I feel that everyone is putting a false image infront of u...
Its like they will backstab u anytime.. Will say things that disappointing anytime.. Every small little things will lead to a quarrel.. Having a feeling of betrayal now and then..
Suddenly u find urself that u have no one to trust.. Living in a society where every man is fighting for himself..
If u feel that way .
U have to sing :
"Suddenly
I'm not half the man I used to be
There's a shadow hanging over me
Oh, yesterday
Came suddenly"
The beatles yesterday LOL![]()
It's a dog-eat-dog world. But I think it's not all bad.
that means you have grown up and realised the truth of the world... congrats!!!
We all grow up thinking the world is an oyster and everything is perfect. Turns out it's actually 'si hum'
Oh well, even sometimes oysters can turn out to be spoiled too. And in our modern and materialistic society everyone is for themselves only. It's call 'Survival of the fittest'. You don't backstab people, people backstab you. After some time you eventually will join in the game too just to survive. So welcome to the real world.![]()
well, the real world is like a jungle.
The only person u can trust is urself.. But sometimes u dun even trust ur own self..
can't be more true, tis a harsh world
Trust is a universal struggle. All of us wrestle to some extent with trusting others because of painful experiences with betrayal. When the source of that betrayal is someone close to us, it can be especially devastating.
Nowhere is this more true than when a person is betrayed by a family member, close family friend, close friend or some other trusted authority figure. Hence, you are not alone when you cannot help but feel suspicious to even a genuine good intention and deed.
However, we ought to treat our past as a lesson and regard that as a history. Histories do not repeat unless we create and commit the same mistake. So just be more careful with your dealings with people at the same time looking after your own interest and well being. I think the saying : "Look before you leap" will be good to remember as you go about your decision trusting people.
Only a handful of people you know would not backstab you... Try to understand.. even if it was you... you would talk rot of even your bast friend behind their back...
Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:I feel that everyone is putting a false image infront of u...
Its like they will backstab u anytime.. Will say things that disappointing anytime.. Every small little things will lead to a quarrel.. Having a feeling of betrayal now and then..
Suddenly u find urself that u have no one to trust.. Living in a society where every man is fighting for himself..
this type of situation reminds me of workplace (especially office)
haiz ![]()
Everyone of us wears a mask. Some wear masks. The world is not a bed of roses.
Welcome to the real world.
working world's frens are not true frens. its only your school mates that are more of a true fren.
I'm still learning to adapt in 'the real world'. ![]()
thats why i only trust myself.. in poly it's already like that.. dont say workplace..
just accept it the world is like that. ![]()
People wears a mask to protect themselves, to please others, to avoid hurting others. etc. This is life but does not mean we can't create trustworthy relationship with people. There is always patterns and warning signs we can look out for. Keep your eyes open and trust your guts.
Even if we have been let down by others, don't forget they are human and it is in their nature to err.
sometimes i dun trust myself...haha
Welcome.
At least u know backstabbed you rather than u die without knowing anything.
Nobody own u a living ya.
Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:I feel that everyone is putting a false image infront of u...
Its like they will backstab u anytime.. Will say things that disappointing anytime.. Every small little things will lead to a quarrel.. Having a feeling of betrayal now and then..
Suddenly u find urself that u have no one to trust.. Living in a society where every man is fighting for himself..
humans are not perfect. even the closet of friends will hurt you with their words n actions sometimes.