Singles mum
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usually is unwed mom...becos da dad can run wan...plus...da baby come from da mommy tummy....to prove da daddy parentage more mafan than proving mommy parentage.Originally posted by Joshua1975:should be unwed single mum. what about single unwed DAD?
isn't it the same?
face it ladies, you decided to give in than give brith and keep the baby.
illegitimate kids tend to have only a mummy as parent lo. -
You go check HDB website.. Ans is YES, they can buy a flatOriginally posted by iveco:What about divorced women? What is the government policy with regards to them? Some of these are very sad cases. -
And always ends up the mother in troubleOriginally posted by color ghost:usually is unwed mom...becos da dad can run wan...plus...da baby come from da mommy tummy....to prove da daddy parentage more mafan than proving mommy parentage.
illegitimate kids tend to have only a mummy as parent lo. -
Originally posted by czechmate:
Then, do you want them to abort or abandon the child?
Perhaps. But you have the choice. If you choose to have the child, you should be prepared for the responsibilities that come along with it. If you aren't able to support the child, whether or not society frowns on abortions, it is a life that you must be ready to bear full responsibility for. Where do you think the govt gets the dough to fund these 'perks' that single mothers want to ask for? They are single, they get whatever 'perks' the govt allots to singles; if they are marrieds/families, they get whatever 'perks' the govt allots the marrieds/families. So is the single mother asking for special treatment - to be eligible for whatever it is that singles are eligible for [b]and to be eligible for what married parents are eligible for? Are single mothers discriminated against from purchasing flats that any other single, unmarried person is allowed?
And I don't get the comparison between a single mother and a convict. They seem to be completely separate issues. My understanding of the situation with giving convicts a second chance simply this: asking people to employ them so that they are given the opportunity to contribute to society. Are employers being given cashbacks or refunds by the govt for employing them? Does anyone know about this?[/b] -
Originally posted by czechmate:
x 2
But by allowing single moms the same privileges and tax rebates, won't the govt be sending out a message to its people that it's ok to have children out of wedlock, it's ok to sleep around, it's ok to be young & irresponsible, etc? Certain rules or govt policies create an after-effect only many, many years down the road.
For instance, those who remember the questionably 'wise' [b]Two Is Enough policy. Today, we are facing a population low.
At the end of the day, we are Asians and we do have some very good values which should really not be diluted further, if at all possible. Yes, the perhaps the child born out of wedlock should not be denied a fair chance for a good start bec their parents have been irresponsible. But allowing the single mom these benefits now might result in a downward spiralling effect that could go way, way out of control. Aids is already on the increase ... [/b]
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what you have said is totally unacceptable. are you suggesting they abort to save themselves the trouble? how can they be blamed for having the baby? come on, it takes 2 hands to clap. it is because of irresponsible man that we have single mums.Originally posted by Joshua1975:should be unwed single mum. what about single unwed DAD?
isn't it the same?
face it ladies, you decided to give in than give brith and keep the baby. -
All i have to say is that...
YOU are not in their shoes or been there before.
So, HOW will you know what it feels like?
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Why screw around before marriage ? Without using condoms ? We of course not in their shoe ! We don't know how happy is to screw without using a condom ! That is the problem of Singapore woman.
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There are always accidentsOriginally posted by skyline63:Why screw around before marriage ? Without using condoms ? We of course not in their shoe ! We don't know how happy is to screw without using a condom ! That is the problem of Singapore woman. -
you have something against singaporean women?Originally posted by skyline63:Why screw around before marriage ? Without using condoms ? We of course not in their shoe ! We don't know how happy is to screw without using a condom ! That is the problem of Singapore woman. -
Single mum?
If got 2 kids, double mum?
A 'single mum' is actually a girl with a baby.
This person has a problem, or more accurately plenty problems.
Housing, money, time management and a head ache.
She wants help.
From the government.
But the government sees her as an individual.
A person with a baby.
A person with a baby, want apply HDB flat.
Cannot because rule says cannot.
Must be married, then apply.
Otherwise many girls get pregnant to apply for flat. Government thinks so.
These people with kids,'single mums, single DADs', should they need help,
They should go to the appropriate welfare agencies for help.
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Cannot buy HDB can buy condo mah ! Single mum can do that right ! After the age of 35 years old you can also buy 3-room HDB. OK mah ! HDB is for family. Not for Single mum who screw around then they have to bear all the things she did ! Who ask her to open leg ?
Who ask you to screw around at the age of 18 then give birth ?
Single dad ? Where the wife ? Died Still consider marriage. Right ? Sure can apply for HDB leh !
HDB is for family. Not for girls who go to Disco, Clubbing, wearing sexy. Sleeping around asking from stranger . Then........ blame the Singapore man. Worse of all " Most of them are not even local but "AH MO" white.
There is family of four. Need HDB too. And they did nothing wrong. Why should they fight like mad for a HDB with "SINGLE MUM" that did everything wrong. -
So you think they wanted to in the 1st place? There have been cases the couple is getting married, but the girl got preggy and the guy just runned awayOriginally posted by skyline63:Cannot buy HDB can buy condo mah ! Single mum can do that right ! After the age of 35 years old you can also buy 3-room HDB. OK mah ! HDB is for family. Not for Single mum who screw around then they have to bear all the things she did ! Who ask her to open leg ?
Who ask you to screw around at the age of 18 then give birth ?
Single dad ? Where the wife ? Died Still consider marriage. Right ? -
Then sleep after marriage loh. Who ask you to open leg big big for people to put their cock in ?
I also in the same as you age group. In 30++. Why Only after ROM then I slept with my wife ? -
Is getting married and married is a great different leh ! Why can just do it after ROM ? ROM with paperwork. Sue him ! For money and make sure he bankcrupt if he cannot pay. For him, he is your husband. If he run. The law will catch him.Originally posted by sbst275:So you think they wanted to in the 1st place? There have been cases the couple is getting married, but the girl got preggy and the guy just runned away -
i know many many of you are gonna kill me for saying this but that's y our parents esp mums have always been warning us not to hv sex (don't luan luan lai) before married......so y??
is it really needed to hv sex before married?? y???
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Well, it all depends... Some ppl just cannot face the consequences... Or have never thought of itOriginally posted by skyline63:Then sleep after marriage loh. Who ask you to open leg big big for people to put their cock in ?
I also in the same as you age group. In 30++. Why Only after ROM then I slept with my wife ? -
Well... It is not that we wanted to, but... Accidents do happenOriginally posted by a_splash:i know many many of you are gonna kill me for saying this but that's y our parents esp mums have always been warning us not to hv sex (don't luan luan lai) before married......so y??
is it really needed to hv sex before married?? y??? -
so if the girls allow the guys to hv sex with them....too bad they have their big lessons to learn.... i know i sound horrid,but its a fact.....
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Well... Maybe...Originally posted by a_splash:so if the girls allow the guys to hv sex with them....too bad they have their big lessons to learn.... i know i sound horrid,but its a fact.....
Even the guys.. -
frankly if the girls din allow, i don't think the guys can....unless its a rape case lor.....
and personally.....i being a female feel that girls' sexual control is better than the guys....we should exercise the control... -
But many are happy together... With the baby
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if they finally ended up happily married, that's fine, but for the risk....is it worth it??Originally posted by sbst275:But many are happy together... With the baby
and having to go thru either the abort or to bring up child as single parents and worst case have to give up schooling??? -
Well... It sees by situation (like they are getting married... blah blah blah)..Originally posted by a_splash:if they finally ended up married, that's fine, but for the risk....is it worth it??
and having to go thru either the abort or to bring up child as single parents and worst case have to give up schooling???
If it ends up the guy ditches the girl, I dun think it is worth it... -
Saw a recent census,
20% of teenage girls are single parent... Too rampent