Originally posted by Yunhaier:

The stark resemblance does not signify anything - it is your attitude and perception towards such visual imaginary that seemed to suggest your karmic bond with this person. Such phenomenon is likely generated because of our irrevocable actions in the past that are generally beyond our scope of control. And because we can't turn back time to alter our regretful past, our present and future remained in status quo based on our earlier decision via freewill. 

Albeit the law of causality might be rigid, but our minds and heart isn't. Hence, phenomenon of resemblance resulted in an implicit behavior/mindset that served under the theory of 'Time Machine' (CloUdiSm). Because in the realm where 'Love is blind', similarity will naturally (and usually automatically) perceived from the source where it first began and the seeming linkage is establish, although it pretty much illusional.   

I will illustrate a simple example:

There are times when we felt that we made mistakes and regret in life, with regards to our previous relationship. Equally often, it might not be mistakes - perhaps we felt that we could 'do more' (whatever 'more' meant to you philosophically). And because the manifestation has already occur and we are unable to undo our circumstances, we shoulder certain unconscious anguish or bitterness that carries in our soul.

Such suppression are dormant and only brought into surface when the concept of time triggers a astrological/karmic pattern to bring forth such situation once again. 

Then you might question - why such a phenomenon?

There are two likely reasons:

I) It served to test the foundation of your relationship. Those who are stuck in the misery of their past will often create the path of destruction for their relationship of the future.

II) The absence of graduation in prior cosmic lessons resulted in reiteration of the same chapter once again. What we cannot master, we learn again. 

I suggest instead of first leading yourself into the direction of asking 'Should i just forget her quickly' - I reckon you should reframe your question and direct the question inwardly.

'What does this mean to me and my development in Love?'

You might want to understand if there's an action/s you wish to compensate for your previous failed relationship and unconsciously directing this effort towards this 'proxy'? 

Also the identity of your relationship is being questioned as well.

'What does it means for your relationship and your gf?' Namely, is your current gf lesser in any aspect than a figure of the past?

Only with careful examination of yourself, would you be able to have the clarity to decide your course of action with wisdom.

Cheers

can i ask what is cloudism? is it created by you or is it found in references?

Originally posted by hunky_boi:

i have been rejected by a friend.. i wanna her to feel regret for rejecting me...

wat should i do ???

if this is wad u really think, thank god she didnt accept u

Originally posted by parn:

Love has no barriers.

Girl demands 30k ring, Guy provide, Happily Ever After ~

doesnt that make the girl a prostitute?

30k ring

nb read so much still flaming... can the moderator remove the flaming comments pls? wad a waste 2 let such an interesting topic get hijacked

i don understand how come in this era, ppl still use the ancient way of thinking that relationships will directly affect one's future. some ppl still fail despite not in a relationship while others do very well in spite of being in a relationship. it is how u delicate time 2 study while in a relationship. if u don wana study, u will fail too even if u r not in a relationship

does anyone knows how to verify ISO certificate number? help needed thanks

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Date of First Issue and Revision: 4th April 2005

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Originally posted by Tian Long Jiu Bu:

feel really sad to hear this. And i am scared too gng navy this yr

u enlist 10 jan?

Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Hi all,

Next chapter is the final episode.

Perhaps I should be evil and hold the chapter until it hits 400 replies to boost rating (since AA has fallen out of top 5 forum). Or perhaps 500?

Regardless, I know many of you cannot seemed to hear the composed song in .amr format, but nevertheless, I have uploaded an ending theme song specially for this.

Yunhaier X Fade in Rain.

You can hear it here

P.S: After the final chapter, like always, I will thank all who have took the time and trouble to follow and read up. [b]If you are lurking around, this might be the time to drop at least 1 post, so that I would know who are the readers and personally thank you after the last chapter.

Xie xie.

Cheers[/b]

i have been reading... btw u r a male rite?

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

This story very little response... so not very addictive - can take my time to post.

Cheers

lol mb ppl r reading & not posting leh? posting more doesnt mean good & vice versa... anyways i like ur story =D

eh more than 10mins alrdy… y r we waiting? ur story is addictive =D

Originally posted by bkbatboy:

wa.i see this post very happy.BUT this is juz one of de possibilities..previous ppl stated i might get hurt and those are also possibilities man.wad happen in future no one knows.how true does she feels about me i also dunno.only she know.thats de dilema part

people just hear what they wanna hear, don't they?

according to christanity, a man commits adultery the moment he looks at a woman with lust

smart ones, not brilliant ones who can score well in exams. but rather street smart & understanding kind

NPNT!!!

anyway this kind of gal, i think if u fuk her, u r degrading urself... unless ur very desperate

i think u like her but the both of u are happy here in ur comfort zones.

take it slow & enjoy the sweetest in ur present relationship ba

the posting is random but there r factors which affect the posting of a batch of ppl

- which camp is nearer 2 their home
- which unit need ppl

rofl

big big ass so can extend my family line nx time...

siao ar u think go market buy girls meh? no doubt we may have the "qualities" we look 4 in a gal but ultimately the gal may not fulfil most of our "qualities". usually if we like the gal, we will not bother too much in the qualities anymore. if don like then move along lor... correct me if im wrong

TS if i were ur mom, i wud rather u go out wif ur frens than 2 keep such unhappineess locked in ur heart

actually hatemeifuwantto u shld do some research like testing how she feels abt u etc, also read hints. dont be afraid 2 get into a r/s juz bcos others say need 2 conc on studies or later NS then how. if lidat, its like not eating fish in fear of getting pricked by fish bone. im not 2 good with words so i can only wish u all the best & go 4 it

Originally posted by Quinsy:

IS IT?! O.o

yes i heard buying ur other half shoes is a bad omen in the sense that the person will walk away from u.. but this is juz olden superstition, din know it is so accurate

very very genuine poem. explains the harsh reality of falling in love sometimes. it’s like straight from a heart

“honey sweetie lil candy baby pie”