The fears of success
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Here are 2 anecdotes I want each of everyone of yall to read. Please give your take after reading.
The Adult
You are in your prime. Your career's smooth sailing. Everyone looks at you in such divine light. Things seem to be going your way. All along, you had no premonition of D-day: the day when things crumble and your world falls apart. Your boss always pats you on the back for a job well done. Triumphant, you strut around, thinking you are the greatest, the happiest man on Earth. However, your work performance suddenly plunged. You tried your best, pumped in your best efforts but somehow everything doesn't seem the way it was before. Now everyone casts a totally different look at you. They treat you as though you are nothing, but a piece of trash.
The Kid
A studious kid you are. Exemplary in conduct and eminent in status. You snagged remarkable grades, and are always the envy of your classmates. However, you knew you put in tremedous efforts to get to where you are today. You knew you deserved that recognition. So you walked around, head up high, knowing full well that this is the harvest of hard work. You were almost flawless in your work. However one day, you flunk one of your tests. Everyone, friends and teachers alike, look at you, a disgruntled expression on their faces. Now you are treated like trash. A phobia now lingers... do you still have the courage to put in even more effort to study?
Questions I wanna pose: Is this Life? How would you feel if you were the protagonist in these 2 anecdotes?
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Originally posted by anpanman:
Here are 2 anecdotes I want each of everyone of yall to read. Please give your take after reading.
The Adult
You are in your prime. Your career's smooth sailing. Everyone looks at you in such divine light. Things seem to be going your way. All along, you had no premonition of D-day: the day when things crumble and your world falls apart. Your boss always pats you on the back for a job well done. Triumphant, you strut around, thinking you are the greatest, the happiest man on Earth. However, your work performance suddenly plunged. You tried your best, pumped in your best efforts but somehow everything doesn't seem the way it was before. Now everyone casts a totally different look at you. They treat you as though you are nothing, but a piece of trash.
The Kid
A studious kid you are. Exemplary in conduct and eminent in status. You snagged remarkable grades, and are always the envy of your classmates. However, you knew you put in tremedous efforts to get to where you are today. You knew you deserved that recognition. So you walked around, head up high, knowing full well that this is the harvest of hard work. You were almost flawless in your work. However one day, you flunk one of your tests. Everyone, friends and teachers alike, look at you, a disgruntled expression on their faces. Now you are treated like trash. A phobia now lingers... do you still have the courage to put in even more effort to study?
Questions I wanna pose: Is this Life? How would you feel if you were the protagonist in these 2 anecdotes?
Both protagonists in both anecdotes are losers in their real life. In fact, both protagonists were already losers in their own lives when they surrendered their own worth to the people in their society to decide.
In an ideal society where people are perfect, this may sounds like the right thing to do. However the society isn't perfect and neither were the people in the society. So to rely on an imperfect society full of imperfect people to decide your worth is truly living in a pathetic life indeed. It's almost the same as the protagonist asking the society "Am I a loser?". Only losers will ask this kind of question in their lives. But of course the only natural reply from the society would be "Of course you're not a loser". And this doesn't means anything when the comment does not truly generated from within yourself.
Losers like to live in a life of lies and denial and that's is the main reason why they seeks happiness from the people in their society. Because deep down within their hearts, they are not able to accept the truth about their own lives....which tells them that they are a failure.
And the answer to your question, everyone will eventually pulls themselves together and try to waste their lives seeking continual assurances from their society to convince themselves against the truth in their hearts that they are not a failure in their lives.
This is not really Life, but it is THE life for many, alot, plenty of people in this world.
Oh ya...a few fine examples of forumers living such loser lives would be Fantagf, HyperionDCZ, maurizio13, youyayu.
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Originally posted by parn:
Oh ya...a few fine examples of forumers living such loser lives would be Fantagf, HyperionDCZ, maurizio13, youyayu.
Such hatred... No offense, but do you know them personally parn? Not being outspoken or expressive is a bad judge of one's intelligence.
Well, last I checked, a significant number of the Singapore's top 40 richest and most successful men are not very well educated.
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At least they are not transsexual and are sure of their gender unlike Parn
Parn – once a man with a small dick with no direction in life went for NS and fell in love with one of the real man there. Too bad that real man wants a real woman and not a gay. Frustrated that the guy refuse to reciprocate his feeling Parn decided to go for transsexual ops and sniped (by the way it’s snip and not snipe which Parn so love to use. Can’t even use proper English yet always use bombastic words like Mongoloid and don’t even know the true meaning behind the word) off its dick hopefully to become a woman. After cutting off what little dick he has and implanting silicone breasts, Parn went after the real man again only to be spurned off once more as which real man wants a fake woman???!!! Parn then went berserk and became vindictive and cursing all Singapore men including his father! Wait! Let’s go further back to Parn the man-bitch background! In the first place does he even have a father to begin with? Perhaps Parn was artificially inseminated and was cultivated in a Petri dish! That could be the second reason why Parn hated Singapore men so much because he didn’t have a real man to nurture him in his growing years!
Ok, continuing on with the story of Parn the trans. So, Parn stuck in a fake woman body with no real man want seek out its frustration by seeking vengeance in the pixel world. Now, we all must try to understand why this man-bitch was so adamantly stupid in saying no girls want to go to bed before marriage. Well, that was because if Parn tries to go to bed with a real man and if the real man finds out it was actually a he before the real man will run for his life as he almost bed a transsexual. Damn! Fake boobies and fake cunny! The only consolation for bedding a trans is you can’t get it pregnant! Dang! Which real man wouldn’t want a family with a real woman giving birth to children when our government strongly encourages us to have more children!
And so, Parn the dickless man-bitch continues waging its war against real man but also secretly hoping one of the real man will accept it for who it is engaging it in its so call ‘intelligent’ conversation rather than engaging in sexual intercourse as husband and wife should do.
By the way you know why Parn can’t vote? Not because of being underage but because the government can’t decide which gender they should put it…Neither male nor female. I guess we should just label it as Pariah Parn
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People... please refrain from flaming.As much as I hate to intervene anything using power - please self regulate and avoid personal attacks.
If the trend of future posts in this topic are to continue in this fashion, this topic will be locked.
P.S: TS, apologies but feel free to start another topic if that happens.
Cheers
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clone epidemic?
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Clones have sad lives.
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Originally posted by Pariahparn:
At least they are not transsexual and are sure of their gender unlike Parn
Parn – once a man with a small dick with no direction in life went for NS and fell in love with one of the real man there. Too bad that real man wants a real woman and not a gay. Frustrated that the guy refuse to reciprocate his feeling Parn decided to go for transsexual ops and sniped (by the way it’s snip and not snipe which Parn so love to use. Can’t even use proper English yet always use bombastic words like Mongoloid and don’t even know the true meaning behind the word) off its dick hopefully to become a woman. After cutting off what little dick he has and implanting silicone breasts, Parn went after the real man again only to be spurned off once more as which real man wants a fake woman???!!! Parn then went berserk and became vindictive and cursing all Singapore men including his father! Wait! Let’s go further back to Parn the man-bitch background! In the first place does he even have a father to begin with? Perhaps Parn was artificially inseminated and was cultivated in a Petri dish! That could be the second reason why Parn hated Singapore men so much because he didn’t have a real man to nurture him in his growing years!
Ok, continuing on with the story of Parn the trans. So, Parn stuck in a fake woman body with no real man want seek out its frustration by seeking vengeance in the pixel world. Now, we all must try to understand why this man-bitch was so adamantly stupid in saying no girls want to go to bed before marriage. Well, that was because if Parn tries to go to bed with a real man and if the real man finds out it was actually a he before the real man will run for his life as he almost bed a transsexual. Damn! Fake boobies and fake cunny! The only consolation for bedding a trans is you can’t get it pregnant! Dang! Which real man wouldn’t want a family with a real woman giving birth to children when our government strongly encourages us to have more children!
And so, Parn the dickless man-bitch continues waging its war against real man but also secretly hoping one of the real man will accept it for who it is engaging it in its so call ‘intelligent’ conversation rather than engaging in sexual intercourse as husband and wife should do.
By the way you know why Parn can’t vote? Not because of being underage but because the government can’t decide which gender they should put it…Neither male nor female. I guess we should just label it as Pariah Parn
whos clone are u
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Originally posted by youyayu:
whos clone are u
Doesn't matter whose clone it belongs to.One thing for sure, the owner of the clone is a coward.
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Originally posted by parn:
Doesn't matter whose clone it belongs to.One thing for sure, the owner of the clone is a coward.
Or rather, I should put it differently.
We all put our real life under a facade, the internet. What bravery can be said from all this?
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Originally posted by Pariahparn:
At least they are not transsexual and are sure of their gender unlike Parn
Parn – once a man with a small dick with no direction in life went for NS and fell in love with one of the real man there. Too bad that real man wants a real woman and not a gay. Frustrated that the guy refuse to reciprocate his feeling Parn decided to go for transsexual ops and sniped (by the way it’s snip and not snipe which Parn so love to use. Can’t even use proper English yet always use bombastic words like Mongoloid and don’t even know the true meaning behind the word) off its dick hopefully to become a woman. After cutting off what little dick he has and implanting silicone breasts, Parn went after the real man again only to be spurned off once more as which real man wants a fake woman???!!! Parn then went berserk and became vindictive and cursing all Singapore men including his father! Wait! Let’s go further back to Parn the man-bitch background! In the first place does he even have a father to begin with? Perhaps Parn was artificially inseminated and was cultivated in a Petri dish! That could be the second reason why Parn hated Singapore men so much because he didn’t have a real man to nurture him in his growing years!
Ok, continuing on with the story of Parn the trans. So, Parn stuck in a fake woman body with no real man want seek out its frustration by seeking vengeance in the pixel world. Now, we all must try to understand why this man-bitch was so adamantly stupid in saying no girls want to go to bed before marriage. Well, that was because if Parn tries to go to bed with a real man and if the real man finds out it was actually a he before the real man will run for his life as he almost bed a transsexual. Damn! Fake boobies and fake cunny! The only consolation for bedding a trans is you can’t get it pregnant! Dang! Which real man wouldn’t want a family with a real woman giving birth to children when our government strongly encourages us to have more children!
And so, Parn the dickless man-bitch continues waging its war against real man but also secretly hoping one of the real man will accept it for who it is engaging it in its so call ‘intelligent’ conversation rather than engaging in sexual intercourse as husband and wife should do.
By the way you know why Parn can’t vote? Not because of being underage but because the government can’t decide which gender they should put it…Neither male nor female. I guess we should just label it as Pariah Parn
You have interesting nick, I like it. -
Originally posted by youyayu:
whos clone are u
What makes you think the person is a clone? The word clone is overused, misused. -
Originally posted by Beautiful951:
Or rather, I should put it differently.
We all put our real life under a facade, the internet. What bravery can be said from all this?
IF that is so, would there be a need for clones to exist?Certainly some people have already taken the internet as seriously as their real lives.
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the motive of clones is to create trouble, and stir up the emotions of people
dont fall for it
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Originally posted by parn:
IF that is so, would there be a need for clones to exist?Certainly some people have already taken the internet as seriously as their real lives.
Maybe they want to come back after being banned? For thy info, Clone is a word found only in this forum. As far as i know
Really? And are you one of them?
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Originally posted by rummage:
the motive of clones is to create trouble, and stir up the emotions of people
dont fall for it
I think that is troll not clone right? -
Originally posted by Beautiful951:
Maybe they want to come back after being banned? For thy info, Clone is a word found only in this forum. As far as i know
Really? And are you one of them?
Smart guy. -
Originally posted by Fantagf:
I think that is troll not clone right?it is someone who doesnt like parn
should be someone who had lost a flame war with her
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Originally posted by rummage:
it is someone who doesnt like parn
should be someone who had lost a flame war with her
Umm, I think you did not answer my question. H aha ha , never mind. -
Originally posted by Beautiful951:
Maybe they want to come back after being banned? For thy info, Clone is a word found only in this forum. As far as i know
Really? And are you one of them?
I don't need to clone myself. I thought you already knew? -
Originally posted by parn:
I don't need to clone myself. I thought you already knew?
the second reply is for the second question. -
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Umm, I think you did not answer my question. H aha ha , never mind.read properly
aka clone la
he/she no rikes parn, den create 1 nick to defame
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Originally posted by rummage:
read properly
aka clone la
he/she no rikes parn, den create 1 nick to defame
unless the person tells then I will know leh. What is troll then???? -
Originally posted by rummage:
read properly
aka clone la
he/she no rikes parn, den create 1 nick to defame
rummage, I don't take clones seriously.But I'm quite honoured that I have caused fear in the hearts of the clone owner that he/she has to restort to the cowardly act of hiding behind their clones.
I'm actually enjoying the process of degrading the behaviour of the clone owner.
And using clones to flame is not actually real flaming, it's human nature at its worst. I would like to see how far I can degrade the human nature of that clone owner.
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Originally posted by parn:
Both protagonists in both anecdotes are losers in their real life. In fact, both protagonists were already losers in their own lives when they surrendered their own worth to the people in their society to decide.
In an ideal society where people are perfect, this may sounds like the right thing to do. However the society isn't perfect and neither were the people in the society. So to rely on an imperfect society full of imperfect people to decide your worth is truly living in a pathetic life indeed. It's almost the same as the protagonist asking the society "Am I a loser?". Only losers will ask this kind of question in their lives. But of course the only natural reply from the society would be "Of course you're not a loser". And this doesn't means anything when the comment does not truly generated from within yourself.
Losers like to live in a life of lies and denial and that's is the main reason why they seeks happiness from the people in their society. Because deep down within their hearts, they are not able to accept the truth about their own lives....which tells them that they are a failure.
And the answer to your question, everyone will eventually pulls themselves together and try to waste their lives seeking continual assurances from their society to convince themselves against the truth in their hearts that they are not a failure in their lives.
This is not really Life, but it is THE life for many, alot, plenty of people in this world.
Oh ya...a few fine examples of forumers living such loser lives would be Fantagf, HyperionDCZ, maurizio13, youyayu.
Yea, I agree with you, parn. So to Fantagf, HyperionDCZ, maurizio13 and youyayu, let me give you an advice. As the saying goes: "no one in the world is perfect", please don't allow those imperfect people like parn affect you with their disparaging, and many times nonsensical, comments - simply put, ignore those people.