The girl who threw the baby down the chute
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Come on! now to voice those bitchiness about the girl who threw her baby down the chute. Wrap it in papers and put in a bag somemore. I think she's uterly ruthless, heartless and deserves to be condemned.
PLUS the best part is, she is in UNI and she is not bad looking. Whatever happened to the father of the baby who doesn't stop her from doing so, either way, she will live with a guilt conscience forever.
What do you guys think?
Why do people actually resort to such measures? -desperate, bright future ahead and can't let the kid spoil it?- i guess there are more to this den i have mentioned, so pls tell me. -
the poor gal must have been in one hell of a mess since she knew she was preggers. wat she did was utterly wrong and i guess by law she should be punished. the sad bit would be the father of the child gets away scott free. oh well, this society is farked.
oh yah, the parents of this gal also very blind. cannot see meh?? -
Sad.Why are people so closed to the idea of adoption.You messed up, own up and live with it.Don't try to hide things.
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Study so much and yet end up doing this kinda stupid & senseless things.
Saw some gals never study much also have the respondsibilitiy to either abort early or be a single parent.
Give birth and throw away ??!! OMG what is wrong with this gal??!! Too much study cause her to have an unsound mind??!! -
they showed her pictures meh? how come you know she is quite pretty? very cruel lei. maybe the ger study too much till her future is more important than a small life!! what are we really getting out of all this education
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Channelnewsasia website wrote she's 'pretty' from the mouths of neighbours. First i think the problem lies with the bf. He should have the decency to stop the death or at least be responsible over the mess he has created. n next, 9 mths of carrying a life, the parents have no idea what their daughter is doing? Yes, the girl is a major fault. Study so much and yet do things as stupid as this. If anyone of the girl's friend read this, tell her i think she is stupid, so so so stupid. a disgrace to all who have been through proper education but can't think. And have no responsibility. She should jus *burn*Originally posted by Ice79:they showed her pictures meh? how come you know she is quite pretty? very cruel lei. maybe the ger study too much till her future is more important than a small life!! what are we really getting out of all this education -
She's pretty and dumb!!!! Darn, why do so many girls like to go for married man out there, are they blind, or they really don't see that there are bachelors around. They tend to have this false perception that married man are more sensitive, dependable, good looking etc etc.....
Those married men who have mistress are probably more sensitive (becos they are alerted in the ways of lying), dependable (my arse, so dependable why they betray their own wife?), good looking (huh???)
And she's super dumb, she doesn't realise that no matter how many babies she's gonna throw down, she's not going to get his heart, becos there probably ain't any for her..... -
See, it is precisely all this kind of malicious gossip, finger pointing, casting the first stone, etc that can drive desparate women to do these things. If people in general were more compassionate, forgiving and less judgemental who knows, tragedies like this might well have been avoided. But as we all know, Singaporeans love to see others fall and gossip about them. I'm sure she knew that as a single mother, she'd be ostracised by people around her. Just look at the kind of treatment single mothers get, even from our own government
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Ya, blame the stupid guy who got her pregnant. He must have dumped her else she wouldn't have got rid of the baby.Originally posted by av98m:See, it is precisely all this kind of malicious gossip, finger pointing, casting the first stone, etc that can drive desparate women to do these things. If people in general were more compassionate, forgiving and less judgemental who knows, tragedies like this might well have been avoided. But as we all know, Singaporeans love to see others fall and gossip about them. I'm sure she knew that as a single mother, she'd be ostracised by people around her. Just look at the kind of treatment single mothers get, even from our own government
She must be not in the right frame of mind to have done this.
Parents must also take responsibility cos they don't even realise their daughter is in this state. We must pay more attention to our children & educate them abt premarital sex. -
Did the news source say anything about her having a baby with a married man? Just want to confirm since i only saw the today's version thanksOriginally posted by AntiAnti:She's pretty and dumb!!!! Darn, why do so many girls like to go for married man out there, are they blind, or they really don't see that there are bachelors around. They tend to have this false perception that married man are more sensitive, dependable, good looking etc etc.....
Those married men who have mistress are probably more sensitive (becos they are alerted in the ways of lying), dependable (my arse, so dependable why they betray their own wife?), good looking (huh???)
And she's super dumb, she doesn't realise that no matter how many babies she's gonna throw down, she's not going to get his heart, becos there probably ain't any for her..... -
aiya ppl did tis sure got her reasons la...as saying goes which parents don dote their children? although its very inhuman to do tis...the guy has more fault actually...
nv heard of the guy at all...he shud have stand out and said its his fault...instead let the gal to take all blame...some more ppls said she is a good gal....must be tat bloody guy fault...damn him... -
For her to go thru all dat physical pains of labour all by herself, can any1 survive dat in a "clear" state of mind? She muz haf went thru hell for the past few months.. all alone, helpless, lost, scared.. & finally desperation led to such tragedy. There had been too many similar reported cases of "dumped babies" b4, so y did she still do it? Is she totally unaware of the consequences or she really thinks dat she can get away scot-free?
Sure she messed up her own life.. she deserved to b penalised. But when things go wrong, pple start pointing fingers, calling names, its no wonder y she, a role model (under pple's impressions) wans to escape. Now, she'll haf to live with guilt forever, she won't b having it gd either.
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Today's version of report. She's detained at KK hospital and getting questioned by police and bf arrested also getting questioned by police. And she's a 3rd year business student at a local uni. Hope its not mine. =)
And yes, i do feel that the bf should take responsibility less blame over what has happened.
i saw something interesting in CNA's website. http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporelocalnews/view/134859/1/.html
This is the way things should go and with more young MPs taking seats, i think this is the time it is going somewhere. BTW, Eunice Olsen is spokesman for the BABIES thing.
I feel something so strong for this case because my auntie tried to have children but couldn't and adopted 2 kids but finally gave in to breast cancer and left the 2 adopted kids to the father. So there are people who are desperate enough to resort to adoption but no one cares. -
hMz...she stays in the hostel? If not, how is it possible that her parents have no ideas?Originally posted by dezling:Today's version of report. She's detained at KK hospital and getting questioned by police and bf arrested also getting questioned by police. And she's a 3rd year business student at a local uni. Hope its not mine. =)
And yes, i do feel that the bf should take responsibility less blame over what has happened.
i saw something interesting in CNA's website. http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporelocalnews/view/134859/1/.html
This is the way things should go and with more young MPs taking seats, i think this is the time it is going somewhere. BTW, Eunice Olsen is spokesman for the BABIES thing.
I feel something so strong for this case because my auntie tried to have children but couldn't and adopted 2 kids but finally gave in to breast cancer and left the 2 adopted kids to the father. So there are people who are desperate enough to resort to adoption but no one cares.
Well...garment supports birth anyway...isn't it?
Heard that all the hostels in local Uni.s are mixed already...male & female same level???? Is it true? -
Let He Who Is Without. Sin Cast The First Stone
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Adoption adoption adoption.WAKE UP you ignorant imbeciles...
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Zhun bo?Originally posted by dcx:hMz...she stays in the hostel? If not, how is it possible that her parents have no ideas?
Well...garment supports birth anyway...isn't it?
Heard that all the hostels in local Uni.s are mixed already...male & female same level???? Is it true?
Still will seperated mah.... -
Originally posted by crazy monkey:
AMEN to that forever and ever more.......
[b]Let He Who Is Without. Sin Cast The First Stone[/b] -
Originally posted by crazy monkey:
i'm not without sin, but at least i never got anyone pregnant and dumped them
[b]Let He Who Is Without. Sin Cast The First Stone[/b]
as for the girl, i disagree with everything she did but its her own life -
I think everyone needs to learn how to solve their problems wisely. Just hiding and running away from them will not solve the problem. Running away from her problem is what the girl is doing when she chucked the baby into the rubbish chute...I dunno if she still possess this thing called conscience, if she does, I think it will haunt her for the rest of her life for doing something as cruel as this to her own flesh and blood...
We can blame a lot of people in this case, but in the end, prevention is still better than cure.
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Actually she's an SIM student, so i dun think got hostel for her..Originally posted by dcx:hMz...she stays in the hostel? If not, how is it possible that her parents have no ideas?
Well...garment supports birth anyway...isn't it?
Heard that all the hostels in local Uni.s are mixed already...male & female same level???? Is it true?
University hostels here have quite strict rules about not allowing a male and a female to be in the same room with the door closed. But who gives a damn? People are opening making out in the hostel rooms man... with NTU being the worst of the lot. -
In where I stay here, guys and girls stay in the same floor. We are also allowed to have guys in our room, in fact I have had guy friends in my room before until the next morning. The most important thing is not what people around us think, but what we know we do and didn't do. So if one has enuff self-dicipline and control, staying in the same floor with the opposite gender doesn't make anymore difference than staying in a single gender dorm. If there is no self-control present, no matter what rules are enforced, the person will still find a way to break the rule...Originally posted by cornyfish2000:Actually she's an SIM student, so i dun think got hostel for her..
University hostels here have quite strict rules about not allowing a male and a female to be in the same room with the door closed. But who gives a damn? People are opening making out in the hostel rooms man... with NTU being the worst of the lot.
It all lies within ourselves. Our life, our decision.
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Accidents happen....prevention is the best. But destroying life is definitely no-no, i guess.
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cant see reason why the gal need to do that as she can go for abortion if still in time. moreover why not have protection sex in the first place. all this show this gal are irresponsible so i am not surprise that she throw the baby out of the rubbish chute. utterly heartless.
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heard dat d baby body is lying in d mortuary but only d gal's parent go n see but no collect. It seems dat they r waiting for d boy side to collect buy boy's side like no intention to collect.
Damn heartless not to collect his own flesh n blood n let baby hv a proper burial.
This poor gal must hv gone thru hell for all these.
Newspaper wrote dat she appear calm n expressionless in her trial. i think she doesn't have any guilt..... yet