10 things to consider when marrying a typical sg girl
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I am kinda of supporting you until you made this type of comments to one (Thinger) whom I think do not deserve such mockery . . . . . . . . . . . . .Originally posted by Gedanken:Better get some more sleep, thinger - you've just mixed elindra's and fymk's posts with mine.
I'm not going to bother answering your tantrum until you get yourself sorted out and address points that I have put forward. I haven't spoken on the other forumites' behalf, and I'm not about to start.
If you can't tell one post from another in your rabid rantings, I doubt that you're actually engaging in any reasonable form of thought. That, in combination with your choice of syntax, effectively robs you of any leg to stand on in the maturity department.
So far, you've made yourself look like an utter fool with no control whatsoever of his faculties, ranting, swearing and mixing up posts. I'm just going to sit here, take the mickey out of you and Gazelle, and have a jolly good time. -
alternative? ha after reading how you all responded to him i'm already on his sideOriginally posted by Gedanken:And your alternative is ... ?
if this is how you behave normally, its no wonder why men are flocking overseas -
Jeez...Ged is a guy....I can't imagine if you guys start going after him
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Qitai, if he's going to start off in his first post by telling me to shove my head up my arse, I see no reason to be civil to him. For what it's worth, I was a bit surprised by that post because up till that point he seemed to be the reasonable sort.Originally posted by Qitai:I am kinda of supporting you until you made this type of comments to one (Thinger) whom I think do not deserve such mockery . . . . . . . . . . . . . -
Ah, thought so. Another flaccid, impotent whinger who loves offering complaints without alternatives.Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:alternative? ha after reading how you all responded to him i'm already on his side -
Okay, I just re-trace the order of the message. You are right. He started it first. So, I will take a step backward on this. I will go back into silent mode.Originally posted by Gedanken:Qitai, if he's going to start off in his first post by telling me to shove my head up my arse, I see no reason to be civil to him. For what it's worth, I was a bit surprised by that post because up till that point he seemed to be the reasonable sort. -
thought so? Another flaccid, impotent whinger? too bad i'm not flaccid nor impotent, as for whinger, you're doing more of that yourselfOriginally posted by Gedanken:Ah, thought so. Another flaccid, impotent whinger who loves offering complaints without alternatives.
is that all you're capable of? more insults?
and yes i do know gedanken is a guy
i'm refering to those comments accompanying his, instead of correcting grazelle in a constructive manner, you prefer gedanken's method of attacking him -
Well there were constructive posts initiallyOriginally posted by oldbreadstinks:thought so? Another flaccid, impotent whinger? too bad i'm not flaccid nor impotent, as for whinger, you're doing more of that yourself
is that all you're capable of? more insults?
and yes i do know gedanken is a guy
i'm refering to those comments accompanying his, instead of correcting grazelle in a constructive manner, you prefer gedanken's method of attacking him
But his replies were so
That it started to get offensive -
That's right, just shift the focus to the insults so that you don't have to face the fact that you couldn't offer an alternative to give substance to your whinging. All you've presented to this point is pontification - without substance, yes, you are flaccid and impotent.Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:thought so? Another flaccid, impotent whinger? too bad i'm not flaccid nor impotent, as for whinger, you're doing more of that yourself
is that all you're capable of? more insults?
Constructive comments? Are you trying to insult everyone's intelligence by suggesting that Gazelle would actually respond to constructive comments? Other posters started off answering his 10 points directly, and all he did was escalate the situation. Get a grip.Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:and yes i do know gedanken is a guy
i'm refering to those comments accompanying his, instead of correcting grazelle in a constructive manner, you prefer gedanken's method of attacking him
Besides, it's obvious you're not too bright - you can't even recognise flamebait when you see it. -
Thank you, Qitai. I knew I could count on you to be reasonable. Please, if you have a view on the subject matter, don't be silent.Originally posted by Qitai:Okay, I just re-trace the order of the message. You are right. He started it first. So, I will take a step backward on this. I will go back into silent mode.
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I have already made my views known in one of the earlier pages, but it probably went without notice. Simply put, my list is very different from his. Only three reqiurements - love, willingness to commit and able to communicate. I believe the rest can be accomodated (by both me and my girlfriend) as long as the above three elements are in place.Originally posted by Gedanken:Thank you, Qitai. I knew I could count on you to be reasonable. Please, if you have a view on the subject matter, don't be silent. -
Whoops, my turn to say mea culpa!Originally posted by Qitai:I have already made my views known in one of the earlier pages, but it probably went without notice. Simply put, my list is very different from his. Only three reqiurements - love, willingness to commit and able to communicate. I believe the rest can be accomodated (by both me and my girlfriend) as long as the above three elements are in place.
That's a nice, simple and effective list of elements. -
And so, men can sit back and make sweeping statements like all sg women cannot cook, cannot be trusted, etc etc. and then expect us to sit and remain docile and smile at you and take your orders??!!!!Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:alternative? ha after reading how you all responded to him i'm already on his side
if this is how you behave normally, its no wonder why men are flocking overseas
There is a reason why our claws came unsheathed in this instance and I suggest that you re-read the entire thread again.
If the men who flock overseas are of that kind of calibre, then I'll say, go ahead, flock overseas! And bring along your cronies too! Not our loss! -
Ooh, Rhonda, now you've gone and done it. Where's your constructive criticism and kid gloves?
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Hmm... what's that famous line from 'Who Killed Roger Rabbit'? Ah... 'I'm not bad... I'm just born this way'!
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Damn Dr G are you sure you are a man? Honest I didnt feel any man in you when I read your posting. I really thought that you are some kind of rich fart educated s luts or something. Or are you in between?
I actually was dumb enough to spend some of my holiday time reading through your countless and senseless posting. Somehow I concluded that you are quite dumb stupid desperate and showy.
Do you know that only dumb rich arse and sugar daddy give rolex watches to girl friends. I feel that you are being overly desperate and stupid, no wonder she is still your gf. If I am your girl, i will make sure you buy be a rolex every year so that by the time I turn 60s, I will have about 40 rolex watches and I can still say NO! However I know you wont be that dumb. there is not free lunch in this world right?
I believe all these expensive gifts will end once you managed to get her in bed with you. am I right? you such a nasty boy!!! i like that .
Can you imagine one day this poor GF of yours is going to wake up in horror and realize that her once loaded white horny unicorn suddenly turned into a penny-pinching hairy and horny color wolves.
hmm....
I think..I have also found the answer to why sg women are all chasing after all these material stuff. The reason is people like you, some young man who make a bit of money and start flashing their money around. (in school we call this Chee Hong) didnt your mum teach your the value of money? How many rolex have you wasted in your career on girls? (bloody hell, I cant only afford a swatch watch... )
Dr.G, can I know why did you specifically say that fellow forumites (sound like some creepy termite) actually met your girl friend. Did I happened to ask you that? or are you indirectly trying to tell me that your gf is such a big deal that she attract paparazzi and all those mites? btw, how many mites actually turn up?
Since you are running a company, can I know why your company is paying you so much money, $1000 per day, or $41.00 per hours, when most of your time in spend in this forum b itching about other's grammer
In total you posted more than 2200 times, do you know how many units of thousand dollar per hour is that? not to count the time you spend checking my grammer
I honestly think you are being over paid, and under work. But who cares right, you are the big boss man right?
Now that I know how much you are being paid, I kinda of feel sad for my company CEO. I work for a corporation that employs 30,000 staffs worldwide and from our annual financial statement, i dont think my CEO is not paid that much in direct salary. Seems like your company must be ripping lots of profit from those mentally ill clients huh. Do you think I can sell them 50 cents for $1
(Btw, do you have people working for your or your are a one man show?)
You say you are some kind of organisational psychologist right, am I right to say that your job is to teach your client how to brain wash others so as to buy into some kind of scam or MLM? in short Brain Washing Machine. thats impressive but thanks god my company dont need such service.
Btw since we are talking about relationship, can you shed some light about your love life? I am curios to know how a women can survive having a guy that bitc.h like a bitc.h in heat. Honestly are you sure you are attached? or are you just going after this girl with your rolexes?
I understand that you hardly get to see you gf, do you sometimg feel abit insecure? do you sometime feel that she might be dating some poorer and lesser guy, that just buy her mickey mouse watches for present?
Opps..forget to check my grammer, jia lat...sure kenna red card!!... -
shit this has come a long way...
sorry - ive been busy doing other stuff...you know, holidays.Better get some more sleep, thinger - you've just mixed elindra's and fymk's posts with mine.
my bad - its the no sleep and alcohol poisioning. suppose its not excuse. im also broke - shopping threapy sort of doesnt work because you spend all your money and get all shitty again.If you can't tell one post from another in your rabid rantings, I doubt that you're actually engaging in any reasonable form of thought. That, in combination with your choice of syntax, effectively robs you of any leg to stand on in the maturity department.
-bah.
So far, you've made yourself look like an utter fool with no control whatsoever of his faculties, ranting, swearing and mixing up posts. I'm just going to sit here, take the mickey out of you and Gazelle, and have a jolly good time.he made his point by slamming us women, and we cant make our point by slamming him??
-he didnt actually make the whole women thing personal did he? you realize you are going a tag overboard with the "right-back-at-ya" stuff you're piling onto him? gazelle might be a chauvinistic fucker but that really doesnt mean that you being a femme nazi is really going to help things along.I think that is because he is irritated by the 3 of us?
no not really. nice to know isnt it? im cold turkey, its only like day 5I am kinda of supporting you until you made this type of comments to one (Thinger) whom I think do not deserve such mockery . . . . . . . . . . . . .
thats qitai. but really, who cares?Qitai, if he's going to start off in his first post by telling me to shove my head up my arse, I see no reason to be civil to him. For what it's worth, I was a bit surprised by that post because up till that point he seemed to be the reasonable sort.
shove your head up your arse - its a figure of speech. its not exactly rude is it?
btw whoevers giving a rolex watch to his/her chick/guy - please get something other than a rolex. they're so ewurgh... -
Opps..forget to check my grammer, jia lat...sure kenna red card!!...
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And so, men can sit back and make sweeping statements like all sg women cannot cook, cannot be trusted, etc etc. and then expect us to sit and remain docile and smile at you and take your orders??!!!!
I think youd find it to be your loss if every single dude in singapore fled the country.
There is a reason why our claws came unsheathed in this instance and I suggest that you re-read the entire thread again.
If the men who flock overseas are of that kind of calibre, then I'll say, go ahead, flock overseas! And bring along your cronies too! Not our loss!
But anyways, no. Of course its not very nice that "men sit back and make sweeping statements......and expect women (would your rather i spelt this "wemyn"?) to take their orders", but honestly, its not like females dont act that way to guys.
Its ten in the bloody morning so i'll try and put this into a half-decent post, excuse me if i dont.
yeah so, the point is that, in general, females love slamming guys for not understanding them; for too much criticism; not enough understanding; blah blah blah.
but at the same time, guys come up with this bullshti about wemyn (add gazelle's 10 points here and change the grammar to make it read well),
so all hell breaks loose when guys and chicks clash and start fuckin arguing with each other. and its a vicious cycle because girls always go "he doesnt understand - hes a guy - guys think differently" and the guys go "she doesnt understand - shes a girl - they think different to guys".
this is way off the topic now so excuse me but its not like anyone really cares innit?
so since there is not...i dont knwo how to say, a standardized 'protocol' of commuication that exists between men and womyn - we get big arsed fuckups. fair enough?
now back to the topic of "we should all prey on gazelle"
yeah okay, admittedly, some (using it loosely) of his points are a bit unfair towards womyn, and of course do not reflect what all men in singapore think, but you have to admit that it is most probably based on the truth. think about it for a tic,
a statement is true, or
a statement is false, or
a statement is based on the truth.
so, gazelles statements arent totally true are they? so his statement is untrue.
gazelles statements arent totally false are they? im sure the girls here have girlfriends that fit gazelle's "mean arsed singaporean bitch" criteria, so his statement isnt false either.
so we're left with gazelle's statement being based on true events, because who the hell in the world would waste time on stupid boards like these typing in ridiculously retarded ideas in the hope that anyone will agree?
bah. anyway (for this next point of mine to work you have to agree that what gazelle says holds some truth),
because what gazelle says is based on the truth, it would also logicially mean that his points can be true for a singapore girl. they DO NOT HAVE to be true, but they CAN be. agreed?
So, if i dived into a pool or singapore girls, there would be a chance that i caught a girl with gazelle's "bad traits" that he mentioned right? If you can agree that there IS a chance (even if its slim) that the girl i land up with has the potential to be a bitch, then what Gazelle says in his topic, "10 things to consider when marrying a typical singporean girl" HAS TO BE TRUE for guys. This whole paragraph isnt based on personal thoughts if you havent realized, to follow it you need to think logically. (hopefully im awake enough now)
so anyway, back to "10 things to consider...girl", what gazelle is saying has to be true. He's warning guys that if you marry A TYPICAL SG GIRL (note: he didnt say "THE typical", he said "A typical") guys have got to be wary that they do not carry the 10deadly sins. In this context, typical can mean "average", not "sterotypical" or anything else with connotations like that.
okay guess what? i just lost my trend of thought and cant really understand what i just typed.
anyways, gazelle stop talking too much shit.
ged, stop pissing on him. i mean, go on if you want because i think its funny(as in funny, not witty). i just had to take a stand, you know, before i typed anything back and he seemed outgunned and outnumbered.
the rest of the girls - yes yes, i agree, singapore men are a pain in the arse sometimes. for the record, im not singaporean. and i dont have to do ns. yippie.
the rest of the guys - yes yes, singapore women can be a pain in the arse too...dont fret, any sort of woman can.
im going for breakfast. enjoy work to those that have a job. -
so anyway, back to "10 things to consider...girl", what gazelle is saying has to be true. He's warning guys that if you marry A TYPICAL SG GIRL (note: he didnt say "THE typical", he said "A typical" guys have got to be wary that they do not carry the 10deadly sins. In this context, typical can mean "average", not "sterotypical"; or anything else with connotations like that.
i just realized that i didnt understand a single word i typed in that paragraph
anyway, basically what im trying to say is that because gazelle said
10 THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN MARYING A TYPICAL SINGAPORE GIRL,
you cannot say hes talking shit.
Look at the wording of it: is he condemning all singaporean girls? Nope.
And he says "...marrying a typical sg girl..."
"A typical sg girl" obviously means that the scenario is that of a guy marrying one of many girls, taken from a pool of "typical singaporean girls".
Had gazelle said "10things to consider...THE typical singaporean girl", hence meaning that a guy is marrying one girl, that reflects the entire female singaporean population, id shove my head up my arse till it came out of my mouth.
but anyway, i dont think i worded that any better than before so i'll shut up now.
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Erhmm thinger, what I understand from the word 'typical' is that it applies to the majority and not the minority.
I agree that there are girls which meet his 10 pts but they are not common enough to be labelled as 'typical'.
Therefore, I read 'a typical' as in one of the majority.
The problem I see is that the sore thumb always sticks out. -
*clap clap* You sound like a boerenpummel - uncivilised boor ( that's dutch for you) . Now now , you need not be rude. I was trying to be as civil as possible in broken french, in case , you thought otherwise.Originally posted by Gazelle:chienne
Judging from that behaviour of yours, I can assure you that you were probably part of the problem when you dated sg girls.
Don't bother using a dutch equivalent of your chienne - that is "de hoer spelen" , just in case you decide to .
Unfortunately for you ,you are not the only one who knows how to swear in multilanguage mode. -
There are plenty more criticisms of sg girls than sg guys.
Let me bring this up :
When an sg girl dates a caucasian - she is called an SPG
When an sg girl marries a foreigner - the girl "cheats singapore" out of a soldier.
When an sg girl marries out of race - it is because the guys have bigger ****
When an sg girl tries to speak in proper english - it is because "she thinks she wants to be high class"
When an sg girl wants to work - she is too independent or get blamed for being "superwoman" and not willing to have a life/family
When an sg girl decides to be a housewife - she is too dependent or she is a gold digger or she is a nag.
When an sg girl retorts a guy's comments - she is argumentative
When an sg girl breaks up with an sg guy - we get comments similar to gazelle's comments.
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I sympathise with gazelle.... I mean there r other worse threads like the previous thread where singapore guys get bashed up as well. He is probably fuming when he started tis thread since most of the points appear to be aiming at justicelegal...
If u ask me, I do have the impression tat singapore girls can't cook... but frankly tat is a trend tat all developed countries have. But at least they know how to work and earn money. Their time is used on study and work as well so u can't really blame them for not knowing how to cook well.
Looking at the previous thread on how Justicelegal like money, i do have tis impression tat singapore girls look at money too deeply as well.. Tis is nothing to be shameful of since situation at china, taiwan, hong kong, korea or japan r similar as well. Nevertheless singapore girls r still attractive to me In fact by looking at these 2 threads singapore men do like singapore women and vice versa.
Gendenkan, u r funny but u r too overpowering tat I can't bear to look at the things u had written about gazelle 1/2 way through...
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Actually, if you really want to talk about gender bashing threads. There are more threads bashing girls then guys.Originally posted by stupidissmart:I sympathise with gazelle.... I mean there r other worse threads like the previous thread where singapore guys get bashed up as well. He is probably fuming when he started tis thread since most of the points appear to be aiming at justicelegal...
If u ask me, I do have the impression tat singapore girls can't cook... but frankly tat is a trend tat all developed countries have. But at least they know how to work and earn money. Their time is used on study and work as well so u can't really blame them for not knowing how to cook well.
Looking at the previous thread on how Justicelegal like money, i do have tis impression tat singapore girls look at money too deeply as well.. Tis is nothing to be shameful of since situation at china, taiwan, hong kong, korea or japan r similar as well. Nevertheless singapore girls r still attractive to me In fact by looking at these 2 threads singapore men do like singapore women and vice versa.
Gendenkan, u r funny but u r too overpowering tat I can't bear to look at the things u had written about gazelle 1/2 way through...
Please don't flame me... *exit thread*
Anyway, JusticeLegal makes her thread sound worst then Gazelle.