Just friends...But she thinks i like her
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1. Talk casually
2. Talk with eye-contact
3. Sms her outside class to ask about her day
4. Call her
5. Ask her for lunch
6. Ask her out
7. Pay for her meals
8. Buy her gifts
Will any of these give gals the wrong idea that a guy is interested in her?
OOPS.i forgot to say that...i do only 1-5....6-8 is obvious e guy likes e gal le..but 1-5 isnt correct? =x
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yes.
so u have to be frank and says that you have no other intention except frenship
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Gals should be loved and cared. On occasion.. use and abuse. he he
'Hi, i am not trying to hit on you, i am just being normal. A friend. So please , then i pout my lips, it doesnt mean i am giving u a signal.'
I dont know about you guys. but yeah. lol
Whats wrong with paying for her meals ar! Have to shuo ming bai before meal ? lol!
*imagines the scenario*
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give wrong signal...
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U must in some way.. 'like' her to call her, ask her out. pay for her food, buy her gifts, talk witheye contact and all the stuff THere must be some notion of feelings to treat her that way. Unless u treat ALL women like that. Then i got nothing to say lo. ho ho
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TS, you must have liked her to do all those you listed. Your liking may not be the BGR type. YOu could be frank to her about it. Do it gently, don't hurt her.
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the more u tell her u dont like her and show her u dont like her, the more she will tend to like u..
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it all depends on how u approach her
in fact u can do 1 - 8, as long as there's no hint of any intimacy, she won't get the wrong idea.
eg. buying a bday card that reads "happy bday to my special one and only girl" as opposed to "happy bday for my wonderful friend".. ya, u get the idea
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3/4 is no no. especially 3....why would u sms a girl u dunno dun like to ask her hows her day =l
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u are making her feel this way. esp if u do all these things at one go. yes, why would you pay so much attention to what happen in her day when you are not interested in her?
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sms n ask how is her day becos i am bored? =x
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Originally posted by Darrenchoo:
sms n ask how is her day becos i am bored? =x
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Would you sms your guy friends this as well?
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Originally posted by technoboy:
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Would you sms your guy friends this as well?
lol pwned -
If im bored, will u sms me too?
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You like her anot?
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no, just friendly to everyone. n im more inclined to having female friends.. ^^
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Originally posted by Darrenchoo:
no, just friendly to everyone. n im more inclined to having female friends.. ^^
are you gay? -
y am i gay if i like to hang around girls? -_-''
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
U must in some way.. 'like' her to call her, ask her out. pay for her food, buy her gifts, talk witheye contact and all the stuff THere must be some notion of feelings to treat her that way. Unless u treat ALL women like that. Then i got nothing to say lo. ho ho
exactly. everytime something like this happens, my gf will say that its nothing la.. he treat me as friend only.. i also don't like him, don't have to worry.but even if she treats him only as a friend, it does not mean that he thinks the same way.. true enough after a few days or weeks, the true colours come out liao.. start calling names la.. say i miss you la.. all the hanky panky stuff..
also happened to my ex-gf before.. that "friend" of hers eventually has the guts to even touch her imtimately on many occasions.
why don't they understand that we guys can understand guys much much better than them.. like what maro says, they sure got an ulterior motive de unless they treat all their friends like this.. if that's the case then i'll that gladly shut my mouth.
*just to add on. i'm not trying to say that guys who contact or ask girls out have an ulterior motive.. only applies to guys who are persistent in doing it only to a particular girl. if you're a guy and disagrees with what i say, then you're probably 1 of those i'm mentioning about. =)
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u like her issit?
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You did more than you should...
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talk casually... means friend nia mah.. if talk with hestitate means confirm like liao lol
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Originally posted by Darrenchoo:
1. Talk casually
2. Talk with eye-contact
3. Sms her outside class to ask about her day
4. Call her
5. Ask her for lunch
6. Ask her out
7. Pay for her meals
8. Buy her gifts
Will any of these give gals the wrong idea that a guy is interested in her?
OOPS.i forgot to say that...i do only 1-5....6-8 is obvious e guy likes e gal le..but 1-5 isnt correct? =x
Even if you do from 1 to 8 repeatedly, it still doesn't means that the guy likes the girl.
At least not to me.
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Originally posted by parn:
Even if you do from 1 to 8 repeatly, it still doesn't means that the guy likes the girl.
At least not to me.
Sending 10 smses to ask how's my day will actually make me think you're mad.
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Originally posted by 16/f/lonely:
Sending 10 smses to ask how's my day will actually make me think you're mad.
Uncle....Who says I'm going to send you 10 smses per day?