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  • M the name's Avatar
    1,763 posts since Mar '09
    • Originally posted by Sango 1981:

      I am extremely touched by a stranger who understands my plights. He is unlike my former schoolmates who have started calling me retarded in another forum and he has also given me some advice. Really thanks him for making my day a hopeful one.


      What advices does the stranger give you ?

      And didn't said I didn't help. you can look for social services like the below to help you since they are more "professional"

      1) Centre for Promoting Alternatives to Violence (PAVe) : http://www.pavecentre.org.sg

      2) Coalition Against Bullying for Children & Youth (CABCY) : http://nypinfo.com/Cabcy

      3) Samaritans Of Singapore : http://www.samaritans.org.sg

      You can also read up on book : "
      Breaking the Silence: Bullying in Singapore (2010)" for ideas by the same author from CABCY

       

  • alize's Avatar
    3,369 posts since Dec '10
    • Why don't you take your meds.

      There was only one Edwin in the whole school at the time. Everybody knew him and knew he was poor.

  • Sango 1981's Avatar
    20 posts since Jun '12
  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
  • Sango 1981's Avatar
    20 posts since Jun '12
  • M the name's Avatar
    1,763 posts since Mar '09
    • Didn't your lectuer or "teachers" do anything is there are abuse taking place in SMU.

      Anyway if you really cannot tolerate your classmate, you can always request to change learning schedule to avoid that "Edwin", for example if you have classes in Mon, Wed and Fri, you can request to attend Tuesday, Thurday or maybe just one Friday crash with "Edwin". If it is minor, I suggest you look for professional help as stated above thread I posted.

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • Originally posted by Sango 1981:

      Please stop replying to my thread, my dear angel7030, if you are unable to advise me on how to stop those people from attacking me, as I don't need another attacker like you in my life!


      I am just doing a reverse pyschology on you, my diagnosis on you is that, you cannot even take on a simple forum comment, guess it will be very difficult for you to justify that you are being bullied.

      Mentally speaking, you are only torturing yourself, and if I am one of your U mate, I might also bully you for your stupidity and straight jacket attitude. Guess you aint a sociable player afterall, and as for forum, if you want to post, be prepare to get negative comment that could be in a way help you.

      Go see a neurologist, then claim from me at 22, joo chiat Road ya

  • Sango 1981's Avatar
    20 posts since Jun '12
  • bullybuster's Avatar
    6 posts since Jul '12
    • Angel17030, for your information, what you are doing is not reverse psychology. What you are actually doing is cyber-bullying. And please refrain from telling someone he is stupid, when you seem to be the one who is, because you have just shown it by referring Sango to a neurologist, not a psychologist. Don't play a psychologist when you obviously meant to do more damage psychologically.

  • speakoutfor's Avatar
    838 posts since Jan '12
  • Sango 1981's Avatar
    20 posts since Jun '12
  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif Wow! sound like history repeating itself. My goodness, from SMU somemore and also got a bullybuster..icon_lol.gif.

      Glad that I agitated you, that is the purpose.

  • Sango 1981's Avatar
    20 posts since Jun '12
  • bullybuster's Avatar
    6 posts since Jul '12
    • I am definitely not  agitated angel17030. I am pretending very hard to digest what you mean with your lame excuses. But how does one digest something that's even hard to swallow? You make me puke, with your utter stupidity, there is no time to get agitated.

      Another point that you should learn Angel17030 - One of the bully's characterisitc is to purposely agitatate to cause social undermining. You are a certified bully.

      Sango, you are right, the bullies are the ones needing not only a psychologist but a comprehensive psychiatric work-up for their personality and behavioral disorders.

       

    • I've been reading your thread Sango, and I say you are in the right track, if you had arrived at the realization that those bullies are the ones needing psychiatric help.

      You asked for advise on how to stop them, and I say don't waste time to try to stop them. They can choose to continue what they've been doing, but you can also choose to refuse being a victim in a manner that does not feed their bullying nature. The more affected you are by what they do, the more they have power over you. If you feel like you're a victim, fine. But at least learn to use that feeling into advantage; and use to advantage as well what they do to you. Learn from the bad experience they are exposing you to. If you had realized that you will not ever become like them, and that instead of getting put down by such experience you would resolve to help others who are also in the same situation as you; then you are learning right.

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • You post only 5 post and want to bully other, not fair, not fair , not fair...I go complain to mod, my Queen!

  • bullybuster's Avatar
    6 posts since Jul '12
    • Silly Angel. What's not fair? You don't recognize it? You were not bullied back. You were just given a dose of your own medicine.

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • On the 6 posts, you call me silly...ARRRGGGhhh! I feel like making curry out of you!

  • Jocelyntxh's Avatar
    253 posts since Jul '12
    • People who bully are just too bored or may have been bullied earlier...

      Dun even bother confronting them..

      IGNORE!

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