love with you. You do not like girl B but she keeps fighting for you. She wants your heart, mind and soul to be with her forever!
She keeps stopping you are meeting Girl A. Will you be happy with Girl B?
You slap and hit Girl B but she refused to leave you what can you do?
Girl B will FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT and somehow break apart you and Girl A up using every means possible.
She will never ever BLESS you and Girl A anf will fight to the end!
She will never back off and will never ever let the both of youto get married.
She feels that as long as she with you... tats all tat matter..She can totally make you happy after you accepts Girl B.
So can you accept this Girl B to be your gf since she fight so much for you?