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  • Khofjrdn98's Avatar
    5 posts since May '16
    • It's not about being a virgin or not, it's about your confidence. If you're too obsessed with your lack of sexual experience you'll end up being insecure about it and thus that will be all in your head when you go out to meet potential girls.

      Forget about being a virgin or not, focus on your positive traits and you feel better about yourself, which most girls like to see in a guy.

  • pepper. ma's Avatar
    5 posts since May '16
    • Its hard to find guys like you.. being a virgin doesn't mean you're a loser. Its good that you respect yourself and do what you feel like. Its not something to be ashamed of.. thumb up to you

  • Just another abc's Avatar
    2 posts since Nov '15
  • Calista521's Avatar
    10 posts since Jun '16
  • Francis.jackson30's Avatar
    2 posts since Jun '16
    • Hello! I am still a virgin too, and I can't get a girl. I've tried online dating websites and other services. I guess, I will try an escort like the one from http://london.worldescortmap.com. It will be great surely. Have you guys had some experience with it?

      Edited by Francis.jackson30 25 Jun `16, 3:09PM
  • DanielKhong's Avatar
    16 posts since Jun '16
  • Just a Singaporean teen's Avatar
    10 posts since Jun '16
    • Probably not a loser. I mean, most Singaporeans practise celibacy until marriage right? My bro is 27 and is saving himself for marriage. Only seems logical that it would be harder to get laid out of wedlock when your partner is a local.

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    9 posts since Aug '16
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    11 posts since Sep '16
  • Hhaawke's Avatar
    10 posts since Sep '16
    • dude if being virgin bothers you so much, then i recommend simple solution. It call, have about $70+ in ur hand and visit a geylang brothel on an afternoon (pref weekday afternoon). Get ready  condoms and what not, the girls have strict rules about that sort of thing. 

      But personally being virgin is no issue lor. Jus dun go around announcing  it lor. For a man, I mean there arent no way to confirm ur virginity or not wat.If you want sexual experience go for hookups or whores...  that's wat they are for, jus make sure you dun marry them ok oreadi.Remember, for a dude all u need to get honey is $$ and low expectations. No shit.

      SG is full of whores lor, both professional and casual. Take ur pick. Jus f*** n dump if you are horny and wat no need to get emotional. A whore is a whore no matter if she works in geylang or no.

      Edited by Hhaawke 07 Sep `16, 11:38AM
    • Originally posted by Just a Singaporean teen:

      Probably not a loser. I mean, most Singaporeans practise celibacy until marriage right? My bro is 27 and is saving himself for marriage. Only seems logical that it would be harder to get laid out of wedlock when your partner is a local.

      That's news to me lor... I mean the impression I get is, most men by 21 would have done it already.

    • Originally posted by Francis.jackson30:

      Hello! I am still a virgin too, and I can't get a girl. I've tried online dating websites and other services. I guess, I will try an escort like the one from http://london.worldescortmap.com. It will be great surely. Have you guys had some experience with it?

      sadly no from there..these girls are too ex.

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    6 posts since Sep '16
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  • XxYaNxX's Avatar
    2,716 posts since Jan '08
    • Nothing wrong with a virgin?  It wouldn't bother me at all.  There's nothing wrong with waiting.

  • JSh's Avatar
    11 posts since Oct '16
  • Silverseraphina's Avatar
    42 posts since Mar '14
    • Actually coming from a girl I think its nice that you saving up for marriage (isit? or isit just cannot find girls to piak? icon_rolleyes.gif)
      But virgin oso nvm, just dont announce to entire world since some other assholes will probably laugh at u icon_lol.gif

  • Mr bread's Avatar
    19 posts since Oct '16
  • Ejader's Avatar
    5 posts since Nov '16
    • Hey. No need to worry. Mother Mary is a well- known virgin and worshipped for many thousands years.Hopefully you will become the next one.Cheers.

  • purple8's Avatar
    4 posts since Nov '16
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  • Cubokuf's Avatar
    5 posts since Dec '16
    • I am not exactly tall, dark and handsome. I am just dark. There is only one situation where looks actually matter and that is if you think they matter. If you believe in your heart that the way you look affects your life then it’s going to affect your life.  But, if you are a boss who doesn’t give a shit about nonsense like that then you will be just file.

      So instead of focusing your looks which is something you can’t really change let’s focus on something that you can change which is your hygiene. Bad hygiene is a huge turn off. Even if I am talking to a girl that is completely gorgeous and she has bad breath I am going to get grossed out. If you are constantly getting shut down its might be because you have bad hygiene. So, take care of yourself.

      Here is some simple things you can do to have better hygiene. Take a shower, use stop and put on some deodorant. The way you smell can be very important when it comes to attracting a girl. It can also be what completely fucks you up, so don’t smell bad. Make sure that there isn’t shit in your teeth. Make sure that your breath doesn’t smell bad. Make sure that you don’t have BO that fucking the person in the next room can smell. 

      So if you have your hygiene in check the question of looks should never enter your mind. It just comes down to feeling good about yourself, feeling comfortable in your own skin. If you feel good about yourself other people will to. No one likes to hang around a stinky person. When you feel comfortable in your own skin and accept who you are your life just becomes a lot less stressful. In media and in society in general we are just bombarded with the message that looks is the most important part of a person. But, here is the truth. Looks don’t mean jack shit if your personality sucks. I can’t tell you how many times a girl has picked me over some buff male model type guy. I also can’t tell you how many times a girl hasn’t picked me because she only dates buff male model type guys. The point is who gives a shit? You are not going to get every girl. Different girls like different kinds of guys.


      Some girls only date rich guys or hot guys. Whatever. Like I said, who gives a shit? Don’t worry about the girl, worry about what you can do to be awesome. 
      I really want to drive this point home to you so let me simplify everything down into one answer. No, looks do not matter. In fact if you think looks matter you are going to lower your chances of getting any girl.

      Let me repeat that, if the thought “I am not good looking enough enters your brain” you are already shooting yourself in the foot. That is kind of the whole point of our channel. We want to show you guys that trivial things like looks money and status aren’t necessarily in order to attract a girl. I mean sure there is going to be the occasional girl out there who won’t date you unless you have a million dollars. I won’t want to be with that person anyway, but there are plenty of girls out there who don’t think like that. So, why would you hold yourself back so that you can cater to people who wouldn’t like you in the first place? 

      And the simple question of the week is: have your looks held you back at any point in your life? We really what to know where this mind set comes from. So leave your comments below and we will read them all. 

       

      Excerpt taken from: gentlemens-secrets,asia

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    14 posts since Dec '16
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