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  • gunner77's Avatar
    41,027 posts since Apr '06
  • speakoutfor's Avatar
    838 posts since Jan '12
    • Originally posted by jojobeach:

      Ignore those racist and ignorant posts by stupid forumers.

      Even if you marry a Chinese guy, there's no guarantee u willbe treated well. A Chinese guy is also capable of abusing and betraying. They are also prone to wife beatings and other vices, just like any man with a dick.

      You need to understand that whoever u choose, your parents just want to be sure he will not only treat u well now, but in the long term. No matter what color he is, he must be able to take good care , respect and love you for life.

      Remember this, you cannot fool your parents. They know that any man who is after your vagina will be nice to you now. It may be a different story after he marries u and have kids. 

      Singapore is becoming too diverse nowadays, there will be more and more cross cultural and Inter racial marriages/ relationships in our country.

      Your parents will be more cautious because of stereotypical perception due to his culture. 

      If he can treat you well,  keep you happy and prove his sincerity, your parents will eventually accept him. So give them some time and be patient. Ease them in, don't shock them with a bomb. 

      Let them know he is a really nice guy, and let him be himself in front of your family.

       

       

       

      Ignore those post by stupid lady who doesn't know her husband is having an affair with another man (he is not interested in vagina so must be in guy's....) also one that abuse her own child with extreme sex education.

      This lady is so dumb, her advice is so callous. Of course all men are after lady vagina.

       

       

  • mancha's Avatar
    8,961 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by mcsy86:


      I'm ok with any race as long as it doesn't clash with my culture and does not prohibit any meat intake. I can't give up good food ever in my life. How can I tell if he's the modern type of singh?

      You have to do your homework.

      Learn about other peoples culture, religion, lifestyle. I am not saying adopt them, just know first, and see if they apeal to you or they go against the grain. Please go find out by yourself, don't ask people to feed you info.

      Sikhs are very family/community oriented, so please enter or stay away with knowledge and not ignorance. 

      Usualy the modern singh is the one with a hair cut and without turban, like Gurmit Singh. But that is not an true assessment, some good Sikhs don't wear turbans, but observe all the other precepts. Some have turbans/beards but is the life of the party.

      I have a few Sikh men/Chinese wife friends, and the men are turbaned and bearded while the wife retains her Chinese identity. So it is a meeting of two cultures for the children, and they follow the father because of the strong  family and community ties.

      Does your Punjabi bf fit the bill? Find out more.

  • Uraniumfish's Avatar
    1,972 posts since Mar '08
    • Originally posted by mancha:

      You have to do your homework.

      Learn about other peoples culture, religion, lifestyle. I am not saying adopt them, just know first, and see if they apeal to you or they go against the grain. Please go find out by yourself, don't ask people to feed you info.

      Sikhs are very family/community oriented, so please enter or stay away with knowledge and not ignorance. 

      Usualy the modern singh is the one with a hair cut and without turban, like Gurmit Singh. But that is not an true assessment, some good Sikhs don't wear turbans, but observe all the other precepts. Some have turbans/beards but is the life of the party.

      I have a few Sikh men/Chinese wife friends, and the men are turbaned and bearded while the wife retains her Chinese identity. So it is a meeting of two cultures for the children, and they follow the father because of the strong  family and community ties.

      Does your Punjabi bf fit the bill? Find out more.

      Off topic: Isn't gurmit singh mixed race?

  • mcsy86's Avatar
    117 posts since Feb '12
    • Thanks for everyone’s advice and critics. Now I knowe where I stand.

      Btw, he’s not my bf yet.

  • Reactornine1's Avatar
    2 posts since Sep '12
  • mcsy86's Avatar
    117 posts since Feb '12
    • Originally posted by Reactornine1:

      beautiful white girls always superior..u know it..lol


      not all. we are all human beings. we just come in different colors and from different parts of the world.

  • speakoutfor's Avatar
    838 posts since Jan '12
  • mcsy86's Avatar
    117 posts since Feb '12
    • Originally posted by speakoutfor:

      Well if you change your mind, you can always PM me.

       


      whether I change my mind or not, can I still pm you? >:)

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
  • speakoutfor's Avatar
    838 posts since Jan '12
    • Originally posted by mcsy86:


      whether I change my mind or not, can I still pm you? >:)


      Of course. PM me. We can start a non-punjabi relationship.

  • Bio-Hawk's Avatar
    1,009 posts since May '10
  • Uraniumfish's Avatar
    1,972 posts since Mar '08
    • Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:

      Please save urself from destroying his and ur life.

      The real question here is: IS GURMIT SINGH MIXED RACE??!?

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