A Cheating Poll

• Yunhaier

  11 Aug 08, 00:01

  It has been ages since I post any topic (pai seh, very, very busy with life and offline committment. Bontakun will know ).

  Just want to understand something from you forumers: which of the following, based on your own individual opinion - what would constitute a behaviour that you deemed as cheating? I will rank the following based on intensity, which means, if you cannot accept option II, it automatically means you will not be able to accept option III, IV and V. I have termed Option V, by default, as a cheating behaviour and of course, if anyone can tolerate that, please note with a reply.  

  The following options are:

  I) Having private dinner with the opposite gender.

  II) Hugging

  III) Holding Hands

  IV) Kissing

  V) Sex

  P.S: It would be good if you can explain the rationale of your choice. No right or wrong answer - open for discussion based on your opinion and what you believe in.

  Also, to be included in the poll, please indicate clearly your choice of answer. (Either option I, II, III, IV or V).  Thanks!

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  Total polled (23): laurence82, BrUtUs, Xelement, rainee, purpledragon84, laURanaBabe, deathwish, onigiri, 00king00, XxYaNxX, babyreyes, browniebaobao, Tim83, parn, Yuki~!, littlestream, CrabbyShaSha, oldbreadstinks, aHGer^83, theDoc-, HeiHao, Midlusionz, IceColdDiva

  I - 1 (4.3%)

  II - 10 (43.4%)

  III-  9 (39.1%)

  IV - 1 (4.3%)

  V- 2 (8.6%)

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  Cheers

• laurence82

  11 Aug 08, 00:04

  wtf

  i tot i am close to u and bonta

  why he know and i dont know

  now play what, me now outsider lar? nbz

   

• Yunhaier

  11 Aug 08, 00:06

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  wtf

  i tot i am close to u and bonta

  why he know and i dont know

  now play what, me now outsider lar? nbz

   

  /me pat pat.

  Why got outsider?! You are still considered insider to me leh.

  Cheers

• laurence82

  11 Aug 08, 00:07

  then?

  yandao, this is not the first time u hurt my feelings?

  but i will ans ur topic for u

  IV) Kissing

   

• Yunhaier

  11 Aug 08, 00:13

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  then?

  yandao, this is not the first time u hurt my feelings?

  but i will ans ur topic for u

  IV) Kissing

   

  Yay, first poll!

  Simi hurt feeling? Like macham I cheated you sia.

  Ok I need to koon liao. Tomorrow long day ahead. Will tabulate the score when I check in tomorrow.

  Oyasumi~

  Cheers

• laurence82

  11 Aug 08, 00:14

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Yay, first poll!

  Simi hurt feeling? Like macham I cheated you sia.

  Ok I need to koon liao. Tomorrow long day ahead. Will tabulate the score when I check in tomorrow.

  Oyasumi~

  Cheers

  of cuz

  u and bonta, isnt that cheating on me???

• laurence82

  11 Aug 08, 00:15

  u think u work for Statistics Dept ah?

  know the whole Statistics Act from cover to cover ah?

  oyasumi nasai

• FireIce

  11 Aug 08, 00:15

  OTHERS
  having the thought of cheating is already cheating
  

• BrUtUs

  11 Aug 08, 00:33

  option 3... without prper justification, tat already means she/he hving affair...

• sEphIrOth

  11 Aug 08, 00:51

  even option 2.....like above, no justification....then is liao.

• Xelement

  11 Aug 08, 01:17

  (lll)  Holding Hands

   

  hold hands walk on e road? i cannot think of other reasons lol

• MaNyZeR

  11 Aug 08, 03:08

  Wah!!

  Even for having private dinner I also not happy liao.. unless is long-time-no-see friend.

  For option 2: Hug, hold hands, kiss and sex.... straight away is cheating.. no excuses for me... even if got valid reasons, the feeling of betrayal would also linger around...

• Detached

  11 Aug 08, 06:38

  I'd say none of the above.

  My perspective might be warped, but I consider sex and love as discrete entities.

• Pitot

  11 Aug 08, 06:40

  OTHERS
  having the thought of cheating is already cheating

   

  i was thinking of this before i saw this post so just copy and paste.

• caleb_chiang

  11 Aug 08, 08:46

  I think all the above except is still okay if it was just friendly... unless there is more to that....

• charlize

  11 Aug 08, 10:01

  I suspect one of my friends is cheating with a married colleague in her office.

   

  How to deal with this situation ah?

• Fatum

  11 Aug 08, 10:11

  Originally posted by charlize:

  I suspect one of my friends is cheating with a married colleague in her office.

   

  How to deal with this situation ah?

  post in aunt agony of course ...

• laurence82

  11 Aug 08, 10:17

  Originally posted by caleb_chiang:

  I think all the above except is still okay if it was just friendly... unless there is more to that....

  
  if friendly kissing and hugging i understand

  but sex?

• cuddles

  11 Aug 08, 10:17

  other than 1.. the rest is basically cheating.

  option 2, unless a friendly brief hug with a super long time friend, if not also cheating..

• charlize

  11 Aug 08, 10:22

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  post in aunt agony of course ...

   

  I started a new topic on this in AA.

  Don't think I should hijack this thread.

• rainee

  11 Aug 08, 10:41

  Haha I am a very jealous person when it comes to this...I made it very clear from the beginning that one to one dinner is not tolerated as well...must at least have someone else there.

  So I guess Option 1

• purpledragon84

  11 Aug 08, 11:33

  must see what kind of situation la.. but anyway, i'll choose option 3..

• laURanaBabe

  11 Aug 08, 11:41

  i choose II

  Any form of physical touching is no no!

• rey619

  11 Aug 08, 11:43

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  
  if friendly kissing and hugging i understand

  but sex?

  wad abt chuck norris rhk?

• deathwish

  11 Aug 08, 11:44

  I pick 2.