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Originally posted by singlion2:
I'm sorry to tell u that u need to learn how to accept the fact!
We're not racist, we just tell u the truth.
Ur nation are damn lousy, why don't u just admit it?
think watever you say do not represent the views of all singaporeans ba. you are entitled to your own opinion ba
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i think that do not go into a relationship with her or even like chase her or anything yet. she might have just gone through a break up and still carrying the emotional baggage. this means that until the day she let go of the baggage, she is not ready yet. the thing you can do is just be her fren, go out with groups of people, back off and give her some time ba.
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Originally posted by Evangel:
Hah! That is what im afraid of. Never seek help early, delay the abortion, now the baby has a heartbeat. Must be a few months already. I know the baby is innocent, it is a mistake that both parties have to pay.
Do you think its easy for the mother to give birth and then give up the baby for abortion? Again, the baby is innocent, have you spared a thought for the mother?
People just know how to yell "the baby is innocent heh?" Are your advice constructive? More problems would occur.
I dont know how many months already, but i guess abortion is risky now.
An advice for ladies, if you have unwanted pregnancy, pls seek help early.
it was late at night when i reply this.
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i’m against abortion because it is killing a human life and the baby is indeed innocent. therefore i agree that both parties are at wrong because they have sex before marriage and also they never use protection that result in this unwanted pregnancy.
it is not easy to give birth to the baby and also because she is a single mother, there would be a lot of issues like maybe she would have to put up with gossips or discriminating looks from other ppl or that single mothers have to play both parts of a mother and father to the child. yes there will be problems if she decide to give birth to the baby. but whose life do not have problems? if there is a will, there is a way. it’s easy to say but hard to do. In life there will always be challenges but then if we never give up hope, problems can be resolved.
another thing, even if the guy wants to accept the responsibility and get married with the girl because of the baby. this kind of marriage would not last at all. because you did not get married because of love and commitment to each other. so in the end, it’s back to square one again.
i agree with kaurex says that even if she goes for an abortion a not, there will be scars in her heart.
even if she give birth and put up the child for adoption, it is not easy to be apart from the child especially if she has seen the baby during the giving birth stage. i have not been a mother myself but i do know that there is strong bond between the child and mother that cannot be broken. so it’s not easy to give up the child for adoption.
the ultimate decision lies with the person in question. she have to make the decision and bear whatever consequences that comes with it
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Originally posted by KaurexO_o:I'm with Evangel on this matter.
It is really really tough to be a single mother. Besides the discrimination from others, it also costs a lot of money to bring up a child. She is still young and still have a future ahead of her. She would most probably meet up with the right guy in the future. But would he accept her child? If she does not plan to get married, the child would also bear the brunt of the discrimination of others.
I really pity the girl. Haiz.
the child is innocent.
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