should i try?
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you see i know this gal for 4 yrs and after we graduated from sec sch we kept close contact with each other often smsing and going out for movies sometimes lunch/dinner frequently.. i found that i like her but i dunno what is she feeling towards me cos i was rejected once by another gal and dun wana get rejected again.. should i try telling her that i like her cos i dun wana get rejected again
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go for it. it might turn out well.
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just do it!
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Rejection is better than regret.
Faster make ur feelings known b4 she find a bf,and u will have tos tart a new thread here. -
You should try to find out "what is she feeling towards you" before "try telling her that i like her "
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if u dun try u will nvr succeed.
but if u try, u might. -
hmmm...try and sound her out???
reallyy....dun scared kena reject... -
i dun wana get rejected again was once bitten twice shy
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Nike.
You wanna live the rest of your life in regret den do nothing about it.
Such opportunity doesn't appear like the Sun rising from the East and setting down in the West.
Go for it and best of luck.
Cheers.
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then make yourself difficult to be rejected.....since you are a student, work hard to get good grades and then to a good career.....and you'll find no lack of suitors....Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:i dun wana get rejected again was once bitten twice shy -
Always good to let her know she's special to you, better to try and get over the hurt sooner. Instead of living a life of regret.Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:you see i know this gal for 4 yrs and after we graduated from sec sch we kept close contact with each other often smsing and going out for movies sometimes lunch/dinner frequently.. i found that i like her but i dunno what is she feeling towards me cos i was rejected once by another gal and dun wana get rejected again.. should i try telling her that i like her cos i dun wana get rejected again -
dun think too much, mai tu liao!
test water first ba./ -
Double or nothing
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It might turn out well as the girl already so close with you... It a fate since both of you still contacting even after sec gradaution... Furthermore, you mentioned that she even agreed to go out with you so her impression on you it not bad... So I suggest u hint her about you feeling for her.... Brother forget in about the past, look to the future.. Good luck
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Hey, a moment of rejection is better than a lifetime of regret.Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:i dun wana get rejected again was once bitten twice shy
I did not tell the girl I like about my feelings for her. I lost touch with her for six years. I spent those six years in regret until it became a huge burden to bear.
After I finally got back in touch with her, I told her of my feelings for her. While she ultimately rejected me, it was as though a huge burden had been lifted off my shoulders.
I'm still friends with her, and I still do take her out to dinner once in a while.
So if you feel this girl is worth it, just go for it.
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Woah! U guys out her give gd advice!
I agree.. You shld give it a try.. 10 years down the road.. U'll have no regret.. Coz @ least u tried, & u gotten an answer!
If u din try.. U'll spend the rest of ur years thinking..
If i asked her after all.. Could it be now we are tog.. Married happily.. Or could it be we each lead our own life.. Blah blah blah..
How hard u think, u'll never noe the answer.. Until u try!!!
Test water 1st! Hmm.. Give her a surprise.. A card mayb to express out ur feeling.. Etc.. @ least gonna give bit of hint tat u're interested.. I think gals are more sensitve to hints! When she received ur signal.. She will give signs lik.. Yeah.. I'm interested.. Nope, i'm not..
Well.. Dun give up.. Coz u'll never noe! If fate decreed u to be tog.. U'll after all.. Hmm.. If she reali doesn like u.. Some end up closer than jus normal friend!
God bro.. God sis.. Okie okie.. Is abit lao tu.. But still quite a gd way of friendship!
Jia you! -
maybe a sms would do instead of a card?
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confessing by sms or msn is a big no no.Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:maybe a sms would do instead of a card?
just show how sincere u are. -
dun wan la. very insincere.Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:maybe a sms would do instead of a card?
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Just do it... Think so much for what....
ask her out...
if u feel embarrassed, ask a group of pple u know out... then it will be like group outing....
Jia you!!! -
Personally, I see no difference between a sms and a card - neither beats telling her face-to-face...Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:maybe a sms would do instead of a card? -
Try or live to regret..
you choose.. -
face to face like quite hard le.. im one of shy ones.. i very seldom talk alot but when im wif her i talk alot le feels very at ease but to bring the topic up is hard
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maintain this friendship and wait until the appropriate time and confess to her!
of course on that day dress nicely -
i smsed her last night telling her how i felt towards her.. still waiting for her reply.. ill update if i get any replies..