10 things to consider when marrying a typical sg girl
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1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children
3) cant be trusted
4) costly
5) only interested is the 5Cs
6) like to compare
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
dont respect their man
9) dont do housework
0) shallow minded -
9) is wat i consider when i find a guyOriginally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children
3) cant be trusted
4) costly
5) only interested is the 5Cs
6) like to compare
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble dont respect their man
9) dont do housework
0) shallow minded -
Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
eat hawker food lor
2) dont like to have children
pain and lose good looks
3) cant be trusted
guys can't be trusted too
4) costly
guys' ego want costly wife too
5) only interested is the 5Cs
guys' ego want 5C too
6) like to compare
guys compare too
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
guys' ego never admit they need help dont respect their man
guys too MCP
9) dont do housework
get a maid
0) shallow minded
S'pore education system -
Actually I consider No. 2 a desirable trait. I do not want any children too. As for No.1...can't be helped lah. Eat ouside lor.
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I can!Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children [/b][/quote]can live with them, also can live without them
3) cant be trusted [/b][/quote]doesn't describe me
4) costly [/b][/quote]definitely not
5) only interested is the 5Cs [/b][/quote]not so shallow
6) like to compare [/b][/quote]prefer intellectual discussions (hahaha!)
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble [/b][/quote]tried, tested and proven - passed with flying colours!
dont respect their man [/b][/quote]who said so??
9) dont do housework [/b][/quote]I guess I do cause I don't remember waving some magic wand to keep this place in a habitable condition
0) shallow minded [/b][/quote]reeeeeealy??!!!
So, glad to know I'm not your 'typical' local girl. And I'm sure there are lots and lots of other girls out there who aren't like that too!
You know what they say when you ASS-UME things? You make an ASS out of U and ME.
Generalisations ka-phooey! -
if this bothers u, why bother to date them in the first place?Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children
3) cant be trusted
4) costly
5) only interested is the 5Cs
6) like to compare
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble dont respect their man
9) dont do housework
0) shallow minded
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1) cant cook -- I can learn (or we can eat out)Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children
3) cant be trusted
4) costly
5) only interested is the 5Cs
6) like to compare
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble dont respect their man
9) dont do housework
0) shallow minded
2) dont like to have children -- i want (just that at e moment $ is a prob)
3) cant be trusted -- I've been loyal and faithful all the way.
4) costly -- nope, i pay for myself n sometimes my bf, and i'm super low maintenance.
5) only interested is the 5Cs -- no interest in them at all
6) like to compare -- u mean guys don't compare e size of our boobs?
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble -- if u guys dun tell us got trouble, how to help? dont respect their man -- oh no, i respect everyone, let alone my man
9) dont do housework -- i clean my office n make sure my room's live-able in. i'm waiting for my room to be renovated before i finally clean it up - why clean up now when all the stuff's gonna go?
10) shallow minded -- ??? shallow?! riiiiiiite... -
Well not all like that lar I think. I guess its because the horrible ones usually stand out more
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The topic shd hv been something like "10 things to REconsider when marrying a typical sg girl".Originally posted by huiz:if this bothers u, why bother to date them in the first place? -
wow. really agree with ya...^^Originally posted by boy in blues:
anyway, i just want to say that, i can cook. hahahaha! and actually many girls around my age can cook too. i think it's only the 20-somethings..that generation whom don't really like cooking bah? but i've seen some of my cousins (those 20-somethings), whom changed after marriage. they cook, they desire to form a family and stuff. all for their loved ones. so i think what you say is...very...SHALLOWWWW. you see things on the surface only...chey! -
bunny meat anyone?
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you know, funny thing is, most of the girls who claim to be faithful to their boyfriends are the ones to jump ship first when a better catch comes alongOriginally posted by Gazelle:3) cant be trusted -
1) cant cook
why can't the man cook? the world's best chefs are men.
2) dont like to have children
i'm sure there are many more girls out there that want to have children
3) cant be trusted
if there's no trust in ur relationship, y marry?
4) costly
find one that prefers bata to jimmy choo
5) only interested is the 5Cs
as if you don't want them
6) like to compare
who doesn't?
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
maybe true, but might be because of you dont respect their man
respect is earned, not expected
9) dont do housework
would u not marry a girl just cos she doesn't know how to sweep?
0) shallow minded
that's what you are -
Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
Yes, it is me cooking
2) dont like to have children
Nope, she wants 3
3) cant be trusted
Nope
4) costly
Nope, she does not spend $$ freely
5) only interested is the 5Cs
Nope, she is as happy as living in HDB flats6) like to compare
Nope, she is not choosy
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
Nope dont respect their man
Nope
9) dont do housework
She only bothers her own work though
0) shallow minded
Yes, when going to MY -
Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
I can. Not a problem
2) dont like to have children
Don't like does not mean won't have
3) cant be trusted
Trust has to be earned. Can work either ways. Just look at the reports on the guys with chinese girls and visits to batam etc
4) costly
Oh, we can be low maintanence just don't complain we look like an auntie and don't bother to take care of our skin, nails and appearance
5) only interested is the 5Cs
Actually, all singaporeans are interested in the 5Cs, but can live without.
6) like to compare
You mean guys don't compare???
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
Totally disagree with this but there are fair-weathered friends, partners etc everywhere[/colored] dont respect their man
[color=blue]Define respect. Does that mean we have to agree with everything you say and not disagree with you??? Don't forget, respect works 2 ways
9) dont do housework
Do you help out with the housework? Don't forget if you are working, likelyhood your wife is working full time as well. It has to be a fair share
10) shallow minded
In what sense? -
1) cant cook
I can
2) dont like to have children
I like
3) cant be trusted
Of course most of us can be trusted, but can u be trusted in the first place?
4) costly
There are many not so costly around, cannot 1 bamboo hit the whole boat of ppl
5)only interested is the 5Cs
Will be interested of course (just like guys will be interested in bigger boobs), but not really a must.
6) like to compare
human nature to compare, especially d guy u r holding is oh-so ....... no standard
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
most gals will give support to their loved ones, unless u dun't derserve to dont respect their man
What kind of respect? bring your slippers when u r home? Shup her mouth up when u r toking wif ur frds? U r MCP to expect this.
9) dont do housework
U dun do either. Must be ur mum who spoilt u tis way, ur mum must be a good mum who does all house work. Guess what, i wana train my son to be better than u.
0) shallow minded
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Originally posted by Gazelle:
Funny.... some or all of the above can be applied to some sg guys.
1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children
3) cant be trusted
4) costly
5) only interested is the 5Cs
6) like to compare
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble
8 ) dont respect their WOman
9) dont do housework
0) shallow minded
Sounds like you might as well get a maid, Gazelle. Or better yet , a slave. -
We tend to remember the negative things that people tell us, while the positive ones, we just shrug aside coz we find it much too hard to swallow.
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10 things to consider when marrying a typical sg GUY or GAL:
1) can cook
2) likes to have children
3) can be trusted
4) thrifty on self but generous on the other.
5) interested is the other 5Cs
6) doesn't compare with others but focus on each other
7) do support her/him when she's/he's down in trouble
8. respects his woman/man
9) shares housework
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well, i have this to say. guys here like to complain that the girls can't cook, can't do housework... endless list. think abt it. we may not know how to do these "womanly" duties (but i do do housework), but what abt you men? can u be relied on to do manly things like repairing electrical appliances, pipes? do u know how to make furniture? these are guy things , do u know how to do these? or do u only know how to talk?????
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well said.Originally posted by elindra: -
Considering all the bad experience so far, I find it hard to trust them liao. As good friends or even close friends still okie. Any thing else is a no no
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1) So you cook - many guys enjoy cooking.Originally posted by Gazelle:1) cant cook
2) dont like to have children
3) cant be trusted
4) costly
5) only interested is the 5Cs
6) like to compare
7) dont support you when you are down in trouble dont respect their man
9) dont do housework
0) shallow minded
2) YOU try passing a bowling ball without the benefit of laxatives.
3) You're paranoid.
4) You're cheap.
5) You're paranoid about not being able to deliver.
6) You're paranoid about being cheap and not being able to deliver.
7) Who wants to carry a crybaby?
8 ) Try being a man instead of a whinging crybaby, and then reassess this one.
9) I haven't seen any law that housework's exclusively a woman's domain - pull your own weight.
10) After showing how well you've thought through the first 9, don't even go there.
And what kind of nick is Gazelle for a guy anyway? It sounds somewhat ... effete. -
Originally posted by Gedanken:1) So you cook - many guys enjoy cooking.
2) YOU try passing a bowling ball without the benefit of laxatives.
3) You're paranoid.
4) You're cheap.
5) You're paranoid about not being able to deliver.
6) You're paranoid about being cheap and not being able to deliver.
7) Who wants to carry a crybaby?
8 ) Try being a man instead of a whinging crybaby, and then reassess this one.
9) I haven't seen any law that housework's exclusively a woman's domain - pull your own weight.
10) After showing how well you've thought through the first 9, don't even go there.
And what kind of nick is Gazelle for a guy anyway? It sounds somewhat ... effete. thats a good one -
Gazelle is a type of rabbit, right ?