Are you afraid of Death?
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it sounds cowardice, but I am. Because of how real it is, and how I will lose my loves one and myself makes me feel very frightened.
the thought of me becoming nothingness one day makes me feel very afraid. even though i know i should not be thinking about this kind of issue because afterall, it still will eventually happens, it still creeps back into my thoughts every other nights.
it's somehow pushing myself towards depression but i don't know how to let myself feels better. im always trying to convince myself about how there are people living a worse life than me so i should be content that at least i live a good life, or that im still very young and still got a long way to go. But i can't.
sigh. does anyone knows how to overcome such fear and dark thoughts?
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just know that those who live will die someday... i dont fear death, I fear of what happens after it... Its just fear of the unknown...
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i wish i can faster die sometimes..ahahaha
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haha, whyy? actually, yeah, death is perhaps not wot i worry most, it's probably the aftermath. i won't want to live FOREVER, but i don't want to stop living too. kinda contradicting.
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U are not afraid of death. u are afraid of what comes after death. im a free thinker and i dont believe in after life.
The only thing to stop u from thinking abt this is to do other stuff man. Play sports and games. Read the other happier forums post or just study. =D
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I don't really fear death. But I do wish to go peacefully when the time comes. I'm more curious what will happen when one day you close your eyes and never get to wake up.
and I'm a freethinker. There's so many religion, I am wondering which would be the closest to what we may get..
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Born, live, old, sick and die, no one can deny, all living being must go through it. In understanding these 4 words, u shall be liberated from the fear of darkness and dead.
Be good, do good and give the goodness to others. You shall blessed and heaven can wait.
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I try not to think about it ...
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hmmm, i fear the death of a loved one. the fear that i won't get to talk or see them smile anymore.
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Everybody dies; it's just a matter of when and how.
Do what you want and get the most out of life. Like that, we can pass away without much regrets.
Don't be lying on the deathbed and think, "I wish I could have done that."
Do eat, sleep, play and work well. Know that it will come, but don't anticipate it. No one knows what the future holds.
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Originally posted by MsBacardi:
it sounds cowardice, but I am. Because of how real it is, and how I will lose my loves one and myself makes me feel very frightened.
the thought of me becoming nothingness one day makes me feel very afraid. even though i know i should not be thinking about this kind of issue because afterall, it still will eventually happens, it still creeps back into my thoughts every other nights.
it's somehow pushing myself towards depression but i don't know how to let myself feels better. im always trying to convince myself about how there are people living a worse life than me so i should be content that at least i live a good life, or that im still very young and still got a long way to go. But i can't.
sigh. does anyone knows how to overcome such fear and dark thoughts?
I used to fear death too and not able to be with my family anymore was the saddest thoughts in my life.
I found GOD in December 2003 and I no longer have this fear anymore. Reason is because I know 100% that GOD exists and HE will always be watching over me, guiding me, loving me, and protecting me.
If death is inevitable, then let it come knocking at my door anytime, for I no longer has any doubt or fear about what is going to happen to me and where I will be going after death. I have surrendered my life to GOD and I don't mind if I were to die now or tomorrow. In fact, living is probably more painful than dying itself, so much sadness and painful memories, so much to let go and forgive but can never forget. So little time to help all the loved ones around me, so little time to serve my parents, so little time to spend with my loved ones.
With this conviction, I am able to live and enjoy my life more peacefully and do the things that I wanted to do in this life before I die.
I recommend you to seek GOD by praying with the desire to know HIM more, SEEK and you shall see the truth in life. You will see that GOD is real.
And you shall no longer fear death nor have demons in your life, and you will be able to laugh at your nightmares in it's face.
The only fear you have in your life is probably the regret that you will realised that your TIME is never enough for you to complete your life before death takes you away.
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i think about these all the time in the past
so, the main point is, don't do something that you will regret
live life to the fullest
when your time really comes, you will think of your past, and think " whoa, i've accomplished everything, and it's all worth it. i led a full life." and finally laid down to have a good rest
the cycle of life is forever flowing
it wouldn't be good if hitler is still living, right?
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Originally posted by MsBacardi:
haha, whyy? actually, yeah, death is perhaps not wot i worry most, it's probably the aftermath. i won't want to live FOREVER, but i don't want to stop living too. kinda contradicting.
U shld try and identify what is it that u truly fear about death.
For some, it is about separation and loss of the ones u love.
If this is ur reason, I'm afraid there is no easy way out, for death comes to all.
U must learn to accept that death is a natural part of life.
It's a transition phase and not neccessarily an end.
People who pass away do not just disappear forever, for they will always be amongst the living, immortalised in memory.
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im not afraid becoz i have said wat i want to say to my family and friends
i can go anytime without regrets.
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No
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errr...the strangest thing. I am destined to die within 3 to 5 years.
And i am pushing out of depression to annoy as much people as possible.
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Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
just know that those who live will die someday... i dont fear death, I fear of what happens after it... Its just fear of the unknown...
Agreed with you..sumtimes , during praying , sure got this kind of feeling one...the life after death...where u will be heeding to....u suddenly feel scared thinking of this...but thats life cycle.... -
death is not fearful,its the process of it approaching u tat is fearful.frm the time u r born,it creeps towards you.there is no escape as yet.but instead of cowering in fear of death, y not use the lil time you have b4 it approaches u to shine as brightly as you can?
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
errr...the strangest thing. I am destined to die within 3 to 5 years.
And i am pushing out of depression to annoy as much people as possible.
u r not destined to die within tat time,jus estimated.u might go much earlier or much later too..nothing is destined.its all choices..be strong and keep hoping.
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i wan to death so i could have a new life and this time i wan to change everything , the wrong step that i made. but i'm afraid of the pain . call me a coward, but if there's a way to die without pain i will.
but well.. get back to reality..
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dying will be so much fun ...
cuz i'm trying to act emo :D
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come! try and kill me!
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:s control your mind not to think of such inevitable stuff..waste time....
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Death is nothing to me already. I'd just lost my meaning and purpose of life.
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Death is nothing to me already. I'd just lost my meaning and purpose of life.
u're not the only emo
