please give advice!
-
Recently my friend had a relationship with a guy. After hanging out for a year, he told her to sign up a telephone line for the guy's dad and he himself getting the handphone. However as time passed, they have broken up and he immediately return the sim card to her saying that it is her own responsibility and he won't wanna fork out a single cent to pay for the termination charges.
My friend is really very poor thing. Because of him, she got to give him money all the time becoz he complains he got no money. She is feeling very very lost now. We tried calling him and he just say us to go away. Wat can i do to help my friend??? Please give me some suggestions~~!! thank you
-
broken up but still must give him money?
-
Her: learn a lesson
What are you to her? What are you helping her? To what extend are you going to help her?
-
What else is there to do?
In the first place, it's a very foolish thing to listen to tat guy & subscribed the line for HIS DAD.
Continue to use the line since (assuming) the plan is for 2-years. Otherwise pay the termination fee & get it over once & for all.
Dun be naive, dun bother to call that guy anymore, there's no way he will take back the responsibility.
-
That guy is a total jackass. I suggest yur frenz terminate the line if she already got a line, else just use it or give her parent to use.
-
Originally posted by Ah^-^Boi:
Recently my friend had a relationship with a guy. After hanging out for a year, he told her to sign up a telephone line for the guy's dad and he himself getting the handphone. However as time passed, they have broken up and he immediately return the sim card to her saying that it is her own responsibility and he won't wanna fork out a single cent to pay for the termination charges.
My friend is really very poor thing. Because of him, she got to give him money all the time becoz he complains he got no money. She is feeling very very lost now. We tried calling him and he just say us to go away. Wat can i do to help my friend??? Please give me some suggestions~~!! thank you
Nothing she can do except learn from her mistake because legally the phone is registered under her
-
Originally posted by Ah^-^Boi:
Recently my friend had a relationship with a guy. After hanging out for a year, he told her to sign up a telephone line for the guy's dad and he himself getting the handphone. However as time passed, they have broken up and he immediately return the sim card to her saying that it is her own responsibility and he won't wanna fork out a single cent to pay for the termination charges.
My friend is really very poor thing. Because of him, she got to give him money all the time becoz he complains he got no money. She is feeling very very lost now. We tried calling him and he just say us to go away. Wat can i do to help my friend??? Please give me some suggestions~~!! thank you
in the 1st place, NEVER SIGN UP ANY THING FOR ANYONE unless there's a black and white between u n the fella b4 that. with that pc of black and white, can bring the fella to court if he deny anything.but y she foolish until sign up line for his dad? her signature, her add. if she dun pay, she's gonna keep gettin lawyer's letter and later, blacklisted and alot of things cannot be done if she wants to sign up for other lines.
she will have to learn this lesson that not everyone (even bf/hubby/bestfrens/family) can be trusted.
he SAY he no $$$.. SAY nia... u see if u say u got no $$, wad will she do? for herself, she really cant do anything but to terminate the line n after that, do ntng with that jerk.
for u, as a fren, do stand by her. that's the best u can do now.
-
sad to say, but a sucker is born everyday .. tell your friend don't be sad ... life have to go on ... treat it as a lesson learn ... better to know now then later . she will lose so much more ... damn that jerk . . ..
-
Just ask your friend to say okay and accept paying the termination fee, and then give that dude such a swift kick in the groin that he is in pain and can't walk for two weeks and say that is her own termination fee for the relationship...
-
In life, there is bound to be these kind of people around. Get on with life. Just because she met with this person then she's lost. Then what about many other people who also encounter this kind of stuff.
People who can suffer through hardship will emerge out to be a stronger person. Really.
Money that is lost can be earned back. Feelings are broken but when time goes by, it will soothe out. Just bear with it during this time. She'll meet her fateful guy one day. Just have to be patient.
-
Originally posted by Ah^-^Boi:
Recently my friend had a relationship with a guy. After hanging out for a year, he told her to sign up a telephone line for the guy's dad and he himself getting the handphone. However as time passed, they have broken up and he immediately return the sim card to her saying that it is her own responsibility and he won't wanna fork out a single cent to pay for the termination charges.
My friend is really very poor thing. Because of him, she got to give him money all the time becoz he complains he got no money. She is feeling very very lost now. We tried calling him and he just say us to go away. Wat can i do to help my friend??? Please give me some suggestions~~!! thank you
wtf... the guy really bu yao liao.. fucking gigaloo
-
Originally posted by Ah^-^Boi:
Recently my friend had a relationship with a guy. After hanging out for a year, he told her to sign up a telephone line for the guy's dad and he himself getting the handphone. However as time passed, they have broken up and he immediately return the sim card to her saying that it is her own responsibility and he won't wanna fork out a single cent to pay for the termination charges.
My friend is really very poor thing. Because of him, she got to give him money all the time becoz he complains he got no money. She is feeling very very lost now. We tried calling him and he just say us to go away. Wat can i do to help my friend??? Please give me some suggestions~~!! thank you
You can help your friend to absorb her expenses to terminate the sim card.You can help the guy by beating him up daily on his way home until he becomes retarded.
That guy does not deserves forgiveness nor mercy, he needs to be beaten up till he becomes retarded permanently.
Some TRASH don't deserves to be recycled, they just need to be incinerated.
-
Erm....in the first place...why did she still give him money? Your friend should stand up for herself and ignore this guy...i assume that any hope of getting her money back is pretty low...its the best that she doesn't have anymore to do with him anymore...
-
Useless guy. shld be castrated.
-
Originally posted by Ah^-^Boi:
Recently my friend had a relationship with a guy. After hanging out for a year, he told her to sign up a telephone line for the guy's dad and he himself getting the handphone. However as time passed, they have broken up and he immediately return the sim card to her saying that it is her own responsibility and he won't wanna fork out a single cent to pay for the termination charges.
My friend is really very poor thing. Because of him, she got to give him money all the time becoz he complains he got no money. She is feeling very very lost now. We tried calling him and he just say us to go away. Wat can i do to help my friend??? Please give me some suggestions~~!! thank you
Keep talking to your friend, get her to cut off all contact with him. No reason he should be still getting money from her. Even as friends it's too much to always keep taking money from your friend.
Like somebody else has said, either use the SIM card or terminate, no point incurring further charges.
Ultimately, end it and move on. As friends, maybe be around with her so she won't have chance to be lonely and get exploited by that guy agian.
If it were up to me, I'd and any friends involved would pay for the termination of the both the spare SIM card and her current SIM card, then get her to register a new number.