10 things to consider when marrying a typical sg girl
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there is this high possibility.Originally posted by elindra:Oh no, that won't happen because his wife is foreign and not a typical, money grubbing, self-centered SG girl.
Haha, if my hubby earns a 5-digit pay, I think I can just stay at home and look after the house and kids as well, or just work part-time and look after the house and kids.
Then when he loses his material comforts, then wife goes 
.... then she might be the typical Sg girl that dumps her partner when in sh!t. Then Mr. Deer will realize tat it's not just Girls in S'pore are like that.... many ppl are like that... just that he heng heng "quio tio" one that is so far so nice 
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Nope - the deleted post just broke the flow of my post just before it. Then again, you're barely literate, so the point would be lost on you.Originally posted by Gazelle:Btw, I am wondering why Gedanken delete this message? Is it because she realise that she is begining to proof to me that she is just another typical sg women that cant be trusted?
When did I become a "she"? Hey, You're the one with the, ahem, delicate nick.
Yeah, but they're not the ones waving their postgrad about like a flag, are they? Regardless of linguistic abilities, the poor quality of your arguments here shows clearly that you do not think things through. I fear that your poor clients are being cheated, paying you a 5-digit salary for nonsensical babble.Originally posted by Gazelle:I don’t think so. in fact, some of the big guns that I deal with doesn’t even speak a word of English and they really don’t give a damn if you write perfect English or not, what they want to know is “Where is the Money”
When did this become a case of "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"? You're the one who started bragging, and I'm just here to let you know that you're a mid-sized fish in a very small bowl.Originally posted by Gazelle:Since I have already share with you about myself, can I then know if you are married, attached or single? I must say that I am shock to learn that you are making “easily 1 thousand Singapore dollars per day”, can I know what kind of job pay you so much and allow you to waste your time in this forum? Since you are making about $365,000 per year, I am sure you must be a millionaire by now? How does it feel to have so much money? Do you find love in money?
Well, Mr. High-Finance "Where is the Money", I think you've just shown how small you actually are if you are shocked that I make more than a grand a day, and if you can ask what I do. Surely, being the high-roller that you claim to be, you would not need to ask this?
How can I spend so much time on this forum? You mean you, Mister Vision Man, actually have to ask that one? Unlike you, I have the independence to do what I need to when I want - you obviously have someone looking over your shoulder, so despite that salary, you're still a small fry.
Your posts are getting stranger by the minute. You claim to be so successful, and you're asking me how it feels? You ought to know - well, that is if your claims weren't fake.
Okay, okay, just to satisfy your curiosity, it's common knowledge that I'm trained as an organisational psychologist, and I run my own business. I'm sure you'll understand that my corporate clients value their privacy, so it would be rude of me to reveal their identities and the exact nature of the work that I do for them. Mind you, in my field, the kind of money I'm talking about is not unusual. I know someone who makes more than I do, and she spends two days every week in the office, while the other three days are spent with her four kids at her beachside home (which incidentally has an exact replica of her city office). Good thing I'm not like you - I might feel small next to her.
As for your other question, I'm quite happily attached, and some forumites have met my girlfriend. Money is an issue - I want to buy her a Rolex, but she just wants a Hamilton!
Well, enough about me - back to you.
Did I just see you call your wife "common"? Ooh, I'd be fuming if I were her!Originally posted by Gazelle:Too good to be true in Singapore, common overseas.
BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!Originally posted by Gazelle:So what do you call a company vision statement? Vision statement? The jingoistic plaques next to the receptionist's desk that cover up the water stain on the wall? What is this, amateur night?
Get a grip - a vision statement is the organisational version of "take two asprin and call me in the morning". Only small-timers like you would try to use that as a defence.
It's all coming apart for you, Gazelle. With each post you're revealing more about yourself than you originally planned to, and the picture's not pretty:
- you're a salaried employee who needs to watch every one of his working minutes
- despite claiming to tell big shots where the money is, you really don't know where the real dosh lies
- despite claiming to be so successful, you're still haunted by your past demons, showing that you haven't progressed at all
Keep it coming, Gazelle, there's plenty more where this came from:
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woohoo I guessed out roughly what gedanken does
A specialist consultant!
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Monsieur Gazelle,
Oh! vous êtes à paris ? Il doit signifier que vous avez un ordre excellent de français si vous travaillez là -bas. Me dire - comment parlez-vous à vos patrons étrangers ? Le français, l'allemand, le chinois ? Sûrement si vous êtes non bon dans l'anglais, vous devez avoir quelque forme de communication si aisé et écrit quel est votre langue de fonctionnement primaire ? Pardonner ma grammaire française pauvre. J'apprends seulement les principes fondamentaux maintenant.
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Hey, I'm just doing my thing - can't help it if you're impressed.Originally posted by thinger:ged, your witty sense of humor is excellent.
you're hilarious
you're amazingly amusing
now how about you shove you head up your arse and quit trying to impress everyone?
Well, you're just a one-man brain trust there, aren't you now? Gazelle's had bad experiences and from what he's shown, they have been most likely his own doing. Now he wants to take those bad experiences out on women he's never met before, and you're supporting that? I don't make it policy to tolerate misogyny - if you do, keep it out of my face.Originally posted by thinger:i cant believe everyone is taking the piss out of gazelle because although some of his points are based on sweeping generalizations, there is a little bit of truth in what he says. Its also pretty obvious that he wouldnt have come up with that pile of shit for fun, so its pretty safe to assume that his generalizations are based on factual actual happenings.
If you want to talk about facts, the fact of the matter is that this loser is taking a clump of slime from his low rung on the evolutionary ladder, and trying to hit some women on a higher rung with it. Suit yourself if you want to be spineless and clap your hands like a giggling idiot while he does it, but either lead, follow, or get the hell out of the way.
Go get sleep - you're obviously not thinking straight.Originally posted by thinger:bah. i just chanced across this thread. its early in the morning and im tired. -
Whoops, they don't award prizes on this forum, but they do have some nice parting gifts:Originally posted by fymk:woohoo I guessed out roughly what gedanken does
A specialist consultant!
any prizes?
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LOL! Good one, fymk! Maybe he gets his wife to parlez Français for him. Besides, he said he's in Paris, but he didn't say that he was working there. Probably scraped up his lunch money for a kontiki tour in Paris.Originally posted by fymk:Monsieur Gazelle,
Oh! vous êtes à paris ? Il doit signifier que vous avez un ordre excellent de français si vous travaillez là -bas. Me dire - comment parlez-vous à vos patrons étrangers ? Le français, l'allemand, le chinois ? Sûrement si vous êtes non bon dans l'anglais, vous devez avoir quelque forme de communication si aisé et écrit quel est votre langue de fonctionnement primaire ? Pardonner ma grammaire française pauvre. J'apprends seulement les principes fondamentaux maintenant.
Jusqu' à la prochaine fois ! -
Oh! you are at paris? It must mean that you have an order excel French if you work over there. To say me - how do you speak with your foreign employers? The French, the German, the Chinese? Surely if you are good non in the English, you must have some communication form so easy and written which is your functioning language primary? Forgive my poor French grammar. I learn only the basic principles now.Originally posted by fymk:Monsieur Gazelle,
Oh! vous êtes à paris ? Il doit signifier que vous avez un ordre excellent de français si vous travaillez là -bas. Me dire - comment parlez-vous à vos patrons étrangers ? Le français, l'allemand, le chinois ? Sûrement si vous êtes non bon dans l'anglais, vous devez avoir quelque forme de communication si aisé et écrit quel est votre langue de fonctionnement primaire ? Pardonner ma grammaire française pauvre. J'apprends seulement les principes fondamentaux maintenant.
Yes I am in paris, leaving for netherlands now, I will speak to you in dutch later.
Parler à la prochaine fois ! chienne -
Ooooh. His wife must have shown him how to use an online translator. Maybe she's the one with the postgrad.Originally posted by Gazelle:Oh! you are at paris? It must mean that you have an order excel French if you work over there. To say me - how do you speak with your foreign employers? The French, the German, the Chinese? Surely if you are good non in the English, you must have some communication form so easy and written which is your functioning language primary? Forgive my poor French grammar. I learn only the basic principles now.
Yes I am in paris, leaving for netherlands now, I will speak to you in dutch later.
Parler à la prochaine fois ! chienne
Onward ho to the Netherlands? That must be some kontiki tour. -
This thread seems like a concerted attack by the ladies of the forum to Gazelle for generalizations....
IMHO, i think he is juz trying to build up a lists from like mind forumers, not a defense of this perception. The lastfew threads ended up like a "who has what the most" thread --> never ending story.
I thot at the end of the day, it is whether u love our partner or not... and take all the pros and cons, lock, stock and barrel.... when does nationality comes into play here
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what u r saying makes sense. what gazelle said is the complete opposite of yours.Originally posted by diggo:This thread seems like a concerted attack by the ladies of the forum to Gazelle for generalizations....
IMHO, i think he is juz trying to build up a lists from like mind forumers, not a defense of this perception. The lastfew threads ended up like a "who has what the most" thread --> never ending story.
I thot at the end of the day, it is whether u love our partner or not... and take all the pros and cons, lock, stock and barrel.... when does nationality comes into play here
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diggo, I agree that he was attempting to build some sort of consensus, but exactly what would that consensus embody? For all intents and purposes, it was meant to get a bunch of Singaporean guys to dump on Singaporean girls.Originally posted by diggo:This thread seems like a concerted attack by the ladies of the forum to Gazelle for generalizations....
IMHO, i think he is juz trying to build up a lists from like mind forumers, not a defense of this perception. The lastfew threads ended up like a "who has what the most" thread --> never ending story.
The response of Singaporean women on this forum to this nationalistic misogyny is, in light of the original post's intent, perfectly justified. Gazelle felt entitled to act like a pig, and he's soundly gotten a reality check here. The response is perfectly parallel to the thrust of the original argument, although the consensus appears to go in the opposite direction of what gazelle anticipated.
The "whose is bigger" debate is a corollary issue. Certainly, for the status that Gazelle is claiming, he is obliged to act with more decorum than he currently displays. On top of that, he listed his circumstances as a bat to beat Singaporean women over the head with. In addition, his responses to me indicate that he's nowhere near as successful as he claims he is, otherwise he wouldn't be asking those questions of me. He's a very little person with delusions of grandeur, and he's already shown himself to be full of hot air, and his bat's now made of sponge - he can try to whack whomever he wants with it because it no longer has effect.
Exactly. Good to see that you've got a realistic perspective!Originally posted by diggo:I thot at the end of the day, it is whether u love our partner or not... and take all the pros and cons, lock, stock and barrel.... when does nationality comes into play here 
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Please Monsieur Gazelle, next time would you make the effort of buying a better translator. May I suggest to you the Systran language Translation Technologies. Since you make so much money, I believe that it would not be a problem to you. Or if you are "radin", you can get a school kid from there to do the same for a few Euros. But then, it was relaxing to laugh my S off after a hard day's work.Originally posted by Gazelle:Oh! you are at paris? It must mean that you have an order excel French if you work over there. To say me - how do you speak with your foreign employers? The French, the German, the Chinese? Surely if you are good non in the English, you must have some communication form so easy and written which is your functioning language primary? Forgive my poor French grammar. I learn only the basic principles now.
Yes I am in paris, leaving for netherlands now, I will speak to you in dutch later.
Parler à la prochaine fois ! chienne
fmyk, you have une bonne maitrise de la langue. Keep it up with your learning.
and Gazelle, if you want to swear, please use sth like: Je vais te niquer a te faire vomir ta chiote par le trou du nez. Please, be creative. It would be much appreciated. Thank you. Xie xie. Terima kasi. Merci. -
Originally posted by Shake_Spear:Please Monsieur Gazelle, next time would you make the effort of buying a better translator. May I suggest to you the Systran language Translation Technologies. Since you make so much money, I believe that it would not be a problem to you. Or if you are "radin", you can get a school kid from there to do the same for a few Euros. But then, it was relaxing to laugh my S off after a hard day's work.
fmyk, you have une bonne maitrise de la langue. Keep it up with you learning.
and Gazelle, if you want to swear, please use sth like: Je vais te nicher a te faire vomir ta chiote par le trou du nez. Please, be creative. It would be much appreciated. Thank you. Xie xie. Terima kasi. Merci.
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Dieser Faden ist aufgrund der intelligenten und beredten Antworten geschrieben als Antwort zur Gazelle äußerst interessant gewesen.
Ich finde, dass wenn er fortsetzen will, eine schmale und negative Ansicht auf Frauen von Singapur zu haben, lassen Sie ihn sein.
Er kann fortsetzen, mit seinem eigenen Glauben zu leben und in seinen intellektuellen Horizonten arm zu sein, da das etwas ist, dass gelernt und nicht verdient werden muss. -
I think his sweeping generalizations are based on what he derives as fact which could be in fact a fallacy. He didn't date the whole population of stereotypical sg women to earn the right to make his comments.
its a discussion board aye? discussion network i mean. its a speakers corner too - obviously whatever hes saying isnt law and isnt absoulte. its just his viewpoint, you can agree, or agree to disagree, but shit dont just slam him down.
Even if he did sociological research , he needs some power in his sampling to find a plausible assumption. He needs to state his methods as well - what type of girls he dated, their income group, social status ( no offence but a doctor will differ highly from a salesgirl in behaviour, a lawyer will differ from a doctor etc), how many girls he dated to base his assumptions, his current status when he was dating the girl, potential confounders , such as parents etc.
If he wants to comment based on his factual actual happenings - he could pose it as "ten things to consider when you meet the same type of girls I did". I am not saying he didn't live through it- I sympathise with him that he met those girls who gave him those impressions.
We only heard his side of the story. Who knows he could be an obnoxious man who expects alot out of a woman? Some singaporean guys I know want their wives to be housewives - period - no discussion. Do I condemn all typical sg guys for that?Do I really want to class them as a typical sg guy? Not really. Who knows what went wrong? No offence gazelle ( you could be a nice guy but I am stating a fact that no one knows two sides of your story in order to agree or disagree with you).
all of yous are supposed to be fucking adults. stop dissing each other because even though (yes you ged) you dress it up with big words, long sentence structures and so called "wit" (which really isnt), in the end its pretty fucking inmature.
whjat the hell is the point of typing french into an english discussion board?
or german?
"Ooooh. His wife must have shown him how to use an online translator. Maybe she's the one with the postgrad."
-->fuck you too. youve got a job and you still tease people like you';re in primary school?
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he made his point by slamming us women, and we cant make our point by slamming him??Originally posted by thinger:its a discussion board aye? discussion network i mean. its a speakers corner too - obviously whatever hes saying isnt law and isnt absoulte. its just his viewpoint, you can agree, or agree to disagree, but shit dont just slam him down.
all of yous are supposed to be fucking adults. stop dissing each other because even though (yes you ged) you dress it up with big words, long sentence structures and so called "wit" (which really isnt), in the end its pretty fucking inmature.
whjat the hell is the point of typing french into an english discussion board?
or german?
"Ooooh. His wife must have shown him how to use an online translator. Maybe she's the one with the postgrad."
-->fuck you too. youve got a job and you still tease people like you';re in primary school?
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Lol its just that its so funny.Originally posted by thinger:its a discussion board aye? discussion network i mean. its a speakers corner too - obviously whatever hes saying isnt law and isnt absoulte. its just his viewpoint, you can agree, or agree to disagree, but shit dont just slam him down.
all of yous are supposed to be fucking adults. stop dissing each other because even though (yes you ged) you dress it up with big words, long sentence structures and so called "wit" (which really isnt), in the end its pretty fucking inmature.
whjat the hell is the point of typing french into an english discussion board?
or german?
"Ooooh. His wife must have shown him how to use an online translator. Maybe she's the one with the postgrad."
-->fuck you too. youve got a job and you still tease people like you';re in primary school?
sorry peoples - no offence.
We wouldn't have continued if he didn't encourage it. It's just that the way Mr. Deer tries to to justify his views are so funny that we can't help it
Sorry if you are irritated by the posts. Just ignore this thread. Anyway, in regards to Ged's thread (Ok I don't know Ged well) I think he has a very sarcastic, cynical dry form of humor which I think its witty because not everyone can pull that off. Most of it that is.
As for typing in another language its all in good fun
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Better get some more sleep, thinger - you've just mixed elindra's and fymk's posts with mine.
I'm not going to bother answering your tantrum until you get yourself sorted out and address points that I have put forward. I haven't spoken on the other forumites' behalf, and I'm not about to start.
If you can't tell one post from another in your rabid rantings, I doubt that you're actually engaging in any reasonable form of thought. That, in combination with your choice of syntax, effectively robs you of any leg to stand on in the maturity department.
So far, you've made yourself look like an utter fool with no control whatsoever of his faculties, ranting, swearing and mixing up posts. I'm just going to sit here, take the mickey out of you and Gazelle, and have a jolly good time. -
I think that is because he is irritated by the 3 of us?Originally posted by Gedanken:Better get some more sleep, thinger - you've just mixed elindra's and fymk's posts with mine.
I'm not going to bother answering your tantrum until you get yourself sorted out and address points that I have put forward. I haven't spoken on the other forumites' behalf, and I'm not about to start.
If you can't tell one post from another in your rabid rantings, I doubt that you're actually engaging any form of thought.
I just had to post something. I was like reading this thread throughout the day at work but didn't have the time to write anything
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Maybe he's Gazelle's clone, and this is about the only thing he can come up with to dig himself out of his hole.Originally posted by elindra:I think that is because he is irritated by the 3 of us?
I just had to post something. I was like reading this thread throughout the day at work but didn't have the time to write anything
This is getting way too hilarious
Your German post was very good for a chuckle, elindra. I'll happily admit I had to run your post through the translator. -
Exactly, foxwalk. As Will Smith said, "Don't start nuthin', won't be nuthin!".Originally posted by foxwalk:he made his point by slamming us women, and we cant make our point by slamming him?? -
And I'll happily admit that I can't speak or understand German except for some wordsOriginally posted by Gedanken:Maybe he's Gazelle's clone, and this is about the only thing he can come up with to dig himself out of his hole.
Your German post was very good for a chuckle, elindra. I'll happily admit I had to run your post through the translator.
I have that post in German for a reason which does not need to be spelt out -
This thread has been extremely interesting on account of the intelligent and well-spoken answers written in reply to Gazelle.Originally posted by elindra:Dieser Faden ist aufgrund der intelligenten und beredten Antworten geschrieben als Antwort zur Gazelle äußerst interessant gewesen.
Ich finde, dass wenn er fortsetzen will, eine schmale und negative Ansicht auf Frauen von Singapur zu haben, lassen Sie ihn sein.
Er kann fortsetzen, mit seinem eigenen Glauben zu leben und in seinen intellektuellen Horizonten arm zu sein, da das etwas ist, dass gelernt und nicht verdient werden muss.
I think that if he wants to continue to have a narrow and negative view on women of Singapore, let him be.
He can continue to live with his own belief and be poor in his intellectual horizons, because there are some things that must be learned and not earned. -
You might have to write that in Dutch, elindra!