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  • HuatHuatHuat's Avatar
    1 post since Jan '14
    • There's no doubt I love God, I love serving in the ministries but there's just this one thing that bothers me deeply.


      I have a leader who constantly questions my spirituality and says that I have a grey area that he does not know. The problem is the relationship is not there, and there's no need for me to share all of my life to him.

      It appears to me that my relationship with him is equals to my relationship with God. Is it time for me to leave this church? As a leader having such thoughts, it's just wrong.


  • ThunderFbolt's Avatar
    692 posts since Sep '08
    • Follow your heart. Asking such a question already confirms that you know the action to be wrong. 

  • laurence82's Avatar
    124,109 posts since Nov '03
  • guardsmen74's Avatar
    76 posts since Jan '14
    • there are other good churches around if you find the love, joy & peace in your soul from their teaching there thats the place for you

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  • Osas2014's Avatar
    3 posts since Jan '14
    • Your leader have no right to judge you at all. He is being too self-righteous. You should leave the church immediately as it is teaching lordship salvation.

  • sgdiehard's Avatar
    5,269 posts since Jul '04
    • Jesus said weed grow together with wheat. You have problem with leader in your church, you come to a public forum to seek answer, you think you will find all saints here?

  • Osas2014's Avatar
    3 posts since Jan '14
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    9 posts since Jan '14
  • spidey3's Avatar
    576 posts since Apr '06
    • you are not very clear actually. Sounds like you are having non-church related relationship with your leader which is turning sour? Is he demanding some non-church related favours from you?

  • sgdiehard's Avatar
    5,269 posts since Jul '04
    • Originally posted by Osas2014:

      sgdiehard, humanity is not saints at all. We are sinners by nature.

      so are human in church sinners ?

  • Jan19th2014's Avatar
    3 posts since Jan '14
    • Christianity is the religion of sinners different from other religions. Other religions are full of self-righteous people. Go figure.

    • Only Christianity welcome people from all walks of life to their churches. Other religions judge people by their characters. Smile

  • Hello Kitty's Avatar
    25,812 posts since Dec '99
    • Liddat oso nit ppl to teach u.

      tell him "i love you, my brother in heaven, but it is between God and myself, and only for him to judge.".

    • Wan worship/serve God, any other church oso the same.

      duno y u still strugglin on whthr anot to leave.

      be at the one whr u feel most comfortable.

      Ppl nt happy u, u not happy, juz go.

  • Feb2nd2014's Avatar
    1 post since Jan '14
    • Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

      Wan worship/serve God, any other church oso the same.

      duno y u still strugglin on whthr anot to leave.

      be at the one whr u feel most comfortable.

      Ppl nt happy u, u not happy, juz go.

       

      Not every churches is suitable for worship and only Baptist Churches worship the real God.Other churches worship the devil.

  • Hello Kitty's Avatar
    25,812 posts since Dec '99
    • Originally posted by Feb2nd2014:

       

      Not every churches is suitable for worship and only Baptist Churches worship the real God.Other churches worship the devil.

      i tink u 走火入魔 liao.

       

  • spaghetti's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '09
    • pray to God ..

      see if you have the peace to leave... then leave... if no peace... then stay....

      I wanted to leave my church due to leader too... then I sensed no peace...

      Now I think I have soemhow passed the test..... time to leave..... want to find new community.... anyone has any good suggestion....

       

      I will pray for you :)

    • If you need a word from the Lord..maybe can go orchard towers 07-04 today at 1-around 3pm ask the prophetic pastor to pray for u...if u r confortable that is. 

      Edited by spaghetti 04 Feb `14, 11:25AM
  • steve200's Avatar
    3 posts since Feb '14
    • Prayer really helps, take some quiet time with God.

      Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

      Edited by steve200 24 Feb `14, 11:51PM
  • SJS6638's Avatar
    5,614 posts since Nov '11
    • Up to u.  Leave also good , new environment.

    • Originally posted by Jan19th2014:

      Christianity is the religion of sinners different from other religions. Other religions are full of self-righteous people. Go figure.

      Self-righteous people?  O O, christianity has the most self righteous people.  They do can, others do they use bible to judge them.  When others use bible to do to them they buay song.    Super downright hypocritical!   biggrin.png

    • Originally posted by Jan19th2014:

      Only Christianity welcome people from all walks of life to their churches. Other religions judge people by their characters. Smile

      Don't give wrong info to mislead non christians.   The bible and god emphasize a lot on character.    buddhism is the religion that welcome people from all walks of life.  Christianity condemns and judge other people and religions.   They condemn gays, and all other religions.   To them, anything that is not of god is satanic.   Christianity is  seriously and negatively exreme.

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