Girls, how do u shy away if a guy wants to hold your hand?

• Darrenchoo

  10 Jul 08, 13:05

  guys like to use the 'crossing the road' or 'crowded place' excuse to hold a girl's hand. but if ur the girl, u just got to know the guy, and u like the guy but u dont want him to get too touchy just yet, how do u pull away politely?

• angel7030

  10 Jul 08, 18:28

  When he wants to hold my hand, I will lift my hand and dig my nostrils, then put down, see if he dare to hold my hand or not.

• Maith

  10 Jul 08, 22:39

  Originally posted by Darrenchoo:

  guys like to use the 'crossing the road' or 'crowded place' excuse to hold a girl's hand. but if ur the girl, u just got to know the guy, and u like the guy but u dont want him to get too touchy just yet, how do u pull away politely?

  
  why u want do it isit?

• uponAStaR

  10 Jul 08, 22:53

  haha. just hold something in hand

• foxwalk

  10 Jul 08, 23:22

  Originally posted by Darrenchoo:

  guys like to use the 'crossing the road' or 'crowded place' excuse to hold a girl's hand. but if ur the girl, u just got to know the guy, and u like the guy but u dont want him to get too touchy just yet, how do u pull away politely?

  pretend you need to sneeze..and you need your hand back.

• alexkim91

  11 Jul 08, 01:08

  just push him into the friend zone and act like you would if it was one of your girl-friends.

• seotiblizzard

  11 Jul 08, 01:11

  Say it.

• ghast.

  11 Jul 08, 03:12

  say politely, "i think i'm missing my hand a lot now, can i have it back?"

• Lorry`

  11 Jul 08, 07:46

  Pretend that you need your hand to take somethin out from your bag.

  Pretend you need your hand to adjust your hair.

  Dont say it out

• Darrenchoo

  11 Jul 08, 16:52

  do u gals find that guys who try to do this kind of action on the first outing very bian tai?

• viciouskitty74

  11 Jul 08, 16:59

  yes.  i find boys who tries to do it at a first outing/date very desperate.

   

  the bian tai ones are the ones that likes to rub their elbow at girl's breast.

• fairlady_xoxo

  11 Jul 08, 17:03

  If first date...he dong shou dong jiao...i will say him...

• viciouskitty74

  11 Jul 08, 17:08

  i ever met one guy hor.....he first time saw me...says i am his dream woman...grabbed my hands and tries to act lovey dovy.

  I tolerate him until the evening when he tries to lie to me about his age.  then i tell him i hate liers.  he is 4 years my junior but pretends older. i shake him off there and then.

   

  2 weeks later, he calls me to want to borrow money.

• alfagal

  11 Jul 08, 17:08

  pull my hand away..

• viciouskitty74

  11 Jul 08, 17:12

  btw, the hold hands to cross road thingy, i really hate.  its like pulling me to die on the road.

   

  here's another time, i meet my fren, we wanted to cross the road and he grab my hands and pulls me into the road. a motorcycle was approaching us and i had to pulled him to stand with me in between the road lines so that motorcycle rider wont have to anticipate us walking into his path.

  i was kinda really angry with that fren for dragging me along the road.

• Evangel

  11 Jul 08, 20:38

  should teach TS how to hold a girl's hand politely

• browniebaobao

  11 Jul 08, 20:44

  old trick that doesn't work on me. haha.

   

  i'll juz tell him 'im not a kid, i know how to cross the road'.

   

  there was once this toopid guy held my hand even when there's no vehicle at all, i juz let go and walk on my own.

   

   

• thehappybunny

  11 Jul 08, 20:50

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  old trick that doesn't work on me. haha.

   

  i'll juz tell him 'im not a kid, i know how to cross the road'.

   

  there was once this toopid guy held my hand even when there's no vehicle at all, i juz let go and walk on my own.

   

   

  shhhh

• 798

  11 Jul 08, 22:00

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  When he wants to hold my hand, I will lift my hand and dig my nostrils, then put down, see if he dare to hold my hand or not.

  
  sekali the guy said, "even angel's peesai taste so good!"

• QX179R

  11 Jul 08, 22:03

  

• Karma88

  11 Jul 08, 23:48

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  When he wants to hold my hand, I will lift my hand and dig my nostrils, then put down, see if he dare to hold my hand or not.

  
  If ur chio i also hold LOL .

• ispyyy

  12 Jul 08, 00:19

  After seeing the above replies,

  No wonder...

  those shy guys who the girl like will never dare to hold the girl's hands...

  those thick skin guys who the girl dont like will try even more evolved irritating ways to hold the girl's hands...

  

   

   

   

   

   

   

• Lorry`

  12 Jul 08, 00:30

  Originally posted by Darrenchoo:

  do u gals find that guys who try to do this kind of action on the first outing very bian tai?

  Not bian tai, but scheming i think 

  First date dont do this. See first and then act according to the situation.

  Anyway, the cross road 1.. i did it before   but ok, outcome was positive. Well, the road was really busy 

• angel7030

  12 Jul 08, 11:09

  Originally posted by Karma88:

  
  If ur chio i also hold LOL .

  
  huh! u really no medicine cure liao, i dig nostrils u olso want to hold.  Haiz!!! i am out of idea liao, ok ok lah, let you hold lah.

• angel7030

  12 Jul 08, 11:12

  Originally posted by 798:

  
  sekali the guy said, "even angel's peesai taste so good!"

  
  I will be damn. I simply cannot understand guys enough?? hmmm..maybe i try to hold a dirty tissue on one hand and a wallet on the other hand...ah, no hand to hold liao,....hahaha..

   

  But then, with no hands, Hope he dun hold my arm lor.