SOS ! I suspect my good friend is a gay
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Anyway here's a little background info about my friend .. we know each other since Primary 6 .. just now when I showed him some pictures of a girl ( Mind you it's not nude ) and he started sprouting some nonsense.. so I randomly asked him " Is our little XXXX gay here ? " ( He was not talking about anything gay in his earlier part ) To my surprise, he told me he had a relationship in Secondary 3 with a boy and broke up a month later because the boy still likes girls. Before signing off, he even asked me is " nap nap " gay ( As he was about to sleep ) ..
I don't mind having a gay friend but I think that this is just a temporary thing ( I hope so ), so I hope people out there with similar expriences can help out.
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Gays must have special treatment?
He's still your friend... treat him as normal?
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Now now, I don't mean giving him " special treatment " , what I meant is how can I help him over this issue. His behaviour seemed strange.
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let him be? he choose to be gay, then let him be gay
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What hep does he need? Did he ask u for help? If not, i think the best thing that u as a friend can do for him is just being ur normal self and treat him like any other ones. Sometime, being indifferent to something and not doing anything actually do wonder.
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Thanks for the advise above. I will try my best to help him in any way if I can.
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what do you think he needs help in?
why do you want to help him?
what do you want to help him achieve/change/etc...?
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er. so wad if he's gay?
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seriously, i think its harder for a gay to 'convert' straight while its easier for a gal to do so..
i dun think he wants ur help ba, just maybe to treat him as usual.
gay...
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Er is it like a guys ego thing that a close fren cannot be gay?
Coz my brother used to haf this collegue that is gay and my brother claims that he find it wierd to speak to him..
I dunoe coz i haf sum lesbian frens and i'm pretty fine with them.. And by the way, sum gays are really nice people..
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You'll get used to it, though you might want to tell him that you're never interested in guys.
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treat him as normal, i have gay friends too. You dont fear you kenna or what... they are actually better people with their char then normal guys
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They are still human like you and I. Respect him as a friend.
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dunno about you and your friend and dunno what kind of person your friend is like.
but i'd probably say something like that. just as a joke
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Are u a gay urself?
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Seriously speaking like wat others said.. They are humans. Some of them really damn funny .. Nice ppl to hang out with but well not the twisted way tho
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nothing wrong with having the same gender fancing the same gender. why treat him different? do u think he needs help? what's wrong? nothing wrong what!
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i have a gay friend to.
and he is still my very good friend.
Its nothing different. juz the mentality. . .
cheers to u, hope it doesnt affect u so much -
i dun care as long as he doesnt have interest in me
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Shower him some love la.. aiyo..
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he is still ur friend
just don become gay can liao
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everything is fine as long as he doesn't make any advances towards you. If he does, please be firm with him and tell him no.
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Why u wanna 'help' him? Because you think there is something wrong with him?!? :/
Just go with the flow. If you think he is different/changed after he told you he is gay, believe me it's not him, its you. He is still your friend. & might grow into a better one too since he trust & told you abt himself.
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are you gay too?
if you are gay, i think he is too
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"gay" is an adjective, not a noun...
therefore, it is "you are gay" and definitely not "you are a gay"
btw.. so what if he is gay?