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  • Xiaopipi999's Avatar
    6 posts since Apr '13
    • How do i know if a married man is interested in me? I seem to have a strong feeling that he is but i couldn't be sure and that's bothering me, what are the signs to look out for?

      We are on working capacity. I have once commented he looks nice in dark shirts and he seems to have a wardrode makeover thereafter. There was once we have an argument over work and i was extremely disturbed even after he had apologised eventually. Thereafter he took extra efforts to avoid me.

       

      Edited by Xiaopipi999 28 Apr `13, 10:51PM
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    15,860 posts since Apr '02
  • upcoming's Avatar
    5 posts since Oct '12
    • Originally posted by Xiaopipi999:

      How do i know if a married man is interested in me? I seem to have a strong feeling that he is but i couldn't be sure and that's bothering me, what are the signs to look out for?

      We are on working capacity. I have once commented he looks nice in dark shirts and he seems to have a wardrode makeover thereafter. There was once we have an argument over work and i was extremely disturbed even after he had apologised eventually. Thereafter he took extra efforts to avoid me.

       

      Er I think better not to look out for signs cos he married already... this is a simple answer but i think it's the right thing to do. Just work normally and naturally bah

  • Just_do_it_lah's Avatar
    18,865 posts since May '10
  • Nyorai's Avatar
    167 posts since Mar '13
    • What matter is do you really know love and could you let go unreservedly in bliss. Other wise, you would be terribly sorry in the state of love phobia or love paranoid. :p

  • maxsee's Avatar
    946 posts since Jul '04
    • I am sure a lot of married men out there are interested in you...afterall having eaten from the same plate of cai for so many years....they are most likely to go after anyone wearing a skirt...so best is to avoid them at all cost.....especially when there are so many singles around....

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  • Xiaopipi999's Avatar
    6 posts since Apr '13
    • Thanks all for your advices.

      Like what @FireIce have said, I do not have enough information to determine. But it is this 6th sense/gut feelings that I am having which is why I am looking for signs. I don't seem to have this gut feelings for other married male colleagues :P

      Come to think of it, I also don't know how I would react if it is true and I may not treat him the same way as I did now (probably will try to avoid him etc). Knowing less may just be the way to go :)

      Edited by Xiaopipi999 29 Apr `13, 3:55PM
  • jojobeach's Avatar
    8,267 posts since Apr '07
    • Originally posted by Xiaopipi999:

      How do i know if a married man is interested in me? I seem to have a strong feeling that he is but i couldn't be sure and that's bothering me, what are the signs to look out for?

      We are on working capacity. I have once commented he looks nice in dark shirts and he seems to have a wardrode makeover thereafter. There was once we have an argument over work and i was extremely disturbed even after he had apologised eventually. Thereafter he took extra efforts to avoid me.

       

      Doesn't matter if he is married or a bachelor.

      You decide what kind of woman you want to be.

      A stupid slut or a smart lady.

      Your choice.

       

  • Yami king2005's Avatar
    129 posts since Jan '10
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  • lanciism's Avatar
    12 posts since May '13
    • @Xiaopipi999, I guess the most important question is whether you are interested in him...

      I believe it would probably be so or he would not occupy your mind.

      All women have their natural beauty and men are easy to seduce.

      What you want to know is whether he loves you or lusts for you?

      The answer could also be "Neither".

      Sometimes in life when you need to make a clear decision, it helps to go inside yourself for some soul searching.

      To do this effectively, I have written a free ebook to help guide people through the process. 

      You can download Journey Of The Mind from this link. http://book.lancism.com

      Hope it helps you clear your thoughts and free your heart from this confusion.

      Namaste. 

  • kopiosatu's Avatar
    68,697 posts since Jan '03
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  • Xiaopipi999's Avatar
    6 posts since Apr '13
    • @lanciism: Well nothing happening happens so we are still on a working level. It's just that the hunch (6th sense) that I am having that is bothering me. 

      Like what @ Firelce had said, not enough information to determine. 

      @ditzy: I can only cite these 2 incidents. I also hope that the hunch I have is on TOTO biggrin.png

       

       

  • elindra's Avatar
    59,279 posts since Jun '04
    • Actually it doesn't matter if he is interested in you or not

      As long as you are not interested and keep a professional and respectful distance, that is fine.

  • Vesakday13's Avatar
    3 posts since May '13
    • Are single men too lowly for you? There are a lot of single men who can’t find a woman even at 39 years old.Why are you still so selfish and want to love married men?

  • fudgester's Avatar
    25,382 posts since Jan '04
    • As others have said, even if he's interested in you, so what?

      The fact remains that he's already married.

      Please don't be a third party.

  • Xiaopipi999's Avatar
    6 posts since Apr '13
    • @Vesakday13 and @fudgester: Aiyo.... don't worry... I am not interested in married man... I never said I am in love with married man confused.png .....what is the point of sharing with other woman smile.png

      Like what @maxsee had said... maybe he is just bored but of course it may also boils down to the fact that I am being too sensitive or trust my 6th sense too much...

      @fudgester: If I know he is indeed interested, I would have told him I am not interested in being a 小三

      After all, almost 90% of the  小三 comes to no good ending cry.png

       

      Edited by Xiaopipi999 06 May `13, 5:11PM
  • newgal's Avatar
    71 posts since Oct '12
    • A married man will tell you if he wants you in the first 10 mins of the conversation. After 10 mins, its difficult to tell and most probably no.

  • Xiaopipi999's Avatar
    6 posts since Apr '13
    • @newgal: Thanks for the advice. 

      The latest update is he has apparently changed his working hours to be the same as mine as our company practices different working schedule but everyone must clock 44 hours in a week. 

  • foolsh_2000's Avatar
    1,437 posts since Nov '11
  • Xiaopipi999's Avatar
    6 posts since Apr '13
    • @foolsh_2000: Of course I am not going to do that. I am relating to him like normal working colleague and nothing more than that. 

  • BaByBoY's Avatar
    11,774 posts since Apr '03
    • if you know he`s married, i think you should consider if your actions are proper..
      i know you cant control your feelings (assuming you like him), but breaking a family up is another thing altogether..

      i believe you are able to find someone better..
      the forbidden fruit is always the sweetest, but often, you have to pay a great price for it.

  • Smarttech.888's Avatar
    121 posts since Apr '13
    • Xiaopipi , u are worst than 小三 if u end up together with him.

      Most 小三 no need to work , they "get paid" monthly and lead a comfort life.

      All they need to do if to wash clean clean when the sugar daddy call up for an "apppointment" .

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