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  • Bubblyl3's Avatar
    964 posts since Aug '08
    • He don't feel he doing wrong! He betray my trust and he cheat. 

      I don't know should u salvage my marriage or just move on. 

      My girls 1 yr old and 5 yr old . 

       

  • eac's Avatar
    4,000 posts since Dec '03
    • Refer: http://app.msf.gov.sg/Policies/Marriages/Marriage-Counselling

       

      Marriage Counselling

      Married couples may face conflicts and differing expectations in their relationship, leading to marital stress and grow apart.

      Do not wait till it is too late to go for help. Relationships do not fall apart overnight. The longer the problem stays, the more the relationship becomes strained.

      Seek help early from a professional to work with you and your spouse on improving your marital relationship. A counsellor can help you and your spouse to:

      • understand the issues and conflicts in your marriage
      • improve your marriage by working through the issues and reasons for conflict
      • discover internal resources and strengths that could strengthen your marriage
      • communicate and re-connect with your spouse
      • regain the trust and commitment in your marriage

      Couples can visit these organisations for marriage counselling services:

      • Secular organisations such as voluntary welfare organisations, family service centres and private counselling centres;
      • Religious organisations such as churches, mosques and temples; and
      • Private Counsellors / family therapists

      Couples can also view the list of MSF approved providers of marriage education and support programmes from the hyperlinks below;

       

      For more information:

      Family Service Centres (FSCs)
      FSCs are based in the community to provide help and support to individuals and families in need. They are staffed by social service professionals. Working closely with these individuals and families, FSCs help them to better cope with their personal, social and emotional challenges in their lives. You can visit our FSC E-Locator to find the FSC nearest your home.

      Edited by eac 12 May `16, 10:33AM
  • Bubblyl3's Avatar
    964 posts since Aug '08
    • I seek help there .. What they said is to salvage need two party to willing to make changes. But he love that girl so much he willing to give up the family for her.. 

  • eac's Avatar
    4,000 posts since Dec '03
    • Refer: http://app.msf.gov.sg/Policies/Marriages/Divorce-Child-Custody

      Divorce & Child Custody

      Divorce and child custody are legal procedures handled by the Family Court and Syariah Court (Muslim marriages). The Ministry carries out child custody investigations when ordered by the court and provides support to single parents.
        

      Learn more about divorce support at www.msf.gov.sg/divorcesupport

      Child Custody & Social Investigations

      When there is a child custody dispute, the courts may ask the Ministry to conduct an investigation and produce a “Social Report” before deciding on custody matters.

      Getting a Divorce

      A divorce is the legal procedure that ends a marriage.To get a divorce, you will need to file for a divorce with the Family Court (Civil marriages) or the Syariah Court (Muslim marriages).
  • milk&honey's Avatar
    4 posts since Nov '15
    • I feel for you.

      Whatever decision you make, it will not be easy.

      It's not easy to forgive and continue.. neither is it easy to give up & walk away from what you believed in. No one should judge your decision.

      Think about the long term, that's doing most justice to yourself & kids.
      What would you do that is the most sensible for a better life? You would know if the marriage can be worked out or not. 

      Just be honest with yourself and you will know the answer.

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    261,539 posts since Dec '99
  • Bubblyl3's Avatar
    964 posts since Aug '08
  • ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~'s Avatar
    31,257 posts since Oct '02
    • *feeds pao pao strawberry fei zhao*

      *rolls pao pao around*

       

       

      If he truely wants to leave, let him... Even if he stayed, everyone will not be happy anyway...

      Just do what u can at the moment... I believe if divorce, can get alimoney (spelling?) to help u take care of ur babies...

       

      But I must stress, divorce is the last resort. I've seen cases that though relationship doesnt work out, couple still stayed on for the children sake...

  • Bubblyl3's Avatar
    964 posts since Aug '08
    • He stay and he go out find other girl .. Which wife can tahan. Long term is like committing suicide ( killing yourself mental)

  • eac's Avatar
    4,000 posts since Dec '03
  • TehJarVu's Avatar
    115,856 posts since Dec '03
    • do not pack luggage bring children and 回娘家

      分房睡 treat him like he is not there, until he hands over the house

      he can go find other woman w/o the house

    • now is to get as much from him as possible
      for the children sake

  • Bubblyl3's Avatar
    964 posts since Aug '08
    • Ya if I leave with kids .. Best time he bring that girl back then I am got kick out by myself.. Surrender the house to him and his lover for nothing. 

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    79,199 posts since Feb '08
  • TehJarVu's Avatar
    115,856 posts since Dec '03
    • u got the idea very good
      now is time to 化悲愤为力量
      dun sad anymore
      get all your strength together and think how to fend for yourself and children and get the most out of him

  • Bubblyl3's Avatar
    964 posts since Aug '08
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  • ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~'s Avatar
    31,257 posts since Oct '02
    • if u got proof or got hire PI to get proof, then I think if divorce liao u can get the simi alimoney, something like a monthly allowance of some sort from him.

  • sg-user99's Avatar
    1 post since Mar '16
    • I think is best u try to settle this with him without letting your daughters know or here not good for their emotional health esp your 5 year old if she understands what ure saying

       

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    2 posts since Jun '16
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  • Mauhees0828's Avatar
    1 post since Jun '16
    • I recently caught my gf cheating on me with her boss and they have no remorse and say is normal. Wonder what is wrong with this ppl. And her boss is married too

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