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  • tommy0225's Avatar
    14 posts since Sep '14
    • how hard for a Physical disability guy to get a girlfriend?
      let said if a person having vision and hearing impairments. let said one of the eyesight are weak vision ,lazy eyes. partially deaf.make use of hearing aids to improve hearing ability. working as admin work, monthly income around 2.2k.
      how hard for him to get a girlfriend or even get married?

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  • tommy0225's Avatar
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    • Fireice, do u know any ppl around u having similar disability, getting a girlfriend or married?

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  • Darkworld 90's Avatar
    3 posts since Sep '14
    • I think its very hard. Because the girl has to be very strong, and has to take care of the entire family, and could not depend on husband either.

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    16,111 posts since Dec '06
    • well see it as a good way that, if you ever get married, it is confirm the right person... the wrong one are already filtered out... :D

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  • Singaporedatingcoach's Avatar
    2 posts since Oct '14
    • Yeah, its probably harder for you. Maybe you have a 20% disadvantage. But it can be overcome in so many ways. A great personality, confidence, passion etc... 

      Anyway, whats the point of finding how hard it is to get a girlfriend. All that matters is how much you can improve and work at it. Lets say you can grade how attractive you are to woman. Maybe now your only 20%. So who cares if you're 20%. You're job is just to improve. If you become a 30%. Yeah, you're still pretty low, but at least its better than 20%. 

      Just improve as much as you can and keep self-developing. The funny thing, is that the most important thing about attracting women I find, is self-confidence and expressing your personality. 

      I can go into a club, and be standing beside a tall handsome guy. And straightaway, I can tell you, I will maybe have a 20% disadvantage to him. But with my self-confidence, I guarantee you I can surpass him by an amazing amount in terms of being attractive to women. Because that confidence and your personality provides almost infinte possibilities to increase your attractiveness. 

      Stay positive and forget about the things you cannot control. Focus on what you can and your life will be so much better. 

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  • Acidcat's Avatar
    52 posts since Aug '14
    • Generally I think it's very hard , unless the girl is also disabled then more common topics to talk on . This nick guy different lei, his face is handsome , he is able to talk well , charming in deposition , has a sad albeit motivating story wor !! .... And rich 

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  • kooldog59's Avatar
    46 posts since Apr '13
    • I think those with hearing or vision impairment will have less difficulty finding a Singapore gf. But it will probably be impossible with loss of a limb to find a Singapore gf, unless they are already paired before the handicap. Although this is not to say bad about Singapore gals, but in general, they set very high standards 

      Edited by kooldog59 09 Nov `14, 12:47PM
  • f1taxidriver's Avatar
    1,756 posts since Sep '09
    • It is very selfish to even think about marriage if you are physically or mentally disabled in any way, unless you got the financial resources to make it work. Just forgot about it, unless u think u got something special to offer to a potential mate.

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