defending singapore is the responsibility of menOriginally posted by ShutterBug:You know, I watched the news last night and was astounded by how stupid the rules are concerning National Service.
Avoiding or evading NS is a crime, ok I can try to understand this. But their prevailing rules concerning NS and Deferment, is giving those who can study abroad a good reason not to come back.
What do you all think?
I don't know what you really get/gain by serving NS but through my experience, NS sucks (education is affected, better jobs go to foreigners and girls, pathetic $100K compensation to the parents if they kill the NSman accidentally) and now with stiff rulings and penalties, do I really want my son to have the Singapore citizenship and shoulder all the liabilities/responsibilities? I don't see how he'll feel belonged and survivable here - women, foreigners, and employers don't give NS much value.very well said! thats how exactly i feel
Wouldn't it be right to give my son a bright future (just like what Melvyn's parents did for him) by sending him off to pursue his dreams and be somebody?
Why wish for my son to realise a NS dream that doesn't belong to him and he wouldn't want that only makes him to be a nobody?
Rather well said, macjoe.Originally posted by macjoe:I don't know what you really get/gain by serving NS but through my experience, NS sucks (education is affected, better jobs go to foreigners and girls, pathetic $100K compensation to the parents if they kill the NSman accidentally) and now with stiff rulings and penalties, do I really want my son to have the Singapore citizenship and shoulder all the liabilities/responsibilities? I don't see how he'll feel belonged and survivable here - women, foreigners, and employers don't give NS much value.
Wouldn't it be right to give my son a bright future (just like what Melvyn's parents did for him) by sending him off to pursue his dreams and be somebody?
Why wish for my son to realise a NS dream that doesn't belong to him and he wouldn't want that only makes him to be a nobody?
agree, if i'm rich like Melvyn's parents i would also send my son away instead of doing NS.Originally posted by macjoe:IWouldn't it be right to give my son a bright future (just like what Melvyn's parents did for him) by sending him off to pursue his dreams and be somebody?
You sound like that PRC supremo Eric Shang. Are you his clone?Originally posted by huaqing:defending singapore is the responsibility of men
we cannot depend on foreigners, eg. The british to defend singapore for us, for the history of singapore tells us so
so the ppl of singapore has to defend their homeland
but we cannot possible let women and old ppl defend rite?
therefore it is such an honourable responsibility for men to defend singapore
i understand the tough training (although i am not in NS but in NCC), but it is necessary.
in singapore some ppl dun wan go army or NS, whereas in China ppl would fight for a place in the army. such a great difference.
every male citizen should understand the importance of NS, and that it is not a waste of time of two years.
those who are trying to escape from NS, think about it again.
if everyone wants to escape from ns, then who will defend singapore?
cheers
pls stop your rubbish. if u want to give up your basic human rights, then u don't really deserve to be human. grow up soon n stop being a disgrace to my former sch n ccaOriginally posted by huaqing:defending singapore is the responsibility of men
we cannot depend on foreigners, eg. The british to defend singapore for us, for the history of singapore tells us so
so the ppl of singapore has to defend their homeland
but we cannot possible let women and old ppl defend rite?
therefore it is such an honourable responsibility for men to defend singapore
i understand the tough training (although i am not in NS but in NCC), but it is necessary.
in singapore some ppl dun wan go army or NS, whereas in China ppl would fight for a place in the army. such a great difference.
every male citizen should understand the importance of NS, and that it is not a waste of time of two years.
those who are trying to escape from NS, think about it again.
if everyone wants to escape from ns, then who will defend singapore?
cheers
Oh I had no idea you have.Originally posted by PRP:Shutterbug,
Why did u create a new topic when I had aready open a topic on the same subject which few ppl take part?
*applauds*Originally posted by macjoe:I don't know what you really get/gain by serving NS but through my experience, NS sucks (education is affected, better jobs go to foreigners and girls, pathetic $100K compensation to the parents if they kill the NSman accidentally) and now with stiff rulings and penalties, do I really want my son to have the Singapore citizenship and shoulder all the liabilities/responsibilities? I don't see how he'll feel belonged and survivable here - women, foreigners, and employers don't give NS much value.
Wouldn't it be right to give my son a bright future (just like what Melvyn's parents did for him) by sending him off to pursue his dreams and be somebody?
Why wish for my son to realise a NS dream that doesn't belong to him and he wouldn't want that only makes him to be a nobody?
Haha.. someone changed his Sgforum signature.. Look below.. The school (& church) name has disappeared.Originally posted by HENG@:pls stop your rubbish. if u want to give up your basic human rights, then u don't really deserve to be human. grow up soon n stop being a disgrace to my former sch n cca
Originally posted by huaqing:http://mahuaqing.blogspot.com
http://spaces.msn.com/members/mahuaqing
http://chengdu.sgforums.com
I'm sorry your NS experience was unenjoyable. I enjoyed NS thoroughly and disagree with you. Firstly, it is up to you to make your NS experience enjoyable. True, a big part of it is out of your hands when you're at the mercy of retarded commanders that are better off as toilet cleaners. Nonetheless, what you go through NS is what you make of it. The lessons I've learnt regarding the handling of big organizations, difficult men, fighting my own personal demons (the tendency to be lazy) have benefitted me as I go through my college education right now. I find myself more open minded after NS. I've also realised that I tend to see things from a broader perspective. All of which have made me more responsible, more mature.. as compared to my peers. Understand that i'm overseas and fighting it out with foreigners. The NS experience has given me equal if not, better footing than my peers in school.Originally posted by macjoe:I don't know what you really get/gain by serving NS but through my experience, NS sucks (education is affected, better jobs go to foreigners and girls, pathetic $100K compensation to the parents if they kill the NSman accidentally) and now with stiff rulings and penalties, do I really want my son to have the Singapore citizenship and shoulder all the liabilities/responsibilities? I don't see how he'll feel belonged and survivable here - women, foreigners, and employers don't give NS much value.
Wouldn't it be right to give my son a bright future (just like what Melvyn's parents did for him) by sending him off to pursue his dreams and be somebody?
Why wish for my son to realise a NS dream that doesn't belong to him and he wouldn't want that only makes him to be a nobody?
Originally posted by geodome:Haha.. someone changed his Sgforum signature.. Look below.. The school (& church) name has disappeared.
Seving NS is compulsory by law.But if a father has the money to pay the bond and let his child to go overseas to study and later decided to dodge NS,the govt can't do anything except forefeit his bond.Originally posted by huaqing:defending singapore is the responsibility of men
we cannot depend on foreigners, eg. The british to defend singapore for us, for the history of singapore tells us so
so the ppl of singapore has to defend their homeland
but we cannot possible let women and old ppl defend rite?
therefore it is such an honourable responsibility for men to defend singapore
i understand the tough training (although i am not in NS but in NCC), but it is necessary.
in singapore some ppl dun wan go army or NS, whereas in China ppl would fight for a place in the army. such a great difference.
every male citizen should understand the importance of NS, and that it is not a waste of time of two years.
those who are trying to escape from NS, think about it again.
if everyone wants to escape from ns, then who will defend singapore?
cheers
As with everything, speak only.Originally posted by PRP:It is good that PAP allowed its MPs to speak freely on the issue in parliament.
I'm afraid the benefits/value of NS as you proclaim are not rock-solid enough to win me over. The view you have now is only partial, a bit premature imo. Have you started working and started a business to fully access the impact/benefits/value of NS?Originally posted by Farmer Brown:I'm sorry your NS experience was unenjoyable. I enjoyed NS thoroughly and disagree with you. Firstly, it is up to you to make your NS experience enjoyable. True, a big part of it is out of your hands when you're at the mercy of retarded commanders that are better off as toilet cleaners. Nonetheless, what you go through NS is what you make of it. The lessons I've learnt regarding the handling of big organizations, difficult men, fighting my own personal demons (the tendency to be lazy) have benefitted me as I go through my college education right now. I find myself more open minded after NS. I've also realised that I tend to see things from a broader perspective. All of which have made me more responsible, more mature.. as compared to my peers. Understand that i'm overseas and fighting it out with foreigners. The NS experience has given me equal if not, better footing than my peers in school.
I don't think I'm losing out to foreign talent or girls (which by the way is rather sexist of you). Employers may not take my NS experience into consideration but that experience goes into making myself more attractive to employers. I have dreams and ambitions on my own.. NS is just one of the stumbling blocks in the way to realising it. Rather than trying to avoid it, i overcame it and became more enriched and better equipped to pursue my dreams.