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  • dracas's Avatar
    28 posts since Apr '07
    • how would u know when its the right time to confess to a girl? By sensing all the positive signals and mutual attractions? WHat kind of methods would u use? I prefer face to face..more sincere. but abit scared.

  • Guardx's Avatar
    361 posts since May '07
  • deathscythe99's Avatar
    15,461 posts since Apr '04
  • VL's Avatar
    143 posts since Mar '08
    • First of april.

      Confess to the girl u like through sms.

      If she say she have feeling for then .... =] ( u know what to do)

      If she reply something else, tell her that u are just kidding and it's april fool.

      Haha.

       

  • sEphIrOth's Avatar
    2,927 posts since Oct '02
  • magical_wen's Avatar
    737 posts since Jul '07
  • CannyOng's Avatar
    1,411 posts since May '04
    • By having all yr hint return positively.

      Have u ask her the choice of partner, criteria, requirement? Do u fit in??? (She might exaggerate a bit)

      Have u have any outing with her? Does she enjoy yr presence and the outing u organise for her?

      Have u ask her opinion of u? Positive?

      Have u ask her ready for a r/s? Is she ready to accept r/s now, her priority??

      Do u have a certain understanding of her history?

      Do u always have mutual understanding and great communication?

      Edited by CannyOng 25 Mar `08, 1:38PM
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    fairlady_xoxo's Avatar
    10,763 posts since Jan '07
  • CannyOng's Avatar
    1,411 posts since May '04
    • Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

      Feeling ~


      Not neccessary.. Something it maybe just one side affection of you!

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    fairlady_xoxo's Avatar
    10,763 posts since Jan '07
    • For me its more of intuition...but more than half go by feelings so =/

       

      Either way...there would be some obvious signs if you know if the girl / guy has affirmed his / her liking to you.

  • Gedanken's Avatar
    6,419 posts since Jul '03
  • ghast.'s Avatar
    574 posts since Apr '07
    • confess when you really feel very very strongly for her and that BOTH of u will be happy tgt and under the confirmed status of gf/bf.

  • 小白脸's Avatar
    164 posts since Mar '08
  • ifish's Avatar
    2,141 posts since Dec '06
    • when she is happy..

      when ur bro is not awake..

      when u dont stink..

      when she not wearing the pad

      after u brush teeth..

      after a big fat meal..

      after ur wallet got money..

      after ur mummy approve of u having a gf

      after her mummy approve of her having sex

      aiya... so many things to take note.. might as well ignore all of them and do it rite? at most a NO only.

  • Guardx's Avatar
    361 posts since May '07
    • humm lets assume that the TS is asking a girl to be his gf.

      Confession are never easy, it takes courage, some did it so many times until it does not any meaning. For you it maybe something new.

      You do it when you feel is time. No one can say when is the right time for anyone cos everyone is different. Real man face confession in the face and tell their would be gf that they really want the relationship to work. Real man face rejection positively and are willing to learn from it.

      Statics from gals show that they would rather accept a guy who had the guts to tell them that they love them face to face, rather then hide behind someone or something.

  • Wai Leng's Avatar
    140 posts since Dec '07
    • I agree with Guardx... I also prefer face to face confession... sometimes a straightforward & sincere question can also do the job "be my gf, will you?"... sometimes, you need to put in more efforts/words... it depends on different people different situations...

  • VL's Avatar
    143 posts since Mar '08
    • u will scare the girl off . Too sudden , not sincere. 

      What if she doesn't even feel it and u ask those question suddenly?

      =]

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    popikachu's Avatar
    13,138 posts since Dec '06
    • You will know it when time comes...

      If that time never comes, it means you are not ready for relationships...

      Cheers

  • guaiboiboi's Avatar
    209 posts since Sep '06
    • Originally posted by dracas:

      how would u know when its the right time to confess to a girl? By sensing all the positive signals and mutual attractions? WHat kind of methods would u use? I prefer face to face..more sincere. but abit scared.


      when the feeling is right and the ambience is there and you have the money! well then just face to face.Just be more brave,and say it sincere and really mean it then girl will fall in love with u le.

  • HolyGorilla's Avatar
    6 posts since Aug '06
    • i got no experience...

       

      but i think this would be good...

       

      if u are communicating well with her, and she allows u to like touch her hair or something like that...

      and she like dun mind u 2 going out alone together outside..

      dun mind going to ur house alone, ( that is if she cant go, she will give very very valid and true reason)

       

      then i think its the time...

      start by saying that, "today i look good?"

                                         "today u look so attractive.."

       

      or something lidat... then u pop up the question, just one thing to be sure... no matter wat, especially when poping the question, look into her eye sincerely... naturally...

       

      if it is a positive ans... it will be so romantic.....

      if not, u will be like so man... be sure to confirm ur friendship with her if she ever reject u...

      btw i no experience de... just seeing things from everywhere and then combine them up... heehee

       

      Cheers

  • purpledragon84's Avatar
    1,705 posts since Sep '07
    • do it my way.. 1st date go movie she say v cold i hold her hand..

      den from then on hold hand every date liao..

      how she say no..?

      moral of the story, find a damn cold cinema..

  • Gosu.'s Avatar
    484 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

      Feeling ~


      I think that is most important, go on a one-to-one date and I think it really goes with the feeling, usually at the end of the date, you pop the question, that's where the problem lies, sometimes you know the feeling is there, but you can't buckle enough courage to pop the question

  • Alucard101's Avatar
    405 posts since Aug '07
    • if u r talking of confessing something wrong tht u did,dnt do it.yes I know couples are supposed to be honest.But doesn't work.

       

      if its tht u like a girl and want to tell her,ask her out some where and tell her in face.

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