Which is the most ironic.. Some people claimed that the legal system in Singapore is harsh against gays because we had inherited the legal system from UK.. However, UK had progressed with regards to this issue, but in Singapore, we are still stagnant in this area.. A lack of political awareness?Originally posted by lwflee:The UK isn't doing too bad in this department. Civil partnerships, which were introduced in Dec 2004, allows same sex partners to enter into civil partnerships. This has almost exactly the same legal effect and a marraige. It is gay marriage in all but name.
Originally posted by earthlings73:Which is the most ironic.. Some people claimed that the legal system in Singapore is harsh against gays because we had inherited the legal system from UK.. However, UK had progressed with regards to this issue, but in Singapore, we are still stagnant in this area.. A lack of political awareness?
Some might argue from the perspective of traditional Asian values.. But then, you can find homosexual activities throughout China's long history.. So why the limitation..
Originally posted by earthlings73:A new event to be held in conjunction with Event 5
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By Russell Heng
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allow me to refer you to the appropriate thread to show your continual hatred against gays:Originally posted by PRP:I bieleve only a very small minority of ppl would advocate discrimination against homo.But that doesn't mean homosexuality is right.In fact,it is wrong.But homo would hate me when i say this.
Among heterosexual few people would advocate discrimination against gays but almost all cannot accept homosexual act! How you term homophobias I don't care.Originally posted by dreameryb:Homosexuality or heterosexuality for that matter, does not have anything to do with values, Esatern or Western. It is about a fundamental human right to exersise a natural form of sexuality, homosexuality being one as has been proven by research in nuroscience. Homophobias will always be able to concoct absurd reasons to oppose homosexuality whether on religious or moral grounds, when the truth is that sexuality has nothing do with religion or morality. Again, as I said, it has to do with human right, denial of which betokens benightedness and barbarianism.
You better watch your back. One day, there will be a reverse takeover. Atobe has already highlighted it in the "moderate muslim" thread.Originally posted by sgdiehard:Among heterosexual few people would advocate discrimination against gays but almost all cannot accept homosexual act! How you term homophobias I don't care.
Values give us dignity and pride in our being and moral values denotes our responsibilities in families which we regards as the basic element of society. Religions are the acceptance of a God which set the absolute and uncorrupted standards for all values. Nobody is forcing you to accept the same standards or the same values but we do not "concort absurb reasons to oppose homosexuality"!! If you do not speak out of ignorance or arrogance, at least show some respect for our human right to our own religion and our own moral values.
Sexual act with no value is no difference from the natural instinct for sex, which is in all animals.
Precisely! (see sentences highlighted in red)..Originally posted by sgdiehard:Among heterosexual few people would advocate discrimination against gays but almost all cannot accept homosexual act! How you term homophobias I don't care.
Values give us dignity and pride in our being and moral values denotes our responsibilities in families which we regards as the basic element of society. Religions are the acceptance of a God which set the absolute and uncorrupted standards for all values. Nobody is forcing you to accept the same standards or the same values but we do not "concort absurb reasons to oppose homosexuality"!! If you do not speak out of ignorance or arrogance, at least show some respect for our human right to our own religion and our own moral values.
Sexual act with no value is no difference from the natural instinct for sex, which is in all animals.
Originally posted by SBS3641G:You better watch your back. One day, there will be a reverse takeover. Atobe has already highlighted it in the "moderate muslim" thread.
Originally posted by sgdiehard:Among heterosexual few people would advocate discrimination against gays but almost all cannot accept homosexual act! How you term homophobias I don't care.
Values give us dignity and pride in our being and moral values denotes our responsibilities in families which we regards as the basic element of society. Religions are the acceptance of a God which set the absolute and uncorrupted standards for all values. Nobody is forcing you to accept the same standards or the same values but we do not "concort absurb reasons to oppose homosexuality"!! If you do not speak out of ignorance or arrogance, at least show some respect for our human right to our own religion and our own moral values.
Sexual act with no value is no difference from the natural instinct for sex, which is in all animals.
I just give an analogy to show why your view is wrong: A father told his son that taking sugar is not good for health.His son said his father didn't love him.Originally posted by earthlings73:allow me to refer you to the appropriate thread to show your continual hatred against gays:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=144859
you forgot to add too much in front of sugar.. no one can totally abstain from sugar.. or else he will die.. ta da..Originally posted by PRP:I just give an analogy to show why your view is wrong: A father told his son that taking sugar is not good for health.His son said his father didn't love him.
Is it to say everyone should agree with the argument that there is no right or wrong about homosexuality?If one doesn't agree,he is a bigot?
okay.. a social political comment.. this i will reply..Originally posted by sgdiehard:this is quite different. muslim community, moderate or radical, is a living cell that multiply and grow, hence the ability to reverse takeover. Gays society on its own will die of natural death.
I still watch my back though.![]()
hiya.. first of all.. thx for your pro-gay stand, whether you are gay or straight..Originally posted by dreameryb:I do respect whatever religion people choose to believe in. I am merely saying that it is dangerous for religion to intrude on matters that are essentially secular because this sometimes encourages separatism. In the 1960s Southen America, integration of different races was most staunchly opposed by white Baptist preachers who cited the Bible, and now we see people fervently brandishing the Bible yet again to berate their fellow human beings that they perceive different. Religion certainly has its role in spiritual lives but not where it is irrelevant. Indiscriminately using religious convictions to sanction intolerance of the innocuous behavior of fellow human beings does not have its place in our world today.
Most ironically, however, is that certain religious institutions that purport to impart "the absolute and uncorrupted standards for all values" cannot even be trusted to monitor their own behaviors. This is demonstrated by the numerous cases of child molestation by Catholic priests. Yet they still insist on teaching the rest of us a lesson on moral values related to sex. I say to these hypocrites: back off and clean your own backyard first.
Homosexuality is a natural form of human existence, the denial of which spells ignorance of the abundance of scientific research on human sexuality in the past few dacades. Human sexuality is not about values but about the basic right to exist, to love and to be loved. It is painful to see that certain people insist on taking away such a basic human right from their fellow human beings on sanctimonious and other pretentious grounds....
Our belief governs how we live our lives. Looking at it from another way, it is the duty of the believers to live our lives according to the absolute and uncorrupted standards of God. We acknowledge the fact that we cannot live up to that standard, that is the nature of sinners, but we do not then discount the values set by God. If the authorities of the church were abused, that does not linvalidate the standard of God. If the word of God is used indiscriminately, that does not lower the standard of God. Having said that, if any man think they can live up to the standards of God, that does not make them God.Originally posted by dreameryb:I do respect whatever religion people choose to believe in. I am merely saying that it is dangerous for religion to intrude on matters that are essentially secular because this sometimes encourages separatism. In the 1960s Southen America, integration of different races was most staunchly opposed by white Baptist preachers who cited the Bible, and now we see people fervently brandishing the Bible yet again to berate their fellow human beings that they perceive different. Religion certainly has its role in spiritual lives but not where it is irrelevant. Indiscriminately using religious convictions to sanction intolerance of the innocuous behavior of fellow human beings does not have its place in our world today.
Most ironically, however, is that certain religious institutions that purport to impart "the absolute and uncorrupted standards for all values" cannot even be trusted to monitor their own behaviors. This is demonstrated by the numerous cases of child molestation by Catholic priests. Yet they still insist on teaching the rest of us a lesson on moral values related to sex. I say to these hypocrites: back off and clean your own backyard first.
Homosexuality is a natural form of human existence, the denial of which spells ignorance of the abundance of scientific research on human sexuality in the past few dacades. Human sexuality is not about values but about the basic right to exist, to love and to be loved. It is painful to see that certain people insist on taking away such a basic human right from their fellow human beings on sanctimonious and other pretentious grounds....
Sigh.. I was too late to stop the flame..Originally posted by sgdiehard:Our belief governs how we live our lives. Looking at it from another way, it is the duty of the believers to live our lives according to the absolute and uncorrupted standards of God. We acknowledge the fact that we cannot live up to that standard, that is the nature of sinners, but we do not then discount the values set by God. If the authorities of the church were abused, that does not linvalidate the standard of God. If the word of God is used indiscriminately, that does not lower the standard of God. Having said that, if any man think they can live up to the standards of God, that does not make them God.
I can understand the anger against believers who were hypocrites, who abuse their religious power, ......, but the absolute nature of God is not disputable, it is either you believe or you don't. Religion is not a subject for discussion between those who believe and those who don't. If you don't believe in God, there is no need to worry about standards or values set by God, you don't have to agree with what we say about right or wrong, no matter what the scientists say. We believe in resurrection, virgin birth, miracles, .... not what scientists can prove.
Some scientists can say gay is born, but many scientists who are christians will tell you it is not and can be corrected. If homosexuality is a secular matter where the Bible is irrelevant, then don't ask christian for opinion. If gay wants an opinion from the church, then according to the Bible, homosexual act is pervert!! You don't have to believe, but what we believe is not "benightedness and barbarianism"!!
Gays, like all human being, have the right to exist, no question about that and no religion deny that. But how do gays want to be integration in a heterosexual society? Integration requires mutual respect. Race and religion are always the two most sensitive issues for social integration. Twisting the Bible, bashing the church is no way to improve the relationship for better social integration.
Originally posted by earthlings73:There is no war between Christians and non-Christians!! Heated and hitting under the belt exchanges called war? no, and nobody get special privileges or lose their rights after the exchanges. I do hope everybody gets some insight into what the others think, but nobody can force a religion onto others, at least not here. Thank God, the arguments there have no sign of any support for homosexuality!! I guess ppl, Christians and non-Christians are clear on their stand on homosexuality, there is no need to discuss.
Sigh.. I was too late to stop the flame..
But as a good homo sapien, I will not retaliate.. but once again, please post in eternal hope.. the war between christians and non-christians is still raging.. but the issues are not related to gays anymore..
I will address only the last para. Yes, integration requires mutual respect. We saw SM Goh's statement in Times magazine as the first step towards the respect given to the gay comm. We saw PM Lee's decision to allow talks (other than religion and race) to be held a step towards allowing gays more free space, and hence IndigNation.
And the gay community is never against any other community. Because of the diversity within the community, which cuts across religion, race and economic powers (or intellects). What we've asked for is not a [b]priviledge[/] but the [b]rights to be treated as any other Singapore citizens.[/b]
genetic theory of gays?? how are genes passed down? reproduction through sex with an opposite sex, is it not the only natural way? and common sense! how do aunties and uncles of gays produce more offsprings with gays genes, unless they have the genes themselves, if they have the genes then how can they have sex with the opposite sex? Gays are born? May be, but is it natural, or sickness of the mind itself, a birth defect, a medical condition?Originally posted by earthlings73:okay.. a social political comment.. this i will reply..
if your argument is gays society will die of natural death.. arent you supporting the genetic theory of gays?
but wait, the genetic theory of gays is not so straight forward (pun not intended)..
through history, gays activities had been documented.. but the term homsexuality came about only in the 1800s.. which means, gays have been in existence since there's recorded history.. and how did the gay genes survive?
in Italy (the country of the pope, no less), a group of researchers found that aunties and uncles of gays have a tendency to produce more offsprings then straights.. this might be the mechanism how the gay gene is being passed down..
Ah.. that's why i suggested to dreamy to use the other thread too..Originally posted by sgdiehard:There is no war between Christians and non-Christians!! Heated and hitting under the belt exchanges called war? no, and nobody get special privileges or lose their rights after the exchanges. I do hope everybody gets some insight into what the others think, but nobody can force a religion onto others, at least not here. Thank God, the arguments there have no sign of any support for homosexuality!! I guess ppl, Christians and non-Christians are clear on their stand on homosexuality, there is no need to discuss.
Any intention to discuss religion here? No, I just answered questions where there are raised!! The post started with “Benedict condemns gay marriages” giving gays and yr supporters much opportunity to bash the church and Christianity in general. Then the current thread started using the “political perspective” as disguise for free advertisement for gay issues. But then, Christian gay forum and workshop on Biblical Interpretation on homo are “political perspective”??
Allow me to quote from Pikamaster, “Thus, unless Christian uniques (to use the more politcally correct term) are not meant to follow the instructions of the Bible, which strangely enough means rejecting Christianity as a religious belief, then I suggest that you ignore this entire forum.”
You are not a Christian, you donÂ’t accept the Bible and you donÂ’t understand Christianity, so stop using as Christian, the Bible or Christianity for publicity or to support your own course!!
Thank you very much.