Greengolblin is a unfair moderator
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they used to engage in tactics like entrapment.. to have good-looking police going to gay cruising areas to pretend as gays and hinted to the gays there they are interested.. quite a fair number kanna caught back then.. in the early 90s..Originally posted by iveco:If the government isn't homophobic, why are men still being arrested for behaving intimately with other men?
Sounds like we are still living in the Third Reich at times.
but not anymore lah..
but then, the best way to show that they are not homophobic is to remove the sodomy laws (by the way, this law was adopted into our legal system in to 1850s).. -
i think greengoblin is a fair mod. he controlled pretty well in the nkf issues by locking repeating threads and made this forum clean.
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X 2.Originally posted by 798:i think greengoblin is a fair mod. he controlled pretty well in the nkf issues by locking repeating threads and made this forum clean. -
So far,Greengoblin has been fair to allow me to criticise him.This is the attitude he should take to discharge his duties.
Earthling,
What Sgdiehard said is related to this topic.What u put up is totally unrealted to this topic.May i ask u once again:why don't u open a topic to discuss homo issue? -
I have already opened one here. Feel free to enter.Originally posted by PRP:Earthling,
What Sgdiehard said is related to this topic.What u put up is totally unrealted to this topic.May i ask u once again:why don't u open a topic to discuss homo issue? -
Yawn ....NEXT!!!!Originally posted by PRP:Greengoblin said he would close my topic if he FEEL LIKE it.So this is the way he does his job.He is a unfair guy. -
please read the 11th post of this thread and tell me what does it has to do with the thread title..Originally posted by PRP:So far,Greengoblin has been fair to allow me to criticise him.This is the attitude he should take to discharge his duties.
Earthling,
What Sgdiehard said is related to this topic.What u put up is totally unrealted to this topic.May i ask u once again:why don't u open a topic to discuss homo issue?
btw, the ball is in your court.. if you do not wish the gay issues to be discussed here, than please stop starting new threads whenever it's closed.. -
Earthlings,
I never say don't want homo issue to be dicussed in this for forum.U were the one who asked Mod to close my topic and he did. -
Another wrong of Greengoblin is he didn't speak up when someone used vulgar words to insult me for a few times.Of course it was due to his biasness on this issue.
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yalar yalar, greengoblin is gay lar, happie?
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Iveco,
Thanks for open a topic but I'm afraid there would be few ppl know that site.So why not open the topic in this forum?Mod never say it is not allowed. -
I was doing Earthlings a favour by trying to boost ratings at his new message board.Originally posted by PRP:Iveco,
Thanks for open a topic but I'm afraid there would be few ppl know that site.So why not open the topic in this forum?Mod never say it is not allowed.
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wah liao eh..Originally posted by PRP:Earthlings,
I never say don't want homo issue to be dicussed in this for forum.U were the one who asked Mod to close my topic and he did.
anti-gay messages (such as those by sgdiehard) are allowable (in your standards)..
but well-thought article that's pro-gay are considered unrelated?
let me now declare that PRP is an unfair user! anyone wanna +1?
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Originally posted by earthlings73:
I didn't know my messages left such lasting impression in you. Cheers.
wah liao eh..
anti-gay messages (such as those by [b]sgdiehard) are allowable (in your standards)..
but well-thought article that's pro-gay are considered unrelated?
let me now declare that PRP is an unfair user! anyone wanna +1? [/b] -
Cos 2 posts after you posted the anti-gay message, you proceed to say that such issues should not be discussed here (as a reply to iveco pro-gay message).Originally posted by sgdiehard:I didn't know my messages left such lasting impression in you. Cheers.
Another guy with double standards? -
7 years after the death of Matthew Shepard, a victim of hate crime.. A letter from his mother..
A note from Judy Shepard
October 12, 2005
October 12 th 2005, is the seventh anniversary of my son Matthew's murder. His murder prompted unprecedented media coverage and focused the nation's attention on anti-gay hate crimes like never before. These past few weeks I have been thinking about what has changed - and what has not changed. What has been done to make our communities safe from violence resulting from anti-gay hate? I quickly learned my son's violent death was a fairly common ocurrence. This prompted our family to create the Matthew Shepard Foundation and do our part to create a more respectful and caring culture free from hate. I have spent the past seven years traveling across the nation, speaking to schools,churches, anyone who will listen, to try and stem the tide of hate that is eating away at the fabric of our culture.
The number of hate crimes against gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people has not varied much during the last five years. They remain the third highest category after race and religion. However, it is apparent that there are certain changes in the 'environment' that do impact hate crime activity. In New York City, every July, anti-gay
violence usually increases by about 8% as people respond to the outreach programs and the visibility of the Pride celebrations. After the Lawrence v. Texas decision and the premiere of additional gay identified television shows, anti-gay violence in New York City rose 52%.
It's clear that in some ways, our nation has become a more accepting place. We have witnessed the progress of gay and lesbian rights with the recent Supreme Court decision, Lawrence v Texas. We have seen our neighbor to the North - Ontario, Canada - acknowledge same-sex marriages. They have recognized that same sex couples are as deserving of the same equal rights and responsibilities as heterosexual couples. We have seen gay adoptions increase. We have seen growing visibility, acceptance and understanding of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in our families, in the corporate world and in our culture.
However, we must also remember that there has been scant progress in areas of legislation and securing equal rights for the gay community. We continue to fight for hate crime legislation that will include sexual orientation, gender, and disability, and for federal job protection based on sexual orientation. Yes, you can be fired for being
gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender in 36 states of this nation. It is as if we are living in two Americas - one that tunes in to "Queer Eye for a Straight Guy" but turns a blind eye to the injustices gay and lesbian people still face.
It is evident that with progress comes the inevitable attack by those who are threatened by our work for justice and fairness. Visibility - whether in the media or being out of the closet if you are gay - can serve as an unfortunate catalyst. Those who are threatened by our
community are threatened by these strides. In 2003, more than 30 cities and towns reported crimes against gays. The vast majority do not garner national headlines like my son's murder did. Sakia Gunn, a 15 year old lesbian was fatally stabbed in Newark, New Jersey on 5/11/03, F.C.
Martinez, a Navajo, transgender 16-year old murdered in a bias motivated attack are two examples but the list goes on. We have so far to go, so much hate is out there. It must be acknowledged, addressed and erased before any of us are safe.
As we approach the anniversary of Matthew's murder it is appropriate to redouble my efforts to invoke a grassroots solution to this problem. It is a solution that begins with parents, educators, clergy and our communities as a whole. We have the opportunity to help our children
understand and accept diversity before their school years begin and before hate can provoke violent actions. If we do our jobs correctly, it should never cross the minds of our children to harm someone, physically or emotionally, because of their gender, race, national origin, religion, disability or gender identity and expression.
Hate is a learned behavior. If a child is taught to hate and fear diversity, then the next place he or she expresses that hate is at school. Ten percent of all hate crimes occur at schools and colleges .
Bullying in our nation's schools has resulted in countless acts of violence. The cycle continues until that child who is filled with hate becomes an adult citizen in your community and begins to teach others to hate.
Please help your children understand diversity without fearing it. Be an example of acceptance and compassion. The consequences of hate hurt everyone. It hurts not only the victim - it hurts their family and friends. It destroys the families of the perpetrators. Lives are lost,
lives are ruined and lives are changed forever.
~Judy Shepard -
Earthlings,
Don't post your pro-gay msg here pls.Just open a new topic ,would u? -
The ball is in your court.Originally posted by PRP:Earthlings,
Don't post your pro-gay msg here pls.Just open a new topic ,would u?
Ask for this thread to be closed and stop opening new thread with similar intent. -
Can u answer my above question directly?Originally posted by PRP:Earthlings,
Don't post your pro-gay msg here pls.Just open a new topic ,would u? -
If are homo then be it... BUT dont ever want to expect, share and fight for the benefits of family(consist of father mother and/or son daughter). You want to do the unnormal things, yes but face the consequences and do the hardway yourself. Fair and square right?
Gay in US are making things big because they wanted to share the benefits of the marriage couple or family.
No one can stop whatever u wanted to do. But dont make a hussle and pollute other ppl life. That it stop. -
As much as I do not want to post these articles here.. Having anti-msg without justification or studies will get us no where..
if u want to talk about family.. the following is a piece of research study..
http://my.webmd.com/content/Article/113/110762.htm
Study: Same-Sex Parents Raise Well-Adjusted Kids
By: Linda Little, WebMD Medical News
Tufts University study finds children of same-sex parents do not differ in self-esteem or gender identity from kids with heterosexual parents.
Wednesday 10.12.05
Researchers Say Children Who Grow Up in Households With Gay Parents Have Normal Self-Esteem
Oct.12, 2005 (Washington)-Children growing up in same-sex parental households do not necessarily have differences in self-esteem, gender identity, or emotional problems from children growing up in heterosexual parent homes.
"There are a lot of children with at least one gay or lesbian parent," says Ellen C. Perrin, MD, professor of pediatrics at Tufts University School of Medicine in Boston. She revealed the findings at the American Academy of Pediatrics Conference and Exhibition.
Between 1 million and 6 million children in the U.S. are being reared by committed lesbian or gay couples, she says. Children being raised by same-sex parents were either born to a heterosexual couple, adopted, or conceived through artificial insemination.
"The vast consensus of all the studies shows that children of same-sex parents do as well as children whose parents are heterosexual in every way," she tells WebMD. "In some ways children of same-sex parents actually may have advantages over other family structures."
Study Results
Researchers looked at information gleaned from 15 studies on more than 500 children, evaluating possible stigma, teasing and social isolation, adjustment and self-esteem, opposite gender role models, sexual orientation, and strengths.
Studies from 1981 to 1994, including 260 children reared by either heterosexual mothers or same-sex mothers after divorce, found no differences in intelligence, type or prevalence of psychiatric disorders, self-esteem, well-being, peer relationships, couple relationships, or parental stress.
"Some studies showed that single heterosexual parents' children have more difficulties than children who have parents of the same sex," Perrin says. "They did better in discipline, self-esteem, and had less psychosocial difficulties at home and at school."
Another study of 37 children of 27 divorced lesbian mothers and a similar number of children of heterosexual mothers found no differences in behavior, adjustment, gender identity, and peer relationships.
Equitable Division of Chores
Equitable Division of Chores
Two other large studies involving more than 100 couples found that same-sex parents also had contact with extended family, had social support, and had a more equitable division of labor in the home.
"Lesbian couples share household responsibilities and chores more equitably," Perrin says. "And, the children of lesbian couples are less aggressive, more nurturing to peers, more tolerant of diversity, and more inclined to play with both boy's and girl's toys.
Children seem to adjust better when there is a more equal division of labor in the home and the parental relationship with the children had a higher rating, she says.
The combined data presented by Perrin showed that children whose parents are lesbian have no more problems than the rest of the children and actually may be more tolerant of differences, she says. There was suggestive evidence that there were more stresses due to the gender of same-sex parents, but the children also reported greater well-being, more nurturing, and a greater tolerance for differences.
What is striking is that there are very consistent findings in these studies," Perrin says.
Ryan Malone, who works in public relations in Washington, D.C., says after his parents were divorced he was reared by two "lesbian moms," while still staying in contact with his father.
"We lived in a small town," he says. "While I was open about my family, I didn't broadcast it."
At times he felt isolated because he didn't know any other families at the time headed by a same-sex couple, Malone says. "My parents overparented because they felt like the whole world was watching."
Emotional Topic
While further study should be done, this is important for pediatricians to know so they can learn more about variations in families and give appropriate advice in optimizing the child's development, Perrin says.
Carol Berkowitz, MD, former president of AAP, says this analysis is important in that it combines evidence-based studies.
"This subject evokes a lot of emotions," she says. "Some of the studies on this subject in the past have been weighted and biased, based on nothing more than the researcher's views."
Evidence-based studies are important in helping pediatricians in their practices and creating policy for the future, she says. -
There were 3 or the most several persons seemed unhappy with my msg on homo issue.They 'flamed' or used vulgar words.Was it that the mod took them as the sentiment of the majority of the readers and so closed my topic on homo?I believe the majority of readers who are hetero just don't feel the urge to speak up or are not interested with the topic.
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Such a fierce msg!Why haven't gays 'flamed'?Originally posted by LittleTiger:If are homo then be it... BUT dont ever want to expect, share and fight for the benefits of family(consist of father mother and/or son daughter). You want to do the unnormal things, yes but face the consequences and do the hardway yourself. Fair and square right?
Gay in US are making things big because they wanted to share the benefits of the marriage couple or family.
No one can stop whatever u wanted to do. But dont make a hussle and pollute other ppl life. That it stop. -
Because that is a pretty shallow argument? DuhOriginally posted by PRP:Such a fierce msg!Why haven't gays 'flamed'?
Its sad when the society decides who get a life who doesnt... -
Laurence,
I'm sorry to say he is not shallow but you are.