She was the sister of a friend's friend.
Nearly a year ago, We chanced upon each other by accident and we started keeping in contact via email.
Then there was a slight misunderstanding (she thought i was keen on someone else) and we didn't really talk for six months.
Recently she asked me out for coffee and in the midst of our conversation(s), we cleared up that misunderstanding
Since then we've been in contact almost daily, and we've been going out more frequently (not as frequent as i'd like thou!)
she informs me when she's heading out, lets me know when she's home
from a late night out, etc. I'm pleasantly pleased with this;
When i was contemplating a job offer that would require me to travel
frequently, for a number of years, one of her first reactions was "does
that mean i'll only get to see you in a few years' time?
its been two months since we caught up with each other again, and i'm
this time, i'm pretty sure she's the one i want in my life;
A few days back, I tried to sound her out, but I had a feeling that she
knew what was coming (either that or i was over sensitive) for that
meetup was pretty tense.
Things were still the same after that, so i'm pretty glad for that.
Now I've came to know that there's possibly another guy in the picture.
but she wouldn't say much, other than that's a friend (she does have quite a few male friends)
I know i should come clean with how i feel, but is this a good time, or should i observe more?
One thing i noticed, we tend to think too much for the other party, and
sometimes, this leads to a lack of action by both parties. this is bad,
i know, and i'm working on it.
Can any kind souls please advise?
Cheers,
let go loh.
no fate means no fate.
u are sure she is the gal u want
then go for her.
So is it true that you will only get to see her every few years ?
If yes, it is either you shyt or get off the pot.
And ask her to marry you so both of you may go overseas together or you leave her alone.
Expecting a girl to wait a few years for you is just selfishness in its cruelest form.
go for it..
Originally posted by jojobeach:So is it true that you will only get to see her every few years ?
If yes, it is either you shyt or get off the pot.
And ask her to marry you so both of you may go overseas together or you leave her alone.
Expecting a girl to wait a few years for you is just selfishness in its cruelest form.
Oh of course not. I've since turned down the offer.
then do u think she is the girl for you?
Originally posted by rlsh07:then do u think she is the girl for you?
wha lau, he already turn down the offer for the job just to be with her, u still ask if she is for him or not? Are u ok or not
Originally posted by JasonC:Oh of course not. I've since turned down the offer.
wha, u good hor, sacrifice personal passion to love a gal, i am so proud and envy of the gal. You are my great admirer.
Eh..if later in the event both of you break off, you can call or pm me ya. I will be waiting for you.
Originally posted by angel7030:
wha lau, he already turn down the offer for the job just to be with her, u still ask if she is for him or not? Are u ok or not
hmm.. it depends i guess
Is she the one you want for life? Or is it just a moment of chemistry?
Make your choice. Then start the courting, or move on. Rather than waste time worrying. It may be for nothing also.
Originally posted by JasonC:She was the sister of a friend's friend.
Nearly a year ago, We chanced upon each other by accident and we started keeping in contact via email.
Then there was a slight misunderstanding (she thought i was keen on someone else) and we didn't really talk for six months.
Recently she asked me out for coffee and in the midst of our conversation(s), we cleared up that misunderstanding
Since then we've been in contact almost daily, and we've been going out more frequently (not as frequent as i'd like thou!)
she informs me when she's heading out, lets me know when she's home from a late night out, etc. I'm pleasantly pleased with this;
When i was contemplating a job offer that would require me to travel frequently, for a number of years, one of her first reactions was "does that mean i'll only get to see you in a few years' time?
its been two months since we caught up with each other again, and i'm this time, i'm pretty sure she's the one i want in my life;
A few days back, I tried to sound her out, but I had a feeling that she knew what was coming (either that or i was over sensitive) for that meetup was pretty tense.
Things were still the same after that, so i'm pretty glad for that.
Now I've came to know that there's possibly another guy in the picture.
but she wouldn't say much, other than that's a friend (she does have quite a few male friends)
I know i should come clean with how i feel, but is this a good time, or should i observe more?
One thing i noticed, we tend to think too much for the other party, and sometimes, this leads to a lack of action by both parties. this is bad, i know, and i'm working on it.
Can any kind souls please advise?
Cheers,
To be frank, I seriously don't see the reason why you are holding back your feelings and not telling her your true feelings.
It may be the norm to observe and worry this and then what will happen to you if she rejects you...but it doesn't really apply to your case isn't it?
When you feel strongly when you should hold back your confession towards her, it means your heart is telling you "she's not ready for it yet / this is not the right time to confess", but.......you and I know that you should come clean with your feelings with her now...in fact long ago since now. So what are you waiting for? Lack of experience in this area perhaps?
If you felt that your relationship with her isn't moving anywhere, that means one of you need to hold onto your balls and bring this relationship to the next level. So........go and sort of confess your feelings to her romantically please......do it like you would do if you were to "propose" to her ok?
Romance is sweetest when both parties are anticipating for it, but please don't drag this for overly long cos even the sweetest candy might taste bad if left un-eaten for too long.
There is no 100% success but you know it's definitely 80-90% success. So don't come here and tell us your agony when there is nothing to agonise about.
Just don't drag until somebody else stole her away then you come here and post your regretful agony, by that time....nobody can help you....not even me.
Originally posted by JasonC:Oh of course not. I've since turned down the offer.
Then my friend... there is one advise I can gib you for free.
" Love waits for NO one."
If you feel for her... tell her what you feel... then let her decide...
If you don't... the moment or chance would just pass you by...
If you failed, just say goodbye...
Originally posted by Misogynist:Career first… Family second… Friends Third.. Sufficient booze Fourth… At the really far end, women. They come and go, and it’s always about the money and how big their ass looks in the dress, yes it is, it’s not up for contention. It’s a fact.
how could you say that? family always come first no matter wat
i find it funny how some people always like to say things in a detached way. dont know if it makes them cooler or close them off to rejection
Originally posted by Misogynist:Humanity’s over rated.
Besides if we were to care for everyone else, life would cease function.
over-rated in wat sense?
Originally posted by Misogynist:Go google the phrase.
aren't you a human urself?
Hemispherectomy is a surgical procedure where one cerebral hemisphere (half of the brain) is removed or disabled. This procedure is used to treat a variety of seizure disorders where the source of the epilepsy is localized to a broad area of a single hemisphere of the brain. It is solely reserved for extreme cases in which the seizures have not responded to medications and other less invasive surgeries.
thank God i do not have that but i do have a clot in my brain somewhere in the past. Thankfully it has been dispersed already
go tell her you lyk her then clear up e midunderstanding of the another guy. mayb dere's no another guy at all