this feeling sucks
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trying to woo a girl who probably doesn't even know im trying to woo her
a r/s that starts off as platonic friendship is hard to upgrade
does she think i ask her out so much because im bored gah
does she think im just another friend -
actually starting off as platonic is good.....
slow and steady.......
dun have to think too much.......jus go with the flow........ -
Yep. Just go with the flow. If both of you feel right. Then its time to progress.. if she feels ur not the one. Be contented that she still accepts u as a friend.
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eh I think she DOESN"T know that i want to woo her leh. Cos we friends for 2 years le so it's quite hard for me to make a move when she's so oblivious
im wrecking my brain trying to think of ways to hint at her -
yea it sucks...
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hint for what.. if u wan just tell lor.. my style.. Sit down with her and slowly talk about it.Originally posted by crimson soldier:eh I think she DOESN"T know that i want to woo her leh. Cos we friends for 2 years le so it's quite hard for me to make a move when she's so oblivious
im wrecking my brain trying to think of ways to hint at her -
maybe she is happy this way
so dun spoil it...... -
but if he never try.. he wont know how she feels..Originally posted by FireIce:maybe she is happy this way
so dun spoil it......
Perhaps she is happy. Perhaps she is also interested in him... -
i see this thread oso sian 1/2... -
i think very long leOriginally posted by FireIce:maybe she is happy this way
so dun spoil it......
rather risk the friendship than forever be onyl friends
An4 lian4 nan2, shi4 ai4 geng4 nan2
(secretly admiring someone is hard, confessing my feelings is even harder) -
its better to love and leave than to never love at all...Originally posted by crimson soldier:i think very long le
rather risk the friendship than forever be onyl friends
An4 lian4 nan2, shi4 ai4 geng4 nan2
(secretly admiring someone is hard, confessing my feelings is even harder) -
u never know if it can succeed. try man try.Originally posted by crimson soldier:i think very long le
rather risk the friendship than forever be onyl friends
An4 lian4 nan2, shi4 ai4 geng4 nan2
(secretly admiring someone is hard, confessing my feelings is even harder)
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x2Originally posted by FireIce:maybe she is happy this way
so dun spoil it......
"its better to love and leave than to never love at all" is for one person's gratification, not both. -
on the other hand... maybe she also has feelings, but juz that u didnt say out so she juz act like a friend leh...Originally posted by crimson soldier:trying to woo a girl who probably doesn't even know im trying to woo her
a r/s that starts off as platonic friendship is hard to upgrade
does she think i ask her out so much because im bored gah
does she think im just another friend
frm a female point of view: if u everytime ask her out n she nv reject u... thk u got chance... u think she dont have better things to do meh?
then again abt spoiling the frenship... who says even if u confess ur feelings liao, u 2 still cant be frens? -
Agree with this..Originally posted by Pitot:hint for what.. if u wan just tell lor.. my style.. Sit down with her and slowly talk about it.
But thatÂ’s a risk..
Cus if sheÂ’s not interested in u, sheÂ’ll start to avoid u..
Yes, u guys can remains as friends but aft ur confession, ur friendship with her is no longer the same as b4..
ItÂ’s gd to try, but u gonna take the risk..
ItÂ’s all or nothing.. -
Wanna follow up..Originally posted by lonestar86:Agree with this..
But thatÂ’s a risk..
Cus if sheÂ’s not interested in u, sheÂ’ll start to avoid u..
Yes, u guys can remains as friends but aft ur confession, ur friendship with her is no longer the same as b4..
ItÂ’s gd to try, but u gonna take the risk..
ItÂ’s all or nothing..
IÂ’m not sure if itÂ’s true for u guys..
But IÂ’m like tt..
There was once when a gal tried to hint me..
But IÂ’m not interested in her..
Although I still treat her as my friend, IÂ’ve started to avoid her as much as possible.. -
hallowOriginally posted by crimson soldier:trying to woo a girl who probably doesn't even know im trying to woo her
a r/s that starts off as platonic friendship is hard to upgrade
does she think i ask her out so much because im bored gah
does she think im just another friend
think you have to know here better
did u date her out ?
bring her for candlelight dinner
go watch movie with her
try to establish a communicatiion with her .man
i think u can do that -
Hmm...Originally posted by crimson soldier:i think very long le
rather risk the friendship than forever be onyl friends
An4 lian4 nan2, shi4 ai4 geng4 nan2
(secretly admiring someone is hard, confessing my feelings is even harder)
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look at the other fellow... he got blocked..
At least you're her friend 
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I understand how you feel...
but if u really like her and u dun act fast, u might regret if she falls for another. -
try this: long periods of eye contact, with a loving smile.
she'll fall in love with u after a while.
its psychology, and it works. -
i think watch movies with her until sian liao. dun dare to ask her out for anything else other than movies haha.Originally posted by syncopation_music:hallow
think you have to know here better
did u date her out ?
bring her for candlelight dinner
go watch movie with her
try to establish a communicatiion with her .man
i think u can do that
i think i will write a letter and make something arty to pass her the next time i see her cos she likes art. haha all or nothing this week -
no wonder your nick is 3 pairs of eyes( OO OO OO)...more eyes easier to psycho people right?Originally posted by OO_OO_OO:try this: long periods of eye contact, with a loving smile.
she'll fall in love with u after a while.
its psychology, and it works. -
if she doesn't even know you're after ... then you're not trying hard enough ... -
Just do it man.