hey this is rainOriginally posted by Quinsy:I told my BF today that my heart is dead and I no longer loved his as much if I do love him at all. I told him of my intentions to date other guys with a higher level of education etc.
I made it clear that I wanted a break up. But he didn't want it.
we passed the day as usual and didn't mention about it until late at night when i was home.
He messaged me and said that he still loved me very much and wants to spend x mas with me and that no matter what he will always love me.
Should I still be with him?
I know I would feel pain if I really leave him. But as they say, duan tong bu ru chang tong.
But I can't bear to break his heart. I keep thinking of being with him for as long as he loves me. Even though I no longer love him.
My exes are still my friends. But the thing is, he refuses to let go.Originally posted by FBI:hey this is rain
mayb u 2 be frens then see how?
well, can still b friends after break de..
Huh? I don't get it?Originally posted by missqi:Old habits die hard.
oh ok.Originally posted by Quinsy:My exes are still my friends. But the thing is, he refuses to let go.
I hope so.Originally posted by FBI:oh ok.
give him some time ba, slowly he will
don think so much ba, get a good slp and tml will b a better day.Originally posted by Quinsy:I hope so.
but i feel damn weird. I keep thinking about whether I should meet him tmr or not. I told him i have test to study for and he understands but i feel so uneasy inside.Originally posted by FBI:don think so much ba, get a good slp and tml will b a better day.
that means u still have something for him.Originally posted by Quinsy:but i feel damn weird. I keep thinking about whether I should meet him tmr or not. I told him i have test to study for and he understands but i feel so uneasy inside.
Oh and did I mention he messaged me and said he is very afraid of loosing me?
I felt so touched. Cuz no one ever took me so preciously.
[list=]my parents oppose of the relationship. I'm tired of hiding.Originally posted by FBI:that means u still have something for him.
but since u knew there is someone ttaking u so preciously, wats the reason for breaking
x2 ya lor.Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Nowadays very common, girl will look for guy with high pay and Education level. Which the other thread mention on what you look for in your partern, pretty gal do go for better guy, whereas for guy if they are not hard working enough they will lose out.
i understand how u feel, but maybe you should give yourself more time and tell him or suggest to him that he need to go up higher in education level and to secure his future before u feel really secure. and maybe u should stop thinking of there are better guys out there cause its an endless cycle.Originally posted by Quinsy:I told my BF today that my heart is dead and I no longer loved his as much if I do love him at all. I told him of my intentions to date other guys with a higher level of education etc.
I made it clear that I wanted a break up. But he didn't want it.
we passed the day as usual and didn't mention about it until late at night when i was home.
He messaged me and said that he still loved me very much and wants to spend x mas with me and that no matter what he will always love me.
Should I still be with him?
I know I would feel pain if I really leave him. But as they say, duan tong bu ru chang tong.
But I can't bear to break his heart. I keep thinking of being with him for as long as he loves me. Even though I no longer love him.
Sometimes, the younger the age.... the truer the love, the more innocent the love... untainted by our so-called reality.Originally posted by blu_sky:TS is still so young. at that age, how many people really 'had been in love'? and even if they had been in love, for a relationship to work, it takes more than just love.
yo relax gal... better to end it now than to drag on further... like tat only make u n him more painful so do the right thing...Originally posted by Quinsy:I told my BF today that my heart is dead and I no longer loved his as much if I do love him at all. I told him of my intentions to date other guys with a higher level of education etc.
I made it clear that I wanted a break up. But he didn't want it.
we passed the day as usual and didn't mention about it until late at night when i was home.
He messaged me and said that he still loved me very much and wants to spend x mas with me and that no matter what he will always love me.
Should I still be with him?
I know I would feel pain if I really leave him. But as they say, duan tong bu ru chang tong.
But I can't bear to break his heart. I keep thinking of being with him for as long as he loves me. Even though I no longer love him.