The ultimate boyfriend

• SpecOps87

  15 Oct 06, 09:41

  Is there such a thing? Or are girls always hopping for this? Why is it that when a guy comes and treat a girl nice, even though she's attached, she will fall for him? Why?
• fudgester

  15 Oct 06, 09:46

  I treat all girls nicely, regardless of whether they're attached or not.
  
  And here I am, still single after 23 years.
• missqi

  15 Oct 06, 09:54

  Nobody is perfect.
  We just try to overlook those flaws.
  
• SpecOps87

  15 Oct 06, 09:56

  Originally posted by missqi:

  Nobody is perfect.
  We just try to overlook those flaws.
  

  Wah..up so early?Don't need ur beauty sleep?
• Ito_^

  15 Oct 06, 09:57

  
  
  u need to be this.
• SpecOps87

  15 Oct 06, 09:58

  Its a persistent question which I ask myself. Is there something wrong with me? Or did I do something wrong?and yes...I try to be nice to people I know, except for a few whom I'm nasty to 365 days a year.
• missqi

  15 Oct 06, 09:58

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  Wah..up so early?Don't need ur beauty sleep?

  I woke up at 6pm and 2am....
  
• sgboy2004

  15 Oct 06, 10:09

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  Its a persistent question which I ask myself. Is there something wrong with me? Or did I do something wrong?and yes...I try to be nice to people I know, except for a few whom I'm nasty to 365 days a year.

  yah... mi too.. esp to a person called Ken
• sgboy2004

  15 Oct 06, 10:11

  Originally posted by missqi:

  I woke up at 6pm and 2am....
  

  sorry mi woke u up darling, cos mi need ... *ahem*...
• T.Ryousuke

  15 Oct 06, 10:13

  To some gal, someone can talk big ,BS and show that he is some Big Fcuk, they will fall for them. Something like ah Beng type, but they have alot of girl friends and can't be a good husband.
• SpecOps87

  15 Oct 06, 10:21

  So is it better to show that you are not husband material or not boyfriend material is better?Sighz...freaking headache...
• sgboy2004

  15 Oct 06, 10:22

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  So is it better to show that you are not husband material or not boyfriend material is better?Sighz...freaking headache...

  yah, be a buaya and lots of ger ger crowd around u
• Ledikusa

  15 Oct 06, 11:02

  Spec. Be urself. I cant imagine a girl liking me because i behave like some "role model" person. Remember, you are the one thats gonna live with the girl u like for the rest of your relationship, not others. If she doesn't like you for you who are, then why even bother changing a little here and there to suit her complains a little? As from the start you already know you have no hope? Don't go just thinking love can be nutured, always think of the other side, in this case, love cannot be forced. Just some opinions for you to consider and ponder about.
• moongster

  15 Oct 06, 11:03

  Ledikusa is right.
  
  Girls want Good Guys, not Nice Guys.
• Fatum

  15 Oct 06, 11:09

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  Is there such a thing? Or are girls always hopping for this? Why is it that when a guy comes and treat a girl nice, even though she's attached, she will fall for him? Why?

  cos it's a biological function ..... humans are polygamous by nature's design ... but civilization forces monogamy onto us .....
  
  males are serial flirters ... that's to ensure that we spread our gene pools as wide as possible ... but we also have that cavemen instinct of protecting our "harem" (even though the harem in question is usually reduced to one single female now) .....
  
  so of course, you'll feel hurt when some other male cuts you in .....
  
  but then again ... you can play the game too ... go on, fulfil your biological destiny ! ...
  
• <Precious>

  15 Oct 06, 11:16

  Blame it on fate (yuan fen) lor..........!
• dokono

  15 Oct 06, 11:17

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  Its a persistent question which I ask myself. Is there something wrong with me? Or did I do something wrong?and yes...I try to be nice to people I know, except for a few whom I'm nasty to 365 days a year.

  Nothing wrong with you. Why do you have to let someone question your worth? What about that person? What right and authority does he have to judge the other person unless he is objectively correct? From your writing, I can tell you are a people-pleaser. Stay the way you are until the person you are talking to pisses you off. Any form of disrespect, get off from there.
• SpecOps87

  15 Oct 06, 11:25

  Its not that I'm a people-pleaser or what...its just that I belief in treating the way u want others to treat you. But apparently, society doesnt' allow that anymore...
• tankh80

  15 Oct 06, 11:27

  this is what happen to me also i was very happily with my girlfriend then this guy came along thsn she went with him liao.....
• dokono

  15 Oct 06, 11:29

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  Its not that I'm a people-pleaser or what...its just that I belief in treating the way u want others to treat you. But apparently, society doesnt' allow that anymore...

  Precisely because society doesn't allow that we should have more manners. The fact that people like us remains means all is not lost.
• dokono

  15 Oct 06, 11:34

  Stop treating girls too nice. They are humans like you and I. They can be evil like some people. Don't care how they think, as long as you know that you do is nothing wrong and is not against your conscience.
• nullifi3d

  15 Oct 06, 11:34

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  I treat all girls nicely, regardless of whether they're attached or not.
  
  And here I am, still single after 23 years.

  Reminds me of myself, still single after 20 years.
• charlize

  15 Oct 06, 11:40

  Girls want bad boys.
  
  Being nice just doesn't cut it.
  
  Really.
  
  
• charlize

  15 Oct 06, 11:41

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  I treat all girls nicely, regardless of whether they're attached or not.
  
  And here I am, still single after 23 years.

  I rest my case.
  
  
• Ito_^

  15 Oct 06, 11:42

  Originally posted by :

  Blame it on fate (yuan fen) lor..........!

  shit that goes round?
  
  yeah.
  
  it'd come around.