my date from hell
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ok, this is my story.
don't ask me why, don't ask me how. this was what happened.
recently, i got to know a woman online.
it was after some months before we agreed to meet up last sunday.
although when i first saw her, i knew she was not my type. still, i played a good host to her by treating her to dinner, and then coffee at Coffee Bean. i just treated it as making a new friend.
however, here comes the problem. during our conversation, i felt as if i was criminal being interrogated by the police. she was bombarding me with all sorts of embarassing and very private questions. examples like " how much you earn? got 4k? or 5k?", " how many exs you have? do you "do" with your exs?", " and when you don't have gf, how do you release yourself? go geylang?", etc, etc....
i was simply dumbfounded..... surely, this isn't something that first-time friends would discuss so openly about, i thought.
i felt my modesty had been insulted.... it was really an ordeal, and i was feeling very uncomfortable. so after we finished our coffee, i made up an excuse that my friends were asking me to join them at coffeeshop for kopi, and we parted ways.
i thought it was all over, until she began to send smses to me right after our meeting.... and calls in the next morning. all of which i didn't reply, as i didn't want her to misunderstand.
then, her smses became more offensive.... even branding me a "bastard", simply because i didn't respond to her.... so i replied an sms to her saying, " hi,xxx. look. i've already treated you to dinner and coffee... so i dun owe you anything already. now what is yer problem?"
her reply was a sharp rebuttal asking me why i was so angry, etc,etc.... i was again dumbfounded.....
ok, so i tried to use a softer approach....by smsing her an apology and asking her " to cherish the good memories of our 1st meeting, and move on. thks".
then i got an even more shocking reply from her.... she said that the first meeting was too short to have any good memories. then she offered me an NSA relationship, and asked if i'd love it... to which, i didn't reply, as i thought it was nonsensical.
an hour later, she smsed me that she was just joking and "didn't want a man who was already "close" with his exs... dunno whether got HIV or not."
at that point i was really mad.... what did i do to her to invite such an insult, not just on myself but also my exs.
i replied in a rather stern manner. i texted, " hey, u damn free, is it? dun talk like u r so noble leh. true frens dun do those kinds of things u r doing to me. pls stop yer call/sms right now. i've kept records of all yer smses. stop it now, b4 i lodge a report."
i thought that sms ought to end it all.... but to my dismay, she sent me yet another more insulting sms this time, calling me a "pervert" who made her want to vomit, and ordered me not to msg and disturb her again, saying we are now enemies, no more friends.yet again, i was struck dumb.
???? man, did this ever happen to you before?
it's probably one of my worst nightmares, my date from hell.
so far, i've not received anymore calls/smses from her.... i hope it stays that way. -
I guess, she's toying with you.
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Is she angel7030...?
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What is NSA relationship?
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OMG she is crazy
curious question how old is she
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Maybe she just need attentions
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now you know how to reject people totally so won't get into this kind of shit
good learning experience
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Singaporean girls are so down to earth, they don't waste much time do they, first date already ask your pay packet.
If I get asked such questions, normally I tell them I don't make any money at all.
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
Singaporean girls are so down to earth, they don't waste much time do they, first date already ask your pay packet.
If I get asked such questions, normally I tell them I don't make any money at all.
It all comes down to human moral and values...shes a whore
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
Singaporean girls are so down to earth, they don't waste much time do they, first date already ask your pay packet.
If I get asked such questions, normally I tell them I don't make any money at all.
Or, maybe you can tell them that you earn a million a month but none of it will go to them
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The TS should have just said he was earning $1K a month as a plumber or was unemployed.
The next sms he would get from her would be "Don't call me. I'll call you"
Kind of like what job interviewers will tell you when you don't get the job.
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Originally posted by charlize:
The TS should have just said he was earning $1K a month as a plumber or was unemployed.
The next sms he would get from her would be "Don't call me. I'll call you"
Kind of like what job interviewers will tell you when you don't get the job.
Say, aren't you suppose to be asleep at this time?
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Originally posted by charlize:
The TS should have just said he was earning $1K a month as a plumber or was unemployed.
The next sms he would get from her would be "Don't call me. I'll call you"
Kind of like what job interviewers will tell you when you don't get the job.
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Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
It all comes down to human moral and values...shes a whore
Sounds like someone I know in sgForums, won't be surprised if parn goes on a first date asking this sort of question.
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
Say, aren't you suppose to be asleep at this time?
where is he by the way
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
Sounds like someone I know in sgForums, won't be surprised if parn goes on a first date asking this sort of question.
So jialat ah?
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Wow...and I thought the guys are bad.
The 1st part, I tot is because she wants to seems disgusting with you because she didnt think you are her type too.
But the last part, that sounded like so many of the guys I met online. Most of them, when ganna rejected or exposed to their serious pervase way, responded that they are the right and whoever that dont like them is ugly and perverse instead.
they constantly think that they have to justify themselves by claiming other party is ugly. To the extent of making it known to everyone, announcing to the world how ugly other person is, and that only he, himself is a saint because of the nice things he did.
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or maybe she is thinking of getting married crazy due to not young or have baby want to find someone to be the father btw all this is just assume
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
What is NSA relationship?
no strings attached.
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Originally posted by JerryYan:
where is he by the way canada ? wat time now ?
Suspected. -
Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
So jialat ah?
You pm her ask for first date lor.
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NSA = no sex allowed
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
You pm her ask for first date lor.
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Originally posted by skythewood:
NSA = no sex allowed
Now this really sound like a g/f I know.She priced herself so high cos shes a 35 year old virgin, that men around her cannot afford her.
But she is so desperate for a relationship to prove that she isnt unwanted, she pushed herself on people she thinks ios up to her standard.
And when that person does not want her. She scolded the guy saying he was all sort of things.
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haha~