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    Quinsy's Avatar
    9,497 posts since Sep '04
    • So you've been down the fingering road and found it lacking. You felt like you needed more to fill you or your girl up so you decided, "Hey, if one finger is good, what about my whole fist?" Well you have come to the right place. Fisting a girl can be an exciting experience when done properly.

      Be Careful

      Before we begin, it should be noted that unlike fingering, fisting is not without its dangers. A woman's vagina is not designed to take something the size of your fist when she is not in labor. As such, it is important that you and your partner trust each other greatly and establish a line of communication while you fist her to make sure that you are not causing any abnormal pain. Fisting is not pain-free. However, it should not be be too painful either.

      Preparation

      Get all squishy

      Get yourself one to two bottles of lubrication. Far and away the best type to use is called Wet Platinum. Watch which type of Wet Platinum however, as some are not for internal use. Since it's a silicone-based lubricant, it stays slippery for much longer than water-based lubricants; and if it does eventually dry out, just add some moisture. You might consider spitting, especially if you're that kind of fetishist.

      If you're using a water-based lubricant (such as Astroglide, rated the best by a number of adult magazines), you will need to have your hand (literally) dripping with this stuff. In addition you will need to lubricate her vagina with it to make sure that the lube won't run out when you get halfway in.

       

      Just Relax

      Before you begin, your partner will need to get completely relaxed. This is easier said than done when she has to think about having a hand stuck inside of her, but unless she relaxes, her muscles will be too tight which could either prevent it from going in or just cause injury. The best way to relax would be by breathing deeply and concentrating on the breathing. Another good way is by making out. The point is that you should do anything that will take her mind off of what is about to happen and prevent those muscles from contracting.

      Just like a sport

      Would you go out and play football or do gymnastics without training? No, of course not, and fisting is no different. The human hand is not a small thing and while the birth canal is made to be able to pass a child it doesn't just plop it out. Over the months that a woman is pregnant, it slowly begins to stretch itself out. Most women, especially those who have never given birth, will need to stretch out the vagina for a few days, weeks or even months prior to attempting a successful fisting. There are a number of ways to do this, but the bottom line is — don't attempt a fisting if you're not ready. At best, it will be extremely painful; at worse you could cause real damage and, come on, talk about an awkward story to tell people. As I said, there are a number of exercises that can be used to stretch the vagina; here are a few of the best.

      1. Work your way up to a whole fist. Start fingering her with two fingers a couple of times a day for a week or so. Then, the next week use three fingers, then four fingers for a week, and so on. Do this until you are able to get a full fist in there. Remember though, as you get up to 4 finger you will probably need to start using lube.
      2. Actual stretching is another way to go about it. Work your way up to using three fingers and then, once you get the fingers inside, try to spread them. Do this slowly and stop when there is too much pain. Hold in this position for a second or two and then release. Do between 3 and 5 repetitions of this per session. Be sure to do this every day for a number of days.
      3. Using larger objects for either masturbation or just play is another great way. Start small and work your way up to larger items.

      Remember that the clenched fist is a very, very advanced technique. You'll have the best luck with your fingers fully extended lengthwise, but scrunched up together widthwise; emulating a duckbill. Just imagine the amusing shadows of daffy duck you're projecting on her G-spot!

      Arm Deep

      So you're streched, you're lubed and your ready to go. Alright, lie back and relax, this is going to hurt a little bit.

       

      Start Slowly

      No matter how much stretching you've done up until now, when you actually do it, you're going to need to start slowly. Begin by placing two fingers inside her and working your way up the digits just like you did during excersises. If your hand gets dry, then be sure to add more lubrication. You want your fingers to slide into her like a warm knife through butter. Make sure you listen to what she has to say, her moans and noises. If she tells you to slow down, stop or anything else, then be sure that you do it. The last thing you want to do is cause too much pain. Remember, you are doing this because it's supposed to be fun, if it stops being fun then you might want to reconsider it.

       

      Chinese Finger Roll

      The more fingers that you stick into her, the smaller you need to try and make your hand. The optimal hand structure is to form it into a wedge. This allows the vaginal walls to slowly adjust to the hand as its slid in. The best way to form this structure is to roll the pinky behind the ring finger and the thumb inside the index finger. Slide in slowly, taking verbal cues from your partner.

       

      What to do when you're inside

      Once you're inside her, you have a number of options. Having a fist inside her will probably be a big turn on for both parties involved, so you may want to take a minute just to appreciate the feeling of how full she is. Sometimes, just having so much inside may be enough to make her cum. You may also try a gentle back and forth motion, or you might try gently rotating your hand a few degrees to the right and to the left. Experiment with sensations, see how she feels if you slowly wiggle each finger. She may just want to have you play with her clit with your other hand or with your mouth. Remember that for many women, this sensation can be amazing, but too much stimulation for an orgasm.

      Don’t just follow her cues, check in with her. Ask her if she’d like more or less of anything. Remember to keep your hand well lubed.

      Have fun!

       

      Just as you took care when inserting your fist, take care when removing it. And please don't forget to cut & file your fingernails before doing this! Otherwise you can seriously harm your partner!

  • Ferret's Avatar
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  • And life goes on... with shades of grey
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    33,745 posts since Apr '04
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    9,497 posts since Sep '04
  • And life goes on... with shades of grey
    BadzMaro's Avatar
    33,745 posts since Apr '04
    • Sorry. i dun put my fists into anyone unless they deserve the pain and misery that follows with a clenched fist. hahaha

      Fisting turns me on when it connects with another person's face. And like punching a cabbage..*priak!!!!*

      ecstacy...

  • laURanaBabe's Avatar
    235 posts since Jun '08
  • Fatum's Avatar
    34,549 posts since Aug '05
  • And life goes on... with shades of grey
    BadzMaro's Avatar
    33,745 posts since Apr '04
    • Originally posted by Fatum:

      I think my ..... is enough to satisfy most ladies, thank you very much ..... >.< !

      u sure ? unless ur dongle is bigger n wider then ur fists. hahaha

      icon_lol.gif

       

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    Quinsy's Avatar
    9,497 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by laURanaBabe:

      oh my..TS tried?


      I've tried it before but it wasn't very nice. I got so stretched I had to stay away from sex for a while.

       

      It's not very nice. Agreed, but I had to post this up for some interested fetishist to read up.

  • Fatum's Avatar
    34,549 posts since Aug '05
    • Originally posted by BadzMaro:

      u sure ? unless ur dongle is bigger n wider then ur fists. hahaha

      icon_lol.gif

       

      I guess if the lady in question can get off only with a fist ...... one can imagine the size of the ......................................

      she must have been doing it with an elephant or something .... so no point going there anyways ..... it'll be like trying to fit a carrot into a drain pipe .... >.<

  • Moderator
    Quinsy's Avatar
    9,497 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by Fatum:

      I guess if the lady in question can get off only with a fist ...... one can imagine the size of the ......................................

      she must have been doing it with an elephant or something .... so no point going there anyways ..... it'll be like trying to fit a carrot into a drain pipe .... >.<


      That's when a big big dildo comes into play. =)

  • Fatum's Avatar
    34,549 posts since Aug '05
    • Originally posted by Quinsy:


      That's when a big big dildo comes into play. =)

      beware .... of urinary incontinence ... -_-

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    Quinsy's Avatar
    9,497 posts since Sep '04
    • That, is something that must be considered too of course. LOL.

      But as I said in above replies, I didn't really like the feel of fisting, so never continued being fisted on.

      Those who like being fisted on, should of course, be aware of the 'side effects'.

  • kopiosatu's Avatar
    68,697 posts since Jan '03
  • And life goes on... with shades of grey
    BadzMaro's Avatar
    33,745 posts since Apr '04
    • Originally posted by Fatum:

      I guess if the lady in question can get off only with a fist ...... one can imagine the size of the ......................................

      she must have been doing it with an elephant or something .... so no point going there anyways ..... it'll be like trying to fit a carrot into a drain pipe .... >.<

      exactly.. thats what i thought so too.

      talk about...  loooose man. And for guys with those fetishes. Try double fisting a preggo. Should be the in thing soon. Wait for the japs to come out with the perfect guide to Triple Fistings.

  • Moderator
    Quinsy's Avatar
    9,497 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by BadzMaro:

      exactly.. thats what i thought so too.

      talk about...  loooose man. And for guys with those fetishes. Try double fisting a preggo. Should be the in thing soon. Wait for the japs to come out with the perfect guide to Triple Fistings.


      i think that's really freaking gross liao.

  • Fs4751's Avatar
    379 posts since May '08
    • Originally posted by kopiosatu:

      i prefer to put my whole head in

      wah lan bro..u put ur whole head later come out ur whole head stinks!!

      haha

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    202 posts since Jun '08
  • 93'guy's Avatar
    3,581 posts since Feb '08
  • Dukedas's Avatar
    202 posts since Jun '08
    • Originally posted by 93'guy:

      i saw before 2 fists up the ASSHOLE ! embarrassed.png

      oops , i shouldnt be watching too many porn tongue.png

      -fixed-

  • I-like-flings(m)'s Avatar
    17,699 posts since Feb '04
    • Originally posted by kopiosatu:

      i prefer to put my whole head in


      when gals ask u to use ur head.... they dun mean it that way lah!!!!

    • Originally posted by Quinsy:


      I've tried it before but it wasn't very nice. I got so stretched I had to stay away from sex for a while.

       

      It's not very nice. Agreed, but I had to post this up for some interested fetishist to read up.


      ever thought of FOOTING? ...... anyway....dun end up being the next annabel chong ok... if not .. sgsexforums will really be infamous in future...

  • 93'guy's Avatar
    3,581 posts since Feb '08
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    2,677 posts since Jan '08
  • gal_2004's Avatar
    57 posts since Mar '04
    • ouch.. this sounds so pain..

      seriously, would anyone enjoy that??

       

      i think the gal's part will become loose in no time lor..

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