2nd confession pls help! (comfirm no spoil spot)
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hi guyz i confess to her d 2nd time!
tis is wats i sms her & her replys...
send: Reali ask u sth, m i onli a norm fren or we can b sth better?
juz wanna gif myself a clear ans! promise no hard feeling given
no matter wat ans is...
reply: Why sud ask dis leh? mi dun feel tat nit to ans dis..
is my ans impt to u?
send: Yes it is! i dun wanna keep dwelling on tis as if im running at same
spot & getting no wer, at d same time i scared im too comitted to it &
in the end i got nth...
(tis part beri impt)
reply: Eh..wat u meaning? u wan mi, but scared i will reject u so u dun even
wanna try? Wer got lidat de?! no one wil noe future de, if u realli wan d
ans i onli can say i dun think wan to chg ath atm n dun plan tov let any1
get in my life now...
send: k i respect hw u feel! i juz wanna get myself protected...& i tink i got i
wat i nid to noe le ty! mayb time wil brush things away...
reply: can dun think too much ma! juz let nature tke cos...kei yi ma?!
mi noe ur not feeling well so go rest early ba bb
For ur info: i confess to her weeks ago, she say dun like mi. so i stop sms her
but recently we started smsing again. but notice wen she see mi
dun dare tok to mi, so i like keikei walk over & chat wif her again
she walk away. so i sms her & ask her y izzit my problem?
she say not mi, its herself & she dun noe y oso & nid so time so
let nature tke cos. lst nite i bauy tahan liao! hate guessing here
& there so i send her tis sms. tell miiiii wat to do nxt forget or
continue persuit..........i like going crazy lolx -
is it really that impt she must say that she is interested in you or not?
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next...
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It appears you're very kan chiong and always hu si ran xiang. A really terrible feeling for ya huh? Coz everything in your life is focusing only on her.
All i can say is, give yourself some time to cool down so that u will not hu si ran xiang, then try again. This time, dont be too kan chiong to ask her the question about being together, until u see some results. If u dont wan to take the risk of getting rejected or hurt even after u've tried, just move on in your life.
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but she like got feel for mi but die die dun wanna say :evil
juz wanna noe is it possible for us onot -
She seems very stressed now...but i can assure u...the more u do this,the further she will stay from u...let nature take its course
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can tell her interest level in u dropped alot! u too rush like what others said.
plus when she said it's not u, it's me. it means it's YOU! you should stay away from her now..........dont keep contacting her, it will make her feel that she's right by not liking u. just be cool, go away for awhile, let her contact u first. -
Now I know why I can't get her...
Cause people are so brave...
I don't even dare sent "How are you?"
I sent her forward message also hesitate for hours...
Everytime sent her something, I'll go hide under the bed...
Hai... -
she saw ur nick on forum... so she dun like u lor... so simple... u oni look for boobs.
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she saw ur nick on forum... so she dun like u lor... so simple... u oni look for boobs.
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haha since when she ever says she likes you?
never mind lar go ahead sms her more and she will hate you more for sure.
Never ever force a girl to say something she does not want to say. -
basket, can you not type in all the sms short-hand. it's so hard to understand the conversation. type in proper sentences here.
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Translation for ya....... :Originally posted by Deportivo:basket, can you not type in all the sms short-hand. it's so hard to understand the conversation. type in proper sentences here.
send: Let me ask u something, am i only a normal friend to you or we can be something better?
just want to give myself a clear answer! I promise no hard feeling will be given
no matter what answer is.
reply: Why do you ask this question suddenly? I don't feel a need to answer your question.
Is my answer important to u?
send: Yes it is! i don't want to keep dwelling on this as if i'm running at same
spot & getting no where, at the same time i scared of being too comitted &
in the end i got nothing...
(this part very important)
reply: Eh..what u mean? u wan mi, but scared i will reject u, so u dont even
wanna try? Where got like that de?! no one will noe future, so if u really want the answer, i can only say i don't think i want to change at the moment(this part i dont get it??) and dont plan to let anyone
get in my life now...
send: ok i respect how u feel! i juz wanna get myself protected...& i think i got i
wat i need to noe le! maybe time will brush things away...
reply: pls dont think too much ma! juz let nature take course...kei yi ma
I noe u're not feeling well so go rest early ba bb -
Desperate. first gf?
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You know why she asked whether her answer impt to you?Its already a NO in disguised..
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in summary, luck is not on ur side... so, back off or lose the friendship as well... -
Y insist on the answer when its not imprtant? Do u understand let nature take its course??
She means for u not to press her and just treat her like a fren, u keep pressing her, like giving her stress of cos she will back off. Everytime see u she thinks u wan an answer, dun say her, I see i also run. -
Originally posted by boobs_seeker:hi guyz i confess to her d 2nd time!
tis is wats i sms her & her replys...
send: Reali ask u sth, m i onli a norm fren or we can b sth better?
juz wanna gif myself a clear ans! promise no hard feeling given
no matter wat ans is...
reply: Why sud ask dis leh? mi dun feel tat nit to ans dis..
is my ans impt to u?
send: Yes it is! i dun wanna keep dwelling on tis as if im running at same
spot & getting no wer, at d same time i scared im too comitted to it &
in the end i got nth...
(tis part beri impt)
reply: Eh..wat u meaning? u wan mi, but scared i will reject u so u dun even
wanna try? Wer got lidat de?! no one wil noe future de, if u realli wan d
ans i onli can say i dun think wan to chg ath atm n dun plan tov let any1
get in my life now...
send: k i respect hw u feel! i juz wanna get myself protected...& i tink i got i
wat i nid to noe le ty! mayb time wil brush things away...
reply: can dun think too much ma! juz let nature tke cos...kei yi ma?!
mi noe ur not feeling well so go rest early ba bb
For ur info: i confess to her weeks ago, she say dun like mi. so i stop sms her
but recently we started smsing again. but notice wen she see mi
dun dare tok to mi, so i like keikei walk over & chat wif her again
she walk away. so i sms her & ask her y izzit my problem?
she say not mi, its herself & she dun noe y oso & nid so time so
let nature tke cos. lst nite i bauy tahan liao! hate guessing here
& there so i send her tis sms. tell miiiii wat to do nxt forget or
continue persuit..........i like going crazy lolx
You are like forcing it upon her; it could be her character by having the inability to say something like 'phuck off, you are not my style' kind of rejection which you are looking for.
Completely anti-seductive.
I think your chance is pretty ruined.
Cheers -
Hate to break it to you, kiddo. But you just blew it.
Since she's getting on with her life, you should get on with yours too. Plenty of other gals to choice from, she's not the only swordfish in the open ocean, bruddah.
Spotting a swordfish isn't hard, but gettin one needs skill, all depends whether you wanna cast tat line out..... with a good bait attached.
But from wat I see above, wat u did, you never even bother to put a bait on the hook, hell, I think you're just using a hand-held fishing net trying to scope it up, tat was really pathetic. -
Go CRAZY? At this way you're going, you'll probably GO CRAZY ANYWAY...??Originally posted by boobs_seeker:hi guyz i confess to her d 2nd time!
tis is wats i sms her & her replys...
send: Reali ask u sth, m i onli a norm fren or we can b sth better?
juz wanna gif myself a clear ans! promise no hard feeling given
no matter wat ans is...
reply: Why sud ask dis leh? mi dun feel tat nit to ans dis..
is my ans impt to u?
send: Yes it is! i dun wanna keep dwelling on tis as if im running at same
spot & getting no wer, at d same time i scared im too comitted to it &
in the end i got nth...
(tis part beri impt)
reply: Eh..wat u meaning? u wan mi, but scared i will reject u so u dun even
wanna try? Wer got lidat de?! no one wil noe future de, if u realli wan d
ans i onli can say i dun think wan to chg ath atm n dun plan tov let any1
get in my life now...
send: k i respect hw u feel! i juz wanna get myself protected...& i tink i got i
wat i nid to noe le ty! mayb time wil brush things away...
reply: can dun think too much ma! juz let nature tke cos...kei yi ma?!
mi noe ur not feeling well so go rest early ba bb
For ur info: i confess to her weeks ago, she say dun like mi. so i stop sms her
but recently we started smsing again. but notice wen she see mi
dun dare tok to mi, so i like keikei walk over & chat wif her again
she walk away. so i sms her & ask her y izzit my problem?
she say not mi, its herself & she dun noe y oso & nid so time so
let nature tke cos. lst nite i bauy tahan liao! hate guessing here
& there so i send her tis sms. tell miiiii wat to do nxt forget or
continue persuit..........i like going crazy lolx
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Mr boobs,
She's NOT interested in u... -
Yah~ confirmed... when she say is her problem... means actually...Originally posted by gypises:Mr boobs,
She's NOT interested in u...
I am rejecting you nicely so pls dun try yr very best to impress me again..
I am not interested in you in any way. I say is my problem and dunno y is becoz i dun wan to paisei or hurt u alot... so let be frenz only
Anyway the above is not anyhow said by me.. is from a famous book about understanding female mentality. -
send: Let me ask u something, am i only a normal friend to you or we can be something better?
just want to give myself a clear answer! I promise no hard feeling will be given
no matter what answer is.
reply: Why do you ask this question suddenly? I don't feel a need to answer your question.
Is my answer important to u?
Translation: OH NO!!! HE IS ASKING THE QUESTION AGAIN!!! how to reject him nicely???
send: Yes it is! i don't want to keep dwelling on this as if i'm running at same
spot & getting no where, at the same time i scared of being too comitted &
in the end i got nothing...
(this part very important)
reply: Eh..what u mean? u wan mi, but scared i will reject u, so u dont even
wanna try? Where got like that de?! no one will noe future, so if u really want the answer, i can only say i don't think i want to change at the moment(this part i dont get it??) and dont plan to let anyone
get in my life now...
Translation: IT IS A NO!!! GET IT IN YOUR BLOODY BRAIN!!!! CAN IT BE ANY CLEARER THAN THAT????? I HAVE THIS GUY I AM INTERESTED IN AND IT IS NOT YOU!!!!
send: ok i respect how u feel! i juz wanna get myself protected...& i think i got i
wat i need to noe le! maybe time will brush things away...
reply: pls dont think too much ma! juz let nature take course...kei yi ma
I noe u're not feeling well so go rest early ba bb
Translation: Live your life lah... Get another gal and stop bothering me. Call you when I want to go shopping and someone to carry all the stuffs for me. -
u're pretty harsh aint ya?Originally posted by Yunhaier: You are like forcing it upon her; it could be her character by having the inability to say something like 'phuck off, you are not my style' kind of rejection which you are looking for.
Completely anti-seductive.
I think your chance is pretty ruined.
Cheers -
tell you what...next time you happen to be near her, quickly take a snapshot of her face/body with your camera phone...
go to the nearest colour printer & print our her photo...
take home the photo with you, paste it on your bedroom wall...
every night shine a light on it & pcc yourself to sleep...
errr...that's the nearest you're ever going to get to shagging her...