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  • MemberABC's Avatar
    52 posts since Feb '11
    • hello. currently i am serving my NS.

      i kind of feel that i am getting more and more lost in life already. No direction, no motivation.


      sigh.

      Edited by MemberABC 05 Jan `13, 8:51PM
  • Summer hill's Avatar
    6,640 posts since Dec '11
    • hello. currently i am doing my o-levels.

      I kinda of feel like i am getting more and more lost in life. no direction, not motivation, no plans for my future.

      sigh.

      But anyway TS, you can voluteer to try a variety of jobs 

  • Sandy17sandy17's Avatar
    155 posts since Dec '11
    • No direction?
      Set a goal in life.
      Since you are in NS, consider setting a goal in NS.
      Do you want to be an officer? Etc.
      After setting a goal, work hard for it.

  • MemberABC's Avatar
    52 posts since Feb '11
    • i am in unit already

      don't know what to do after NS. kind of feel that i am getting more and more stupid too

      Edited by MemberABC 05 Jan `13, 9:03PM
  • Sandy17sandy17's Avatar
    155 posts since Dec '11
  • DailyFreeGames.com's Avatar
    2,930 posts since Nov '05
    • hey bro, dun worry... that's how MOST GUYS feel when they go into NS... you're normal, dun worry too much. you need to get some motivation about NS, then check this series out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M32WoCBlW_A

      Their training so tough until the passing rate is 10%... hahaha... they go walk until blisters so bad when take out boots, blood gush out like tap water... hope this makes you feel NS alot easier life.

      When I watch the video, I want to join sia, so challenging... NS so boring.

  • MemberABC's Avatar
    52 posts since Feb '11
    • Originally posted by Sandy17sandy17:

      What is your interest? ( soccer..etc)

      i used to have a number of interests but i have no or little interest in them already ever since NS

    • Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:

      hey bro, dun worry... that's how MOST GUYS feel when they go into NS... you're normal, dun worry too much. you need to get some motivation about NS, then check this series out... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M32WoCBlW_A

      Their training so tough until the passing rate is 10%... hahaha... they go walk until blisters so bad when take out boots, blood gush out like tap water... hope this makes you feel NS alot easier life.

      When I watch the video, I want to join sia, so challenging... NS so boring.

      well for me NS life is ok, just that it didn't turn out what i expected it to be, especially after i enter unit. i gave myself too much high hopes.


      thanks for the video

  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
  • MemberABC's Avatar
    52 posts since Feb '11
    • thanks guys.

      anyway, currently i am in a r/s for a few months already. recently i felt that the feeling is getting weaker and weaker already, and i don't know why. what should i do?

      perhaps i shouldn't have entered a r/s at all in the 1st place...

      :(

      Edited by MemberABC 06 Jan `13, 1:53PM
  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • complete your NS first. after that if you got any relationship orobklem you can post again

  • MemberABC's Avatar
    52 posts since Feb '11
    • so what i should do now is, just complete my NS? how about my r/s?

      Edited by MemberABC 06 Jan `13, 4:39PM
  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
    • a few months is relationships? your own mind at work or ppl just wannamake  friends only

  • jojobeach's Avatar
    8,349 posts since Apr '07
    • Originally posted by MemberABC:

      thanks guys.

      anyway, currently i am in a r/s for a few months already. recently i felt that the feeling is getting weaker and weaker already, and i don't know why. what should i do?

      perhaps i shouldn't have entered a r/s at all in the 1st place...

      :(

      Some people can handle both, some people can only handle one.

      Since you are unable to handle both NS and a R/S, you will have to forgo one ( R/S)

      After your NS, you will have to think about Career... if you can't handle Career and R/S.. again you will have to forgo one ( R/S)

      Until you are able to handle two at the same time.. then only will you be able to have both.

      R/S require a lot of time, effort and maturity to nurture it...

      So untill you are ready... for your own sanity sake.... focus on what's important one at a time.

  • troublemaker2005's Avatar
    8,443 posts since Dec '05
  • Geradline94's Avatar
    2 posts since Feb '13
    • Hey, I would like to share my personal experience regarding a life changing opportunity I had. I too was rather unmotivated,before I helped out with this freelance project Im in now la. Thankfully, I was given the opportunity to seek personal development in myself through some training programs they offer,so things are so much better for me now..

      So mayb for urself can also find a PT job  or anything that can motivate u, monetary wise or like me having personal development to find some direction for urself :) That should be good!

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