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  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • no doubt there is another side of jojobitch.

      Edited by troublemaker2005 12 Sep `12, 9:24AM
  • M the name's Avatar
    1,763 posts since Mar '09
  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • Originally posted by angel7030:


      Well well, there is also another side of Troubleshit


      comon, you like so many side so many pattern, i want side you also know. dirty

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • Originally posted by angel7030:

      You want sai, go toilet and find lah...


      you really grandmaster level, shit also can come out haizz.. this girl...

  • Uraniumfish's Avatar
    1,972 posts since Mar '08
  • clasimzy's Avatar
    2 posts since Sep '12
    • TroubleTeen I guess that it will be the deadline for you. But I wish you to try your best and never give up. '' You can do anything you want to, as long as you set your mind to it'' Good luck!!! 

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • I guess it is better not to set deadline, but rather an imaginery line, do not put ourselve into a stressful position with deadline, just go on and try your best, after that, it is all up to fate, without any deadline, you can go on forever, as long as you love or like, that someone will alway have a place in your heart.

      Let things flow as it is, resistance will create friction either with someone, or with oneself. Whatever want to come, shall come, whatever want to go, even you block all entries, it will find way to go.

  • foreveralone's Avatar
    24 posts since Apr '12
    • Hi TS, excellent post you made her as I can relate to it as well. I've had a long time crush on a girl, from primary school mind you!!

      However I learned that it is best that you move on because there is no other way! The thing is, there is NO resolution to this other than moving on into getting your own relationship with another girl.

      You see, I am getting married soon, but I still adore the girl I had a huge crush on so many years ago. Maybe that's why they say old flame never dies and childhood sweetheart is the most painful and emotional turmoil to overcome.

      I hope I have at least encouraged you to look outside as I have gone through the same path before. I have to admit that even now with my perfect relationship and future, no one and nothing can replace that feeling I have for that girl I have so longed to have.

      I try to use that to my advantage now by savoring the emotions I get. Bittersweet and painful but good. Sounds sick I know but you are SOL.

  • angel7030's Avatar
    30,628 posts since Jul '07
    • Originally posted by foreveralone:

      Hi TS, excellent post you made her as I can relate to it as well. I've had a long time crush on a girl, from primary school mind you!!

      However I learned that it is best that you move on because there is no other way! The thing is, there is NO resolution to this other than moving on into getting your own relationship with another girl.

      You see, I am getting married soon, but I still adore the girl I had a huge crush on so many years ago. Maybe that's why they say old flame never dies and childhood sweetheart is the most painful and emotional turmoil to overcome.

      I hope I have at least encouraged you to look outside as I have gone through the same path before. I have to admit that even now with my perfect relationship and future, no one and nothing can replace that feeling I have for that girl I have so longed to have.

      I try to use that to my advantage now by savoring the emotions I get. Bittersweet and painful but good. Sounds sick I know but you are SOL.

      Sound like you have a crush on everybody, luckily I never met up with you, sure to get you another crush, and oh, by the way, after you married, get a crush on your mother in laws ya, your father in laws will be grateful to you

  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • Originally posted by angel7030:

      Sound like you have a crush on everybody, luckily I never met up with you, sure to get you another crush, and oh, by the way, after you married, get a crush on your mother in laws ya, your father in laws will be grateful to you


      angel, please don;t feed this one. this type worse than me, is any charbor will like. at least i only like you one only.

  • Discord's Avatar
    36 posts since Nov '12
    • I would suggest you let it go....even if she gets back with you she may just talk to another guy behind your back

  • Domdom_wassup's Avatar
    30 posts since Sep '12
    • If she likes you and really likes you, she will leave that guy alrdy. Some girls just like to have choices so thats how she is doing it.

      P.S. i am not refering to all the girls.

  • Kuali Baba's Avatar
    24,118 posts since Nov '03
    • Originally posted by Domdom_wassup:

      If she likes you and really likes you, she will leave that guy alrdy. Some girls just like to have choices so thats how she is doing it.

      P.S. i am not refering to all the girls.

      Maybe she's posted on another Aunt Agony forum, asking if she should leave this guy for another.  icon_lol.gif 

      But consider this: If she dumps him for TroubledTeen, she could do the same to him just as easily in the future if another guy comes along.

  • GhostStalker's Avatar
    306 posts since Feb '05
    • Originally posted by speakoutfor:

      Trust me, 95% of teenage relationships don't lasts to marriage. ;-)

      I know because I am a working person and most of my friends in their teenage relationship, already change two or three relationships by now.

      But it be a long long wait.

      Suggest you go out there and fish in the sea. If a good one comes along, take it.

       


      ha... My nephew is the 5%.... teenage love 15 years now finally married with the same girl 15 years back... !!!!

  • Haonanren12345's Avatar
    8 posts since Nov '12
    • "I don't know but do you think i still stand a chance, and what should i do? I really like her.."

      WHAT KIND OF CHANCE ARE YOU EXPECTING?

      Is it SEX?

      Just be Honest and tell the truth what You want from her and then let her decide. When She is ready and willing to provide what You want, she can come to You.

  • otacon's Avatar
    143 posts since Mar '02
    • wait for her if u want or move on. but if u choose to wait, it is ur own decision, no one else. u cannot wait for 10 years n no result, then start blaming someone. n try to keep a distant from her, not everyday go talk to her n pester her. she got a BF n if she decides that u cannot come in between them now, pls respect it.

  • kentee's Avatar
    10 posts since Nov '12
  • otacon's Avatar
    143 posts since Mar '02
    • Originally posted by kentee:

      HAHAHAH omg why not just find unattached girl la!


      hmm... if love just come like that, sometimes hard to stop it. but as much as possible, if TS knows she is attached, he shld stop pestering her already. if u dun like something to be done to u, dun do it on others

  • becalm's Avatar
    85 posts since Nov '12
    • Originally posted by TroubledTeen:

      So i know this girl when we were in Sec 3. We used to like each other, but i treated her really badly back then because of my bad attitude and temper. We quarrelled and we stopped talking since then. 

      Then, my arch enemy quickly came into the picture and starts to get close to her, while we distanced.

      There was endless drama between me and that guy in Secondary 4.

      Just before O levels, they got together.

      So, just a few days ago, we started talking again, after 2 years of silence. I still love her and i can only wet my pillow at night, regretting what i've done 2 years back. We weren't awkward at all, and we can still talk like how it was in the past. But i made a mistake.

      I couldn't control my emotions and i expressed my affections for her.

      She said as long as she's together with that guy, i don't stand a chance.

      Oh and that guy doesn't know we started talking again, because we just hate each other so much, if he knows about it they are going to fight like no tomorrow, previously they fought over me just because the girl followed me on twitter, and he logs into her account and block me again and again. So we only text when she's alone and my name in her contacts is a girl's name just to hide it from that guy. 

      Up till now, she initiates the conversation everytime.

      I don't know but do you think i still stand a chance, and what should i do? I really like her..

      Thanks for reading!

      Sorry TS but I think this girl needs to have a better manner. She declared you don't stand a chance yet continues to mess around and keep you in this sh**. If I were you, I'd ask her directly what exactly all those contradictions are, what she wants by sending loads of mixed signals. If she wants to be with you, then she has you, if she is confused with her feelings, then give her some time but not too long, if she insists in her previous statement, then move on.

      Honestly speaking, if I were you, I've moved on already. If a girl can do that to another guy, I mean being that close to you while commited to him, she can do that to you too. I'm not talking about all girls though. But I just don't accept sneaky behavior, be it from a girl or guy.

      Edited by becalm 22 Nov `12, 11:42PM
  • MindThots's Avatar
    12 posts since Dec '12
    • Demanding bf that checks on her all the time.. Hard to stand it for long..

      IMO, it is the perfect image of the old her that holds you back.. And.. it is really not worh waiting.. Feels like she is somewhat cheating on her bf, can't openly declare that she is still contacting you..

  • LOLx99999's Avatar
    15 posts since Feb '13
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