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  • XiaoGalGal1990's Avatar
    2 posts since Feb '14
    • I like a girl who is my relative. She is older than me by either one or two years. I find her really bubbly and cute. I want to date her. I don't know how to start. I don't even keep contact with her other than meeting up with her during Chinese New Year. She is from my mother's side. I keep thinking of her day and night. I'm afraid I'm not good enough for her. I am going crazy. Do advice me on what to do.

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  • gwynified's Avatar
    17 posts since Feb '14
    • Originally posted by FireIce:

      why is ur nick XiaoGalGal1990?

      (lol)

      Assuming you're a guy (it's actually ok if you're female also)

      Try striking up a conversation with her and hopefully get her number. If you've missed the opportunity, get her number from alternative sources (like her parents, common relatives, your parents etc.) 

      Start off by being friends, express your interest in her, but don't go too quickly because she may be scared off if you're too direct. 船到桥头自然直...

  • Summer hill's Avatar
    6,640 posts since Dec '11
    • Originally posted by XiaoGalGal1990:

      I like a girl who is my relative. She is older than me by either one or two years. I find her really bubbly and cute. I want to date her. I don't know how to start. I don't even keep contact with her other than meeting up with her during Chinese New Year. She is from my mother's side. I keep thinking of her day and night. I'm afraid I'm not good enough for her. I am going crazy. Do advice me on what to do.

      Don't commit incest. 

  • Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1)'s Avatar
    33,609 posts since May '09
    • where gt incest?


      go ahead and date ur cousin



      Edited by Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1) 03 Feb `14, 12:11PM
  • XiaoGalGal1990's Avatar
    2 posts since Feb '14
    • I'm a guy, hahaha, maybe chose the wrong nick.

      But yes, I think I missed the opportunity to talk to her. I have never really talk to her except saying Happy New Year. If I get her number from someone else, would it be very creepy because I don't even contact her in the first place?

       

  • SMB195G's Avatar
    499 posts since Feb '12
  • gwynified's Avatar
    17 posts since Feb '14
    • You can get her number from someone else without being creepy. You just have to sugarcoat your words (reality) while not hiding your real intention of course. I mean, you like her! What's wrong with that? 

      Assuming a family reunion dinner is not possible that's probably your only choice now. You can grab the opportunity, or let it go now and maybe regret it later. 

       

  • Boyboyb's Avatar
    109 posts since Jun '10
    • still got chance ma...next friday is chap gor meh also ang  mo valentine's day fall on the same day! GOOD LUCK !

  • jojobeach's Avatar
    8,349 posts since Apr '07
    • Blood related better don't lah. 

      Your social circle is non existing is it ?

      So many people in Singapore, find someone not your relative lah.

      跟你的亲戚搞关系, 不觉得噩心吗。

  • TehJarVu's Avatar
    119,146 posts since Dec '03
  • charlize's Avatar
    31,782 posts since Mar '05
  • mlmersrlosers's Avatar
    1,258 posts since Jan '08
    • Everyone who ask you to go ahead is getting their popcorn ready. 

      You just want to f your cousin not love. 

      Don't incest please what's Morestead is older than you 

      Edited by mlmersrlosers 09 Mar `14, 4:49PM
  • charlize's Avatar
    31,782 posts since Mar '05
  • sgdiehard's Avatar
    5,269 posts since Jul '04
    • Originally posted by XiaoGalGal1990:

      I like a girl who is my relative. She is older than me by either one or two years. I find her really bubbly and cute. I want to date her. I don't know how to start. I don't even keep contact with her other than meeting up with her during Chinese New Year. She is from my mother's side. I keep thinking of her day and night. I'm afraid I'm not good enough for her. I am going crazy. Do advice me on what to do.

      how related are you to her? Incest is not something to fool around with. if things don't go well, where would you stand in front of all other relatives? think before you let your fancy goes wild.

  • Craptalkone's Avatar
    865 posts since Jun '13
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