sigh master say my love life not good =(
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sigh that day i went to see my love life , the master told me my love life not good sigh. den they told me those guys who like me, they actually want to tell me they like me , but before they can tell me they go off le. sigh. den i cannot get married early cos i'd run away from my husband, and i keep liking wrong guy..sigh. i already so many years no bf le. everyone find the right person i keep on cannot find..i am quite pretty lor duno why like that sigh.
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Hmmm...what the master says does not necessarily always come true de ar..you cannot take it to seriously de ar..
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which bus was the master on?
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u posted it inside the wrong forum???
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Originally posted by Y_Shun:
u posted it inside the wrong forum???
Maybe the master was on the bus when he said those words to her XD -
thinkg hte master watch f1 n went blur:?>
The ferrari boss keep telling them use digi green-red light but...sigh I think the team in the pit dun want to ell boss lollipop man is better than the lights. and also dun want to ell massa they thinkg lollipop man using is better
Then the massa run away from pit stop too early with fuel hose in tow then on track keep making mistake as race progress. Massa car already so pretty good lor but sigh cant seem to win many more races due to wrong love...i mean wrong mistake. Sigh lor, his car so good but still cant win many race... sigh
yah he must be thinking the above...
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Originally posted by purpledragon84:
which bus was the master on?
ahhahahaha.
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since u said u quite pretty, sure the master not saying all these to 'chop' u for himself?
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Originally posted by Jacelyn20000:
sigh that day i went to see my love life , the master told me my love life not good sigh. den they told me those guys who like me, they actually want to tell me they like me , but before they can tell me they go off le. sigh. den i cannot get married early cos i'd run away from my husband, and i keep liking wrong guy..sigh. i already so many years no bf le. everyone find the right person i keep on cannot find..i am quite pretty lor duno why like that sigh.
Then take situations into your own hands. LEARN to differentiate between the good guys and bad. There are a lot of good books available in the library on dating. I read online stuff too, but upon comparison, I realize the more sensible and workable stuff are in those books. You can check the copyrights to see when the books are published to see if the books are recent. Else generally, the dynamics of attraction does not deviate far.
Socialize more and think about breaking out of your usual social circle to meet more friends. For example, if you like guys who are helpful and kind, try joining a volunteer group. I do not think it's easy to find good guys in clubs. Note: I do not mean there aren't good guys there, just that it is not easy. So the people whom you mix around with do matter. Of course, the first and main priority must be to make frens larh. If you go there as if you have a motive, people can sense it and will be turned off. There's nothing more than a heavy agenda that turns people off, so just enjoy and have fun. Good guys like to be known for who they are, not as if they are some special candidate for a marriage interview that they did not intend to go to in the first place! Then when sparks occur, it'll be a natural process. Also, it is much safer when you socialize in groups, you get to see how a guy behave among others, how he treats them and how he treats you amg them. These are things a guy would not tell you and even if he did, it would be hard to assess its accuracy because there are chances that a guy might lie. A guy fren once told me, believe only abt 50% of what a guy tells you, take the rest with a pinch of salt until he matches up with his actions consistently over a period of time. That is why it is important to pace oneself and keep in constant contact on and off instead of just plunging right into a relationship while desire blinds you. Women tend to go into their "feel" mode and think that a guy is right for them when he's not. And when women are emotionally invested, they tend to brush away all the little warning signs they have seen, ignore and forget, and help give the guy excuses in their mind. Instead of noting the warning signs, they keep reasoning them away by looking at a guy's good points ONLY. But they fail to remember traits like cheating for example, is enough to overthrow all the other good points unless they are contented to have a cheating boyfriend for their life partner.
Your case is not unique. There are many modern women now facing this problem. My fortune teller also says the same thing. However, I'm coming to believe that it is easier and easier for fortune teller to dish out the same prediction to women because this is a growing phenomenon amg us women. The only way to go around this? I believe is to get savvy and to give the good guys out there their deserving chance. So pace yourself, give all of them the same amt of time to see if good and bad patterns come out. Sometimes you might be surprise to find the guys you are initially attracted to are jerks and those that don't arouse much interest at first, turns out to be really wonderful and attractive, over time.
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this topic quite funny
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LOLLOL...i think bus forum can change to " Any topic forum" bah
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Originally posted by Roderick a.k.a Guai Kia:
LOLLOL…i think bus forum can change to ” Any topic forum” bah
maybe she was thinking abt this topic while sitting in a bus?
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change forum hosting to chit chat instead, will have more response there
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Originally posted by Jacelyn20000:
sigh that day i went to see my love life , the master told me my love life not good sigh. den they told me those guys who like me, they actually want to tell me they like me , but before they can tell me they go off le. sigh. den i cannot get married early cos i'd run away from my husband, and i keep liking wrong guy..sigh. i already so many years no bf le. everyone find the right person i keep on cannot find..i am quite pretty lor duno why like that sigh.
Also, I think pretty girls should all the more focus on their virtues and strength instead of their looks to attract the right guys. Because especially the prettier you are, you're gonna attract the bad guys too, who are in for nothing other than looks, and of course finding ways and means to land you in bed, in the name of "love".
It might be helpful to examine all the guys you have met and how you meet under what circumstances. And how are the guys generally like in certain groups. I believe then you'll be able to find a pattern and change your method to avoid meeting the wrong guys again.
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how come this post under singapore buses? i thought i went to the wrong section siol. lol
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She must be somebody clone.
SbsXXX
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serkarli the master ish the bus driver.
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Posting in bus forum means her love must be a bus lover or BC/SL. haha.
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Originally posted by Jacelyn20000:
sigh that day i went to see my love life , the master told me my love life not good sigh. den they told me those guys who like me, they actually want to tell me they like me , but before they can tell me they go off le. sigh. den i cannot get married early cos i'd run away from my husband, and i keep liking wrong guy..sigh. i already so many years no bf le. everyone find the right person i keep on cannot find..i am quite pretty lor duno why like that sigh.
Pretty doesn't mean u will get the right guy or good guy. Yr character and virtue, I will say is even more important than yr look in getting a good partner.
If u think just becos u got a pretty face and shall deserve a bf. U are horrible wrong and can keep waiting....
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Master of your own fate.. or being a slave to your master.
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Originally posted by Jacelyn20000:
sigh that day i went to see my love life , the master told me my love life not good sigh. den they told me those guys who like me, they actually want to tell me they like me , but before they can tell me they go off le. sigh. den i cannot get married early cos i'd run away from my husband, and i keep liking wrong guy..sigh. i already so many years no bf le. everyone find the right person i keep on cannot find..i am quite pretty lor duno why like that sigh.
You think you're that Mediacock actress is it?
Can pick a better actress or not?
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hahaha... u sound like someone very regular from this forums
i ish also a clone....muahahahahaha
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then go date or wait for the right person..
Look around u , maybe the right one is beside u ..
Jia you!
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Originally posted by CannyOng:
Pretty doesn't mean u will get the right guy or good guy. Yr character and virtue, I will say is even more important than yr look in getting a good partner.
If u think just becos u got a pretty face and shall deserve a bf. U are horrible wrong and can keep waiting....
Agree with what u mention. Jacelyn 20000 should open ur eye bigger to look out for the right guy. Dun worry abt how many years no BF, keep ur faith n when he appears, u will feel v blessed!I also long time no BF,almost 30yo, yet still happy as the day goes by. (",)