how would u know when its the right time to confess?

• dracas

  24 Mar 08, 23:40

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• Guardx

  24 Mar 08, 23:50

  confess what?
• deathscythe99

  25 Mar 08, 00:08

  I suppose it's to confess to girl that TS likes...?

• VL

  25 Mar 08, 00:24

  First of april.

  Confess to the girl u like through sms.

  If she say she have feeling for then .... =] ( u know what to do)

  If she reply something else, tell her that u are just kidding and it's april fool.

  Haha.

   

• sEphIrOth

  25 Mar 08, 01:18

  what if she agrees on april 1st, then 2nd april she said she fooled u?

• magical_wen

  25 Mar 08, 10:08

  be sure she'll agree b4 asking lor..

  if not veri paiseh one le..

• CannyOng

  25 Mar 08, 13:36

  By having all yr hint return positively.

  Have u ask her the choice of partner, criteria, requirement? Do u fit in??? (She might exaggerate a bit)

  Have u have any outing with her? Does she enjoy yr presence and the outing u organise for her?

  Have u ask her opinion of u? Positive?

  Have u ask her ready for a r/s? Is she ready to accept r/s now, her priority??

  Do u have a certain understanding of her history?

  Do u always have mutual understanding and great communication?

• fairlady_xoxo

  25 Mar 08, 13:37

  Feeling ~

• CannyOng

  25 Mar 08, 13:39

  Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

  Feeling ~

  
  Not neccessary.. Something it maybe just one side affection of you!

• fairlady_xoxo

  25 Mar 08, 13:41

  For me its more of intuition...but more than half go by feelings so =/

   

  Either way...there would be some obvious signs if you know if the girl / guy has affirmed his / her liking to you.

• Gedanken

  25 Mar 08, 13:52

  Confess?  How did you screw up?

• ghast.

  25 Mar 08, 22:01

  confess when you really feel very very strongly for her and that BOTH of u will be happy tgt and under the confirmed status of gf/bf.

• 小白脸

  25 Mar 08, 22:09

  once you confess, you may lose everything

• ifish

  25 Mar 08, 22:18

  when she is happy..

  when ur bro is not awake..

  when u dont stink..

  when she not wearing the pad

  after u brush teeth..

  after a big fat meal..

  after ur wallet got money..

  after ur mummy approve of u having a gf

  after her mummy approve of her having sex

  aiya... so many things to take note.. might as well ignore all of them and do it rite? at most a NO only.

• Guardx

  25 Mar 08, 22:28

  humm lets assume that the TS is asking a girl to be his gf. Confession are never easy, it takes courage, some did it so many times until it does not any meaning. For you it maybe something new. You do it when you feel is time. No one can say when is the right time for anyone cos everyone is different. Real man face confession in the face and tell their would be gf that they really want the relationship to work. Real man face rejection positively and are willing to learn from it. Statics from gals show that they would rather accept a guy who had the guts to tell them that they love them face to face, rather then hide behind someone or something.
• Wai Leng

  25 Mar 08, 23:19

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• VL

  26 Mar 08, 16:03

  u will scare the girl off . Too sudden , not sincere. 

  What if she doesn't even feel it and u ask those question suddenly?

  =]

• popikachu

  26 Mar 08, 19:16

  You will know it when time comes...

  If that time never comes, it means you are not ready for relationships...

  Cheers

• guaiboiboi

  27 Mar 08, 20:28

  Originally posted by dracas:

  how would u know when its the right time to confess to a girl? By sensing all the positive signals and mutual attractions? WHat kind of methods would u use? I prefer face to face..more sincere. but abit scared.

  
  when the feeling is right and the ambience is there and you have the money! well then just face to face.Just be more brave,and say it sincere and really mean it then girl will fall in love with u le.

• HolyGorilla

  27 Mar 08, 22:07

  i got no experience...

   

  but i think this would be good...

   

  if u are communicating well with her, and she allows u to like touch her hair or something like that...

  and she like dun mind u 2 going out alone together outside..

  dun mind going to ur house alone, ( that is if she cant go, she will give very very valid and true reason)

   

  then i think its the time...

  start by saying that, "today i look good?"

                                     "today u look so attractive.."

   

  or something lidat... then u pop up the question, just one thing to be sure... no matter wat, especially when poping the question, look into her eye sincerely... naturally...

   

  if it is a positive ans... it will be so romantic.....

  if not, u will be like so man... be sure to confirm ur friendship with her if she ever reject u...

  btw i no experience de... just seeing things from everywhere and then combine them up... heehee

   

  Cheers

• purpledragon84

  27 Mar 08, 23:26

  do it my way.. 1st date go movie she say v cold i hold her hand..

  den from then on hold hand every date liao..

  how she say no..?

  moral of the story, find a damn cold cinema..

• Gosu.

  28 Mar 08, 10:29

  Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

  Feeling ~

  
  I think that is most important, go on a one-to-one date and I think it really goes with the feeling, usually at the end of the date, you pop the question, that's where the problem lies, sometimes you know the feeling is there, but you can't buckle enough courage to pop the question

• Alucard101

  28 Mar 08, 12:00

  if u r talking of confessing something wrong tht u did,dnt do it.yes I know couples are supposed to be honest.But doesn't work.

   

  if its tht u like a girl and want to tell her,ask her out some where and tell her in face.