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  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • For me, I see her bf on that day must have had a few sex with other girls in the early morning, and that is why at the particular night, he is not interested, most probably tired and fed up with sex.

      Then on someday, a few day without sex, and with a sex maniac mentality, he needs a release, then he will keep pestering you for sex,

      Hope TS understand now that why sometime he needs sex, and why sometime he do not needs. Men takes sex like eating food, once full already, you give him whole body also he not interested ya.

  • Yeom89's Avatar
    3 posts since Aug '12
    • But the thing is, he was the one who initiated it that night and he led me on. It was only really until the last min, he realised he was tired (he claimed). So I got a bit stunned and upset, then seeing me upset, he wanna do it for real again but I told him no lah forget it I'm not in the mood alr. 
      After that incident, he still continues to ask for it. So I'm really not sure what he's thinking. He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt. But I admit, I was very determined not to do it in the past so I'd always reject him straight. Maybe this time he was surprised that I was actually willing. sad.gif haizzzz so complicated that I don't know what he wants. Any guys opinions pls?
  • [imdestinyz]'s Avatar
    1,361 posts since Jan '11
    • Originally posted by Yeom89:
      But the thing is, he was the one who initiated it that night and he led me on. It was only really until the last min, he realised he was tired (he claimed). So I got a bit stunned and upset, then seeing me upset, he wanna do it for real again but I told him no lah forget it I'm not in the mood alr. 
      After that incident, he still continues to ask for it. So I'm really not sure what he's thinking. He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt. But I admit, I was very determined not to do it in the past so I'd always reject him straight. Maybe this time he was surprised that I was actually willing. sad.gif haizzzz so complicated that I don't know what he wants. Any guys opinions pls?


      doesnt sound quite right :)

  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • Originally posted by angel7030:

      For me, I see her bf on that day must have had a few sex with other girls in the early morning, and that is why at the particular night, he is not interested, most probably tired and fed up with sex.

      Then on someday, a few day without sex, and with a sex maniac mentality, he needs a release, then he will keep pestering you for sex,

      Hope TS understand now that why sometime he needs sex, and why sometime he do not needs. Men takes sex like eating food, once full already, you give him whole body also he not interested ya.


      you are worng. one day i can shoot many times. that guys is weak lah icon_lol.gif

  • mancha's Avatar
    8,961 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by Yeom89:
      But the thing is, he was the one who initiated it that night and he led me on. It was only really until the last min, he realised he was tired (he claimed). So I got a bit stunned and upset, then seeing me upset, he wanna do it for real again but I told him no lah forget it I'm not in the mood alr. 
      After that incident, he still continues to ask for it. So I'm really not sure what he's thinking. He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt. But I admit, I was very determined not to do it in the past so I'd always reject him straight. Maybe this time he was surprised that I was actually willing. sad.gif haizzzz so complicated that I don't know what he wants. Any guys opinions pls?

      "He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt"

      This is a classic line for guys to coerce sex from their gf. Together with "If you love me, you should let me do it."

      Don't fall for it.

      You should not love hopefully, looking into the future with dreamy eyes.

      But rather, act carefully, so that in future, you look back with love in your eyes.

      Look back the one month, do you love him? Do you admire him? Are you proud of him?

      Too soon to tell, right.

       

  • [imdestinyz]'s Avatar
    1,361 posts since Jan '11
    • and yes “He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt” is what usually guys would say in an attempt to get what they want. The moment a lady goes emotionally into it, he usually gets what he wants… but it doesn’t mean that there’s no sense in that sentence that he says though… i believe it breeds understanding, whether there is sex anot. Whether he respects your wish for abstinence or that he pushes for sex, it will just make you know him better.

  • jojobeach's Avatar
    8,349 posts since Apr '07
    • Originally posted by Yeom89:
      But the thing is, he was the one who initiated it that night and he led me on. It was only really until the last min, he realised he was tired (he claimed). So I got a bit stunned and upset, then seeing me upset, he wanna do it for real again but I told him no lah forget it I'm not in the mood alr. 
      After that incident, he still continues to ask for it. So I'm really not sure what he's thinking. He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt. But I admit, I was very determined not to do it in the past so I'd always reject him straight. Maybe this time he was surprised that I was actually willing. sad.gif haizzzz so complicated that I don't know what he wants. Any guys opinions pls?

      I am not sure what exactly u see in this guy that makes u lose your senses. Perhaps your inexperience maybe ?

      This guy is a manipulator, using guilt and preying on your ignorance.

      If sex does make a couple grow closer, why didn't it work for his previous relationships?

      He had sex with his ex gf(s) it didn't help make them closer, on the contrary , they are no longer together. 

      So that claim holds no water. It's just meant to manipulate you into giving him what he wants on your own free will. 

      Frankly, he is quite good at teasing you. Frustrating you and making you feel guilty about not giving him what he wants. 

      Like a cat teasing a frightened mouse before gobbling its prey.

       

      Edited by jojobeach 13 Aug `12, 11:49PM
  • Vince_Banana's Avatar
    1 post since Aug '12
    • Originally posted by troublemaker2005:

      there'sore you can do other than sex in a relationship. like me and angel - we photoshoot, in hotel room. icon_lol.gif


  • brandonmania's Avatar
    13 posts since Jul '12
    • i think u had made a right choice. Now i have doubt over if he is really trustworthy.

      Originally posted by Yeom89:

      Thanks for all the replies! smile.gif appreciated them greatly. 

      I've been a no premarital sex person until I met him. But I really do want to spend my life with him while he sees that he's unworthy of me because of his past. I don't see any issues though because I love him and what's most impt is our future ahead. 

      Anyway, he wanted it last night but I told him no. Cos I'm not too sure what he's thinking again. He said he was too tired the other night but hey! He was the one who initiated everything and stopped at the last point. Whether he playing mind games with me or whatever, I've decided not to give in easily again. smile.gif


  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • Originally posted by brandonmania:

      i think u had made a right choice. Now i have doubt over if he is really trustworthy.

       


      if not 'thrustwortthy', like angel get a stradon gadget, apply lubriacant - he should be 'thrustworthy'. icon_lol.gif

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • Guess we will further comment after you have sex with him, that will be part 2 of your Love and Sex story.

      For some sound advices, I can only say that after he had sex with you, most probably, like my sista jojo said, game over.

      You see, man who keep asking for sex are actually nothing but sex maniac, in love, sex come naturally, you do not have to ask for it, so for him, women are like cars, drive this, tested that, throw away, then go drive another one. As a smart girl, you should know what I meant, if not, go back to sex education again ya

  • mr music's Avatar
    255 posts since Mar '12
  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
  • Army 21's Avatar
    548 posts since Jun '12
    • he didnt do it because he probably ate something wrong .

      did he also look on the day with:

      1)clammy and cold face with sweat

      2)uneasiness

      3)slow movement

      if above is correct he probably has a simple case of food poisoning.

      who is making the whole nite outing look like rocket science??!!!such a simple thing also ask and ask....tsk...

  • speakoutfor's Avatar
    838 posts since Jan '12
    • Originally posted by Yeom89:
      But the thing is, he was the one who initiated it that night and he led me on. It was only really until the last min, he realised he was tired (he claimed). So I got a bit stunned and upset, then seeing me upset, he wanna do it for real again but I told him no lah forget it I'm not in the mood alr. 
      After that incident, he still continues to ask for it. So I'm really not sure what he's thinking. He was the one who told me that couples should make love to grow closer tgt. But I admit, I was very determined not to do it in the past so I'd always reject him straight. Maybe this time he was surprised that I was actually willing. sad.gif haizzzz so complicated that I don't know what he wants. Any guys opinions pls?


      Maybe me and you should demonstrate in front of him, how a REAL MAN should make love to you in bed.

      I can give training and free lesson. He can watch while we make love.

      I am expert in reverse cowgirl, minister and lotus position.

       

  • soleachip's Avatar
    7,209 posts since Jun '07
    • Originally posted by Yeom89:

      I guess I was prepared already to give myself totally to him, and at the last moment before he inserted into me, he turned away, laughed and said 'Now you're ready and I'm not.' He said he loves me too much and he knows that I see virginity as smt very impt and he wants me sure that he's worthy of it. Why didn't he want to do it with me when he's been asking for it? I'm confused..

      If I were to hazard a guess, performance anxiety tops the list. 

      Why do you want to sleep with him anyway? Are you coerced (whether psychologically or emotionally) or sexually curious? 

  • speakoutfor's Avatar
    838 posts since Jan '12
    • Originally posted by soleachip:

      If I were to hazard a guess, performance anxiety tops the list. 

      Why do you want to sleep with him anyway? Are you coerced (whether psychologically or emotionally) or sexually curious? 


      I wonder why this lady want to sleep with a loser like him.

      Sleep with me ! I will give her the sexual pleasures of a life time !

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