Are you hoping someone says yes?Originally posted by dragg:30 - 40 is considered young?
I would say yes for some cases, if u consider that Male Uni grads in Singapore only started working at 25 or later. Most of their careers aren't even anywhere near the peak and they're spending like mad liao.Originally posted by dragg:30 - 40 is considered young?
are they now in heavy debts?Originally posted by av98m:I know some of this type of people. Hao lian, want to show off and keep up with each other. Some who are quite frankly not very rich also want to pretend to be very rich.
Backside belong to the bank liao, owe money on multiple credit cards, what do you think?Originally posted by dragg:are they now in heavy debts?
singaporeans.. the sec they step into poly or uni.... they're in debt liaoOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:It may not be entirely the case.
As some students here use parents' CPF for education, they have already incurred a very huge debt.
And to step into the working world, one needs formal clothes. These clothes aren't cheap. Don't tell me you wear pyjamas to work.
How about marriage? Marriage alone is enough to build debts. Even if they don't buy a house, they still spend a bomb.
All these made a lot of people get into debts.
Outsourcing of jobs makes people lose jobs. Some people have unpaid debts, and being laid off, make the situation worse. Not all people are spoilt. You have to consider case by case.
Not to forget that whatever we've been 'promised' are all DELUSIONS...Originally posted by Salman:our young geneartion are educated and spoilt. Thats the whole problem.
LKY promised there is no free lunch. These kids got the wrong mesage from their mamas and papas who dote on em.Originally posted by Devil1976:Not to forget that whatever we've been 'promised' are all DELUSIONS...
You want to have those? You continue to pay them with your blood...
Perhaps it is time that Singaporeans have to forego tradition(esp ethnic Chinese) and instead replace it with angmoh style of wedding reception?Originally posted by ShutterBug:Speaking of marriage; why can't these young settle for a simple wedding reception instead of spending a bomb for a dinner in some 5 star hotel?
My wedding was a very simple affair. Even my wedding car was just a Toyota Corrolla!
What counts most in a marriage is staying married. Not the wedding ceremony.
I've heard and seen so many glamorous weddings that went up in smoke in just one two or three years!
In many things in life, I believe in the contents of a thing. Not the cover, wrappings, and or presentation.
I knew a friend of mine - he spent well over $40k on his wedding dinner, made everybody so envious and made a really good impression with his in-laws. But now he's regularly quarrelling with his wife, paying up the bank for the wedding costs, and in the process of divorce.
If I had spent so much on my wedding just to show off, today I may not be able to buy my wife the new SUZUKI Swift while I drive a Jaguar S Type and a commercial van for my business?
hey.. i used that line before ! some dude owed us 90K.. when we said pay by cash or by blood.. the stupid guy literally took it n almost killed himself.. damn man.. almost made a loss there.Originally posted by Devil1976:Not to forget that whatever we've been 'promised' are all DELUSIONS...
You want to have those? You continue to pay them with your blood...
u r assuming that $ is the cause of their divorce...they are thousands of reason for divorcing, although there is one 1 in the eyes of the lawOriginally posted by ShutterBug:I knew a friend of mine - he spent well over $40k on his wedding dinner, made everybody so envious and made a really good impression with his in-laws. But now he's regularly quarrelling with his wife, paying up the bank for the wedding costs, and in the process of divorce.