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  • Mr Milo's Avatar
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  • Mr Milo's Avatar
    19,234 posts since Oct '09
    • I didn’t do anything.

      i simply sat down there and listen. No advice or judgement given.

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  • Needhelp2016's Avatar
    52 posts since Mar '16
    • The reason they always come to you is you have the patience to sit through and 'listen'. So care to share what are some of the things they talk about to you?

  • Mr Milo's Avatar
    19,234 posts since Oct '09
    • I cannot. They are confidential.

      I cannot betray the trust given to me.

      If they themselves have made it public, so be it.

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    13 posts since Jul '16
  • Needhelp2016's Avatar
    52 posts since Mar '16
    • Originally posted by Mr Milo:

      I cannot. They are confidential.

      I cannot betray the trust given to me.

      If they themselves have made it public, so be it.

      No names, no particular organization or address. just a general description of the type of problems they usually talk about. Is no problem.

       

      I hope you know the severity type. tell the difference between low severity - people grumbling about their work and colleagues and bosses, to higher severity, people feeling very sad and down on the brink of suicide.

  • BitchinCrown👑's Avatar
    9 posts since Aug '16
    • Me toooooo!!! all my friends come to me with their relationship issues, the thing is... I'VE NEVER DATED ANYONE IN MY LIFE!!

  • lollipopsyay's Avatar
    10 posts since Nov '12
    • hmm perhaps they find you very easy to talk to? I know a few people who are very comfortable to talk to :)

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  • Needhelp2016's Avatar
    52 posts since Mar '16
    • Originally posted by popikachu:

      milo i need some advice in life... how to become young again :(

      The definition of young comes with many faces. there is physical and psyhological. Appeareance is important especially when your job or role in society demand some form of professinal outlook. To look younger you can go for body maintenance like spa or do exercises. Health comes from the foods you eat so be sure to eat well.

      Psychologically you should not take extreme stress and should maintain a positive mind in life. Doing good deeds, being kind to others and volunteering helps you on the path too.

       

      O you can pick up a copy of 'Yu nui Xin Jing' here

      http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-K40cXbBrQfQ/TproqYMP-eI/AAAAAAAAADw/nXX9afwKwIQ/s1600/YuNuXinJing.JPG

       

      Follow the instructions and practise.

      Edited by Needhelp2016 01 Sep `16, 12:02PM
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  • Selma's Avatar
    9 posts since Jan '17
    • Hi
      I cant seem to find an active topic on shop lifting. Asking on behalf, my friend has 2 previous shop theft records. 1st she was let off with a warning in 2006. 2nd time in 2010 she was fined ard 1k plus. She got caught again recently. She offered to settle but the shop still wanted to pursue the case. She has to meet the IO on 17 Jan 2017. She is unemployed since May 2016 and was unsuccessful in getting jobs. She stole because she was desperate to feed her 7yr old daughter. Husband was also retrenched in March and was unsuccessful in getting jobs. Any advice is deeply appreciated. Serious ones please thank you.

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  • makeshift's Avatar
    2 posts since Jan '17
    • I have a problem at hand, pls help me

      i stay at a place and i think the son is accusing me having relationship with his brother and told his dad and make a big fuss about it. all i did was just asking him about his brother because i find his brother having some issue

      In the end, the dad now gives me a lot of problems which I felt tremendously sad being so, end up also can't become friend with them

      I dont know what they are up to, however from the tone when they spoke to me, and his brother avoiding talking to me, I then decided to move to other place.

      Edited by makeshift 04 Jan `17, 9:11PM
    • i think i somehow cause his brother to have issue with his life, his parents sounds like hating him now on the way he talk, which I worry about him.

      hopefully i didnt cause his life suffers, i am sad that this become a big issue, my mistake was to ask the guy too much things of his brother which his brother think much and becomes weirder ends up everyone is not happy now.

  • Kayenne's Avatar
    21 posts since Feb '17
    • I think its because they see you as a source of comfort to them. or maybe they just have no one else to tell to. Or maybe you seem like a wise person, and they want advice from you. Or maybe you look like someone who is warm, and someone who would not judge them.

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    28 posts since Mar '17
  • Jerysleary's Avatar
    5 posts since Aug '13
    • Those people probably think that you are someone trustworthy enough for them to confide in.......which is good la if you can always tahan listening to other people's problems. If you dont mind, and the other party doesn't as well, maybe you can offer them advice on their situations too.

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