When I was studying in Scotland, the Chinese restaurants there have 2 menus. One in Chinese and one in English. Guess right! The English one has more expensive prices than the Chinese one, and we get extra 10% discount if we place order in Cantonese.Originally posted by crazy monkey:the other day i went to malay stall to buy nasi lemak. got one malay auntie jump q and was served first. is the stall holder racist ?![]()
Originally posted by mett:This is exactly what an Indonesian Chinese had shared with me about their experience in yesteryear and today's Indonesia. They learn Bahasa Indonesia, many instinctively keep low profiles even in today's more tolerant environment, fully aware of their situation. So what did they do ? Did they go around demanding the entire Indonesian society to adapt to their way ?
You know what? That's what most of the minorities are doing. And their reward for that? "Sorry, position's already been taken up." See, for your ignorant mind's information, we minorities have been consistently discriminated no matter how hard we try to break out of the cycle. We study hard, get good degrees, heck, as YOU suggest, learnt mandarin. Some of us have tried so goddamn hard to conform to YOUR rules and procedures. But in the end, does it all matter? Not when the root of this is blatant racism. Ever wondered why minorities are rarely found to be successful? This is why. Opportunities limited. So not only are we subjected to stereotypes, preventive barriers are put up so that we stay in the poverty cycle that most of us are in and be stereoyped for eternity. So before you rebuke anyone for whining and not trying, please think again. Carefully.
Originally posted by oxford mushroom:U got one thing right: The economic factor.
The only way is to upgrade your skills way above those of your Chinese competitors to get a foothold in the system. If you are far more capable and yet cheaper than your Chinese competitors, sooner or later, economic concerns will override even racism. I know it is not fair but as long as there are racists in our society there is not much we can do.
For?Originally posted by oxford mushroom:I agree, although I am Chinese myself. In fact, employers cannot employ only Chinese speaking persons when the job does not require it. It is fair enough to insist of Chinese speaking staff if you are employing a tutor in Mandarin...that's logical, but if you looking for a driver or someone to pack your things, what does it matter as long as both of you speak English?
They certainly CANNOT only employ persons of a particular race...I would make a police report and write to the Straits Times.
Such employers must be taken to task.
Originally posted by Gun:This is exactly what an Indonesian Chinese had shared with me about their experience in yesteryear and today's Indonesia. They learn Bahasa Indonesia, many instinctively keep low profiles even in today's more tolerant environment, fully aware of their situation. So what did they do ? Did they go around demanding the entire Indonesian society to adapt to their way ?
correct me if i'm wrong, but isn't the OFFICIAL language of Indonesia, BAHASA INDONESIA? Are you saying that the official language here is Mandarin? Am I demanding YOU to adapt to MY way? Did I not mention WE tried to adapt to YOUR way and proved fruitless?
Did they whine and expect kindness in return hving to adapt to a different culture ?
so... erm... if you don't call what your indonesian chinese friend shared with you "whining", what do you call it then? "complaining"? oh right, "sharing"... only when it comes to us, you call it "whining" huh? And nooo... of course not... They did not whine and expect kindness... They just ran away to where the situation is in their favor. Singapore. You're missing the whole point. We're not expecting kindness or sympathy. Just fairness and equality.
So what makes minority Indonesian Chinese (or for that matter ANY ethnic minority) any MORE different than your case ?
Never did i mention our situation is any bit different from other discriminatory cases throughout the world. There were worst cases during the apartheid in South Africa. Heck, I will also accept the fact that it IS much worse in Indonesia towards the Indonesian Chinese. At the same time, just because there are worse scenarios, it doesn't mean it can be accepted.
Barriers will always be there and prejudiece exists. The key difference here is how u learn to handle it and persevere. Rome was not built in a day and certainly not by whiners.
With all that, I conclude that there is no point arguing with a racist. You obviously do not understand how it feels to be racially judged and prejudiced. I do not condone all those situations happening in Indonesia or even Malaysia towards the Chinese. Everyone should be given an equal chance. But what happens there, is up to the people there. What happens HERE is definitely up to the people HERE. Hence, the need to voice out our plight.
Bottomline, as the saying goes, "Discrimination does not exist when you're not the one being discriminated". Period.
Btw, don't try to look smart by using irrelevant proverbs.
Originally posted by mett:
Btw, don't try to look smart by using irrelevant proverbs.
Originally posted by Nelstar:Your idea does remind me of the ever-increasing problem in many societies regardless of race: The class or income divide.
Blowing this 'Chinese-only' issue out-of-proportions is not a very wise decision.
Certain issues cannot be tackled immediately..Originally posted by Gun:Your idea does remind me of the ever-increasing problem in many societies regardless of race: The class or income divide.
IMO, this may hv more concern than just simply racial or language issues.
Just look at the aftermath of Katrina in New Orlean. Majority Americans may share similar religion & language backgnd, but it is the income gap that exposes the fissue.
You know what? I realised that I might have blown this issue way out of proportions. I had begun attacking you personally therefore I apologise for that.Originally posted by Gun:
okay.
Let's assumed, based on your observation, that I am a "racist" & trying to "look smart", why not start with sharing your own experiences instead on going down this slippery slope of instant-accusations ?
I am listening.
better grade so wat ? maybe you fren's fren did better in the interview or have other qualities that employer want ? dun start making racist accusations.Originally posted by mett:As for experiences, I have not had any PERSONAL ones yet for I am still a student. Unless you can count part-time jobs as part of this. However I have had close relatives and friends encounter numerous such situations before. And a few of them ARE conversant in mandarin. Which makes it more annoying. For example, a friend, who is conversant in mandarin, applied for a mechanical technician job with his friend, a chinese guy. They both just graduated from the mechatronics course in TP and my friend even had the better grades. However, the Chinese friend was the one who got the job while my friend had to wait another 6 months before getting a job.
Originally posted by Mozart:'Discrimination does not exist when you're not the one being discriminated'
There are valid reasons for companies to hire only ethnic Chinese workers.
1. Company culture
The company is probably a Chinese family-owned business where the boss is more comfortable speaking Mandarin and dialect. He would want to be able to communicate effectively with his staff without the aid of a translator.
That is why, as mentioned, most of the minorities LEARN mandarin. To counter such measures. That is why we still complain, because it makes no difference if you can speak mandarin fluently because they simply want their own race in that company.
2. Dealings with China, HK and Taiwan
The rise of the Chinese market is inevitable. In order to make business deals with the China market, it is not only a necessity to know the Chinese language, but also to understand their culture. A non-Chinese may be able to learn Mandarin but he will not be able to appreciate the cultural nuances of Chinese business dealings.
Is Singapore the only country trading or dealing with businesses in China? What about other countries such as the USA? Or to a lesser extent, say, the Phillipines? Do they not trade with China? Do they seek Chinese people who understands Chinese culture to deal with China just so they could "appreciate" the "cultural nuances" of Chinese business dealings? Anyway, many Chinese Singaporeans these days have been accused of "forgetting their roots". Some even blatantly distance themselves from being associated with mainland Chinese. So do all Chinese Singaporeans "appreciate" the "cultural nuances" of mainland Chinese? Yes I agree that you might have a slight upperhand if you had that but does it necessarily mean you CAN'T deal at all if you had none?
3. Intrinsic characteristics of Chinese
The Chinese are known to be hardworking, resourceful and resilient people. The Hong Kongers are an excellent example. They are highly productive, fast paced and take work very seriously.
So are you saying other races are not "hardworking, resourceful and resilient people"? The Americans are not hardworking? The Europeans are not resourceful? Heck, the Indians are not resilient?? Or do you have something specific to say but you're afraid of being the 4th person to get caught under the Sedition Act?
Sorry, there is no law on this. So far MOM only issue guidelines. But from what i know, when MOM receive such complaints, they will usually advise the coy. Most of the time it works, because i dont think any company will want any trouble with the ministry.Originally posted by jeg:Understanding ? Then whats the law for ?![]()
True, i can agree to that. But maybe not when the Chinese friend called back the next day to ask if he got the job as well, and when he said no, he said that maybe it's because there are no malays working there when he was given a brief tour of the workplace.Originally posted by crazy monkey:better grade so wat ? maybe you fren's fren did better in the interview or have other qualities that employer want ? dun start making racist accusations.
I totally agree with you.This is discrimination.Originally posted by ShutterBug:I wouldn't know what Penalty shall be imposed, or if there are any at present. But if I were the authorities, I'd bluddy revoke their Business License/s.
We are a multi-racial nation and society, why must these advertisers put up such criterions? Do they have a POINT to prove?? That Mandarin speaking people are better at work? That they are of higher intellect?? Come on out of it, those people!
Put a Collective Complain up to MOM. See what they can do, legislatively.
I can't stand those "high and mithier than thou" attitude of those speak Mandarin only people. Sickens me!