Girlfriend Problems. replied by hiphop2009 @ Tue, 13 May 2008 08:16:47 +0800

hiphop2009 — Tue, 13 May 2008 08:16:47 +0800

if the girl's mama doesnt approve, den everything said will just be nonsense.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Midlusionz @ Tue, 13 May 2008 07:28:40 +0800

Midlusionz — Tue, 13 May 2008 07:28:40 +0800

Originally posted by vincentchean:

depends on how u look at it.

when someone is in a relationship wat he will be learning is totally diff from books.

being a bookworm won't make anione a better man.

Balance out is the key imho.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by vincentchean @ Tue, 13 May 2008 00:36:57 +0800

vincentchean — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:36:57 +0800

Originally posted by BrUtUs:

TS still young la... talk abt tis is normal and fun... he sure will miss all tis talk next time when $$$ & work comes in... he will regret it...

yup. this kinda relationship i don't think will be lasting

Girlfriend Problems. replied by BrUtUs @ Tue, 13 May 2008 00:25:43 +0800

BrUtUs — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:25:43 +0800

TS still young la... talk abt tis is normal and fun... he sure will miss all tis talk next time when $$$ & work comes in... he will regret it...

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Miss Tiny @ Tue, 13 May 2008 00:16:49 +0800

Miss Tiny — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:16:49 +0800

Studies is just a chapter in your life till you got a successful career one day to support your wife.

Studies is not everything, but essential. I'm not saying having a gf or bf is not good, but TS needs to juggle these 2 well and not emphasize on only one of them.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by vincentchean @ Tue, 13 May 2008 00:15:00 +0800

vincentchean — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:15:00 +0800

Originally posted by Midlusionz:

Gf/Bf is just a chapter in your life till the day u got marry then will she or he play a big part in your life.

depends on how u look at it.

when someone is in a relationship wat he will be learning is totally diff from books.

being a bookworm won't make anione a better man.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Midlusionz @ Tue, 13 May 2008 00:08:40 +0800

Midlusionz — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:08:40 +0800

Gf/Bf is just a chapter in your life till the day u got marry then will she or he play a big part in your life.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Miss Tiny @ Tue, 13 May 2008 00:04:49 +0800

Miss Tiny — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:04:49 +0800

Originally posted by vincentchean:

studies is onli a little part of our life.

Having a gf/bf is only part of our life.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by vincentchean @ Mon, 12 May 2008 23:55:10 +0800

vincentchean — Mon, 12 May 2008 23:55:10 +0800

Originally posted by Miss Tiny:

If he can't even cope well with his studies, how is he going to cope well with relationship? He needs to juggle well for both.

Stronger passion in school? Yea, only passion to go to school to meet his lover and not on his studies lor.

studies is onli a little part of our life.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Miss Tiny @ Mon, 12 May 2008 23:28:37 +0800

Miss Tiny — Mon, 12 May 2008 23:28:37 +0800

Originally posted by vincentchean:

this idea onli applies to few not all dude.

sometimes relationship in campus makes the student have a stronger passion in school

but onli if they nv break up la.

threadstarter seems like the kind who would jump if his girl dump him

If he can't even cope well with his studies, how is he going to cope well with relationship? He needs to juggle well for both.

Stronger passion in school? Yea, only passion to go to school to meet his lover and not on his studies lor.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by meteora8 @ Mon, 12 May 2008 23:13:15 +0800

meteora8 — Mon, 12 May 2008 23:13:15 +0800

vincentchean, lol im not gonna jump,

actually its like she's the one who'll do it...

Girlfriend Problems. replied by ifish @ Mon, 12 May 2008 22:01:23 +0800

ifish — Mon, 12 May 2008 22:01:23 +0800

Originally posted by vincentchean:

this idea onli applies to few not all dude.

sometimes relationship in campus makes the student have a stronger passion in school

but onli if they nv break up la.

threadstarter seems like the kind who would jump if his girl dump him

i agree la.. even though it's stupid, but a gal from a same course can actually make u sit down and study

Girlfriend Problems. replied by vincentchean @ Mon, 12 May 2008 21:49:48 +0800

vincentchean — Mon, 12 May 2008 21:49:48 +0800

Originally posted by Miss Tiny:

No offence, but I think you should be worrying about your studies more than your relationship right now.

this idea onli applies to few not all dude.

sometimes relationship in campus makes the student have a stronger passion in school

but onli if they nv break up la.

threadstarter seems like the kind who would jump if his girl dump him

Girlfriend Problems. replied by sand king @ Mon, 12 May 2008 18:25:23 +0800

sand king — Mon, 12 May 2008 18:25:23 +0800

Originally posted by meteora8:

Thank you all guys, especially Lorry` and ifish,

i really have to study already, gotta get myself a stable future.

and to sand king, no shes not, shes more of rnb and things like that, more of the happy songs. haha.

hahaha Heavy Metal is happy too! (:

well depends, power metal.. cheesy stuff yea hahaha you get my point haha

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Pitot @ Mon, 12 May 2008 05:11:53 +0800

Pitot — Mon, 12 May 2008 05:11:53 +0800

It takes time to develop. Take it easy.

Every relationship is different, there is no need for any need to spice it up by doing additional romantic stuff or what not.

Sometimes, simple is the way to go.

I see no wrong in fantasising about the future. At least you have something to work forward to. totally beats dating aimlessly!

Girlfriend Problems. replied by meteora8 @ Mon, 12 May 2008 01:43:36 +0800

meteora8 — Mon, 12 May 2008 01:43:36 +0800

Thank you all guys, especially Lorry` and ifish,

i really have to study already, gotta get myself a stable future.

and to sand king, no shes not, shes more of rnb and things like that, more of the happy songs. haha.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Miss Tiny @ Sun, 11 May 2008 23:48:01 +0800

Miss Tiny — Sun, 11 May 2008 23:48:01 +0800

No offence, but I think you should be worrying about your studies more than your relationship right now.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by gunner77 @ Sun, 11 May 2008 23:28:05 +0800

gunner77 — Sun, 11 May 2008 23:28:05 +0800

better treasure all tis moment

dont wait till both of u break up, and u say u regretted not treasuring her.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by ifish @ Sun, 11 May 2008 23:25:44 +0800

ifish — Sun, 11 May 2008 23:25:44 +0800

wow.. didnt know my guess so correct one.

5 module? wtf? i think you should start studying..

what i usually do is to reward myself everytime i finish studying. like for

eg, finish up this 3 lecture by today or tmr cannot go out with her watch movie.

and dont forget, all those future of buying a house blah blah blah wont be achievable easily even with a dip cert

and i doubt u want another reason why her parents dont let u be with her.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by rlsh07 @ Sun, 11 May 2008 23:20:47 +0800

rlsh07 — Sun, 11 May 2008 23:20:47 +0800

just discuss llo. it's just a topic though. it comes naturally such as a topic talked abt over dinner that kind though. you guys still young lo.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by rain-coat @ Sun, 11 May 2008 23:17:04 +0800

rain-coat — Sun, 11 May 2008 23:17:04 +0800

high school?

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Lorry` @ Sun, 11 May 2008 21:03:56 +0800

Lorry` — Sun, 11 May 2008 21:03:56 +0800

im just wondering, how do i make this more intellectual. like, i wanna be able to talk to her about politics, music, documentary stuff, like wildlife, does god exist, etc etc. i cant stand just talking about i love you you love me topics.

imo i think a r/s has no or should not have restriction when it comes to communication

You mentioned you 2 only talk bout the future and how much you love each other. Yes nothin wrong with that, but do you think a conversation only limits to this 2 topics? No right, glad that you realised. As much as i do feel like a hopeless romantic sometimes, I do feel really bored to talk bout love stuffs all day.

Actually there's no step by step basis to how a topic should be started in a conversation. There's no formula or whatever.

Let's talk bout music. Do you have to be in a music room in order to discuss bout the genres of music? Electronic music in a club and classical music in a piano room?
I suppose not. And what bout wildlife or politics? Standing beside Low Thia Khiang during General Election in order to share your thoughts to your gf? Nope again. So you see, there isn't a fixed location, position or occasion for you to discuss your thoughts and views to your gf. It all should have come naturally.

and i cant tell her this because she's a pretty sensitive person. sighs. this is so difficult.

Like I've said, everything should have come naturally. Like how you 2 discuss bout your future in life. Think bout how in a way you 2 have come to a point to discuss bout the future. I believe you 2 just mention it like that and started discussing. Not like "Can I discuss bout the future of us with you now?" Sounds weird isn't it. Permission in a conversation?

I dont see how a topic bout Music will turn her off. Try it. But when it comes to religions and racial issues, be tactful.

help me out guys, i just want to make our relationship better in that sense. and those of you who is in a relationship; what do you guys talk about all the time?

I dont really know how to answer that because we can talk about all kinds of stuffs. If I were to list all categories, it'll take a long time. See, conversation is a very broad subject. Basically you can talk bout just anything, that includes that particular toilet bowl situated at her house.

From world/current issues, music, movies, food, people, celebrities, entertainment, televsion programmes, books, games, travel, fashion, sexual, herself, family, we could discuss about MSN emoticons too. That's pretty lame you might think, but why not. A conversation can be serious or lame or meaningful.

btw, you mentioned you failed 5 modules. You should really do something bout it.

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Dead_Man_Inc @ Sun, 11 May 2008 20:36:02 +0800

Dead_Man_Inc — Sun, 11 May 2008 20:36:02 +0800

Originally posted by SquarePants:

omg .. how do u know she is your girlfriend then ? she ask u to be his boyfriend ?

never talk never see each other ...sounds like virtual bgr o.O

no lah.. we met each other in school, got face to face before in school before our relationship..

just that during the first month of our bgr, we are too shy to meet each other out, thus we sms only..

Girlfriend Problems. replied by SquarePants @ Sun, 11 May 2008 20:23:33 +0800

SquarePants — Sun, 11 May 2008 20:23:33 +0800

Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:

hey dude, it takes time man. When I just started out with my gf, we never even talk on phone or face to face for the first month. Just purely smsing.

Now we are reaching close to our three years anniversary and getting closer and closer each day. Her parents doesn't know about us, only her bro does. And she cannot really go out at night. So yea, all this things need time. I'm the same age as u btw

omg .. how do u know she is your girlfriend then ? she ask u to be his boyfriend ?

never talk never see each other ...sounds like virtual bgr o.O

Girlfriend Problems. replied by Dead_Man_Inc @ Sun, 11 May 2008 20:19:54 +0800

Dead_Man_Inc — Sun, 11 May 2008 20:19:54 +0800

Originally posted by meteora8:

wow dude, thanks man,

we're in different poly, similar courses, and yes, i am meeting her in secret, her younger brother kind of knows, but doesnt care, her older sis knows as well, but is cool with it.

i realised, at the starting i was like that, that ball shrinking nicest wussy, haha. im gonna change man, and ill try that method of talking.

and actually, ive flunked 5 modules because of the relationship. sighs, i wanna get back on track. everything is expensive these days, need a good job,

well, thanks again (: really, you've opened my eyes alot.

hey dude, it takes time man. When I just started out with my gf, we never even talk on phone or face to face for the first month. Just purely smsing.

Now we are reaching close to our three years anniversary and getting closer and closer each day. Her parents doesn't know about us, only her bro does. And she cannot really go out at night. So yea, all this things need time. I'm the same age as u btw

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