SDU. is it effective??
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not capable never mind like to say other people and also he is sad to say "quite facially challenged" n not only that does not speak properly and can be very bluntOriginally posted by dragg:how is he or she like? can elaborate?
tis is a true story and my fren said she simply got married because its was time for her to do so -
the worst thing is to get married for the sake of marrying
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my friend also did that, she know this guy from speed dating then within 2 months they decide to get married, 6 months later they register for flat and now they are renovating their flat and this oct they are doing the chinese custom feast. she say she marry becos it's time for her to get marry, wth man! she's only 22!!!
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Sometimes. In life. You look it is for the sake of marrying. But they don't feel it.Originally posted by dragg:the worst thing is to get married for the sake of marrying
You see it that way. But they don't ! They want things fast. they want each other. And You just want to be alone. SO people leave you alone.
It's your choice. Life is short. Got people died at the age of 45 Got people died at the age of 80. So.......... . Fast don't mean it's bad ! -
its true and i cant stand her husband,he can say things likeOriginally posted by dragg:the worst thing is to get married for the sake of marrying
"limahkow, your job is in the sunset industry already"
he does not know the fact i earn muchmore than him and although in sunset industry can earn big facts, for him? got retrenched twice and not earning much and dare to comment on me -
u see the way they quarrel, like wat they say "everyday one small quarrel, every few days one big quarrel"Originally posted by skyline63:Sometimes. In life. You look it is for the sake of marrying. But they don't feel it.
You see it that way. But they don't ! They want things fast. they want each other. And You just want to be alone. SO people leave you alone.
It's your choice. Life is short. Got people died at the age of 45 Got people died at the age of 80. So.......... . Fast don't mean it's bad !
and now i told my fren "raw rice cooked to real rice already" how to divorce
but her hsb really damn one kind, really hate him to the core -
Originally posted by limahkow:
Quarrelling is quite common among couples as long as they "from make war in the living room to make love in the bed room". It may not be the best form of communication, but it is still communication. Have known some couples who could quarrel frequently over small things and still have lovey-dovey making up sessions later in their own world.
u see the way they quarrel, like wat they say "everyday one small quarrel, every few days one big quarrel"
However, when they stop talking to each other that's usually where the problem starts. -
maybe lah, but i think i see his face so kena sai, all thots of making out also want to make me vomitOriginally posted by Tuatau:Quarrelling is quite common among couples as long as they "from make war in the living room to make love in the bed room". It may not be the best form of communication, but it is still communication. Have known some couples who could quarrel frequently over small things and still have lovey-dovey making up sessions later in their own world.
However, when they stop talking to each other that's usually where the problem starts.
anyway, its hard to tell who is wrong or rite and every small thing, she wld go and call her marder in law and complain
and every thing she cannot solve with her husband, she wld involve her parents in
and now good loh, they wld be moving in with her parents and all the more, she wld have more things to complain to her marder in law and father in law
her hsb really damn one kind, ask him to go for makan with everyone in the family with his and her family, he wld say "lets go" but if ask him to pay, he wld like say "dun want to go"
he is just a free loader -
limahkow
Your friend should threat him everyday for divorce. Because he don't make a good husband. Always say in front of him. How much she can get by sue him after divorce. Enjoying the monthly allowance. Enjoying the good days of finding new man in the family.
Everyday say until he cannot take it ! Hahah!
Always speak of woman's chartor in front of him. Print it out in the computer and keep it all over the place in the house. Let him feel something is wrong. His wife is on a plan to run away. Looking at names and planning to change the SON and daughter name to others !
Then tell him the problem. If he start to talk rubbish.
1. Always complain about my job. How come his pay so low ?
2. Go out eat, he better pay or pay more in the end ! -
i think even if she sues him also wont get much money and because he is such an asshole, he accused me behind her back and said that i was trying to drive a rift between his wife and himOriginally posted by skyline63:limahkow
Your friend should threat him everyday for divorce. Because he don't make a good husband. Always say in front of him. How much she can get by sue him after divorce. Enjoying the monthly allowance. Enjoying the good days of finding new man in the family.
Everyday say until he cannot take it ! Hahah!
Always speak of woman's chartor in front of him. Print it out in the computer and keep it all over the place in the house. Let him feel something is wrong. His wife is on a plan to run away. Looking at names and planning to change the SON and daughter name to others !
Then tell him the problem. If he start to talk rubbish.
1. Always complain about my job. How come his pay so low ?
2. Go out eat, he better pay or pay more in the end !
and worse thing was he sent me a very nasty email on the first working day of the new year and i became so cheesed off i din even want to contact my good fren and when she suspected smthg was wrong, he admitted that he sent me an email and when she asked him for it, u noe how tis bastar d reacted
he refused to show it to her and claimed that he deleted it already, i was so fed up and din want to have anything to do with them until my fren forced me to show her
and i finally showed it to her, she blew her top and made a big fuss to her marder and farder in law and wat else can they do
the marder in law said "he is a grown up and wat you expect me to do, KILL HIM"
she said "yes, please kill him"
he really is a hopeless bas tard, it had caused such a rift between my fren and me until the 20 yrs frenship that we have is down the drain
he is just eyeing her money thats all, and you shld see the way he "por" the inlaws, ask him to pay for things he says no money but ask him to go out with his inlaws and they pay, he wld be the first to go -
But I do believe family matter should be solve in the family. You are her friend. But her family members or relative. How to solve for her ?
Family matters, outside people cannot be involve. This is way. When you are married. You want your husband's friend to tell him what to do ? There ? It's a double-edge sword.
For your friend somethings she have to deal with her own. If you make them divorce. In the future, your friend may just blame you for it ! Saying you are the evil woman. -
thats exactly wat i feel, family matters shld be solved within the family, like i got major pblems with my hsb, i wont tell anyone at all not even my familyOriginally posted by skyline63:But I do believe family matter should be solve in the family. You are her friend. But her family members or relative. How to solve for her ?
Family matters, outside people cannot be involve. This is way. When you are married. You want your husband's friend to tell him what to do ? There ? It's a double-edge sword.
For your friend somethings she have to deal with her own. If you make them divorce. In the future, your friend may just blame you for it ! Saying you are the evil woman.
but she tells me everything and when i try to be objective, she says "you dun understand, one" etc, of cse as a fren, we try to lend a listening ear
but tis b astard accused me of interfering in his life and send me such a nasty email you noe
now i so fed up that i have decided not to have anything to do with him
and almost everytime we go out with his wife, i am the one who pay and he really is an a s s hole