OMG, What Kind of Person is this...?
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i curse his son~!
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You don't get it, do you? The grown-up son doing that to his bastard of a father is exactly karma. Karma is on the bastard father, not his own son of a bastard. He cheated his mum of her house, then threw her out. Didn't even bother to find her a place to stay in. She worked as a cleaner to bring him up, and he left her to die on the streets? He's a doctor. I believe uneducated labourers or even stray dogs have more conscience than to do that.Originally posted by Fatum:no .... his son is innocent ... why wish this kind of bad karma upon him cos of what his parents did to his grandmother, right ? ....
but this is a lesson to us all ..... we all need to be financially independent in our golden years, and cannot depend on our children to support us. Having children who are successful professionals but unwilling to support their children is one thing, there are plenty of examples too where the children are barely making ends meet supporting themselves AND their own children ....
I'll repay my parents for everything that they have given me of course, but I won't want to saddle my children with the expectations of supporting me and my wifey in our golden years ...
I think I can guess it. He wanted his mum to stay at home to work as a maid for free, and look after his own son of a bastard. When she refused, he threw her out, deciding his mum was of no further use to him.
Can someone find out his name, ic no., address, clinic name and other details? I'm sure many of us are eagerly waiting for a chance to pounce on that bastard.
Parents if you are reading this, do take your kids in hand. Teach them correct values and morals, and safeguard your own assets. Don't transfer your CPF funds to your children or asset ownership to your children. Leave it to buy a coffin for yourself and your spouse. Otherwise you may end up needing a casket company to sponsor a cheap coffin for you. Government will not help you. -
Is it not pathetic that for one who is so highly educated, you can only address a single point, and ignore the other issues that are central to this matter that were raised ?Originally posted by oxford mushroom:If not for the government's foresight with the Maintenance of Parents Bill, this old lady will not be able to claim the $1,600 a month for her living. As usual, Atobe is against all government policies that he is barking up the wrong tree again...
If you must learn to bark correctly, at least have some passion with the growl and have more bite behind the bark, instead of being a uselessly noisy pet to the Power of ONE, who may not even appreciate all your useless efforts. -
You have no points, only rants. Since when has the moral failings of an individual been just the fault of the government? Yang bu jiao, fu zi guo. Jiao bu yan, shi zi duo. It is mostly the fault of his parents and teachers.Originally posted by Atobe:Is it not pathetic that for one who is so highly educated, you can only address a single point, and ignore the other issues that are central to this matter that were raised ?
If you must learn to bark correctly, at least have some passion with the growl and have more bite behind the bark, instead of being a uselessly noisy pet to the Power of ONE, who may not even appreciate all your useless efforts.
If you have had any teaching in Confucianism at all, you will appreciate that it is precisely the lack of sufficient grounding in confucian ethics that is the root cause of such behaviour.
Young people nowadays ought to be given a heavier dose of confucian ethics, supplemented by good old caning on the backside. -
Are you suggesting that the government should be absolved from this responsibility completely?Originally posted by oxford mushroom:You have no points, only rants. Since when has the moral failings of an individual been just the fault of the government? Yang bu jiao, fu zi guo. Jiao bu yan, shi zi duo. It is mostly the fault of his parents and teachers.
If you have had any teaching in Confucianism at all, you will appreciate that it is precisely the lack of sufficient grounding in confucian ethics that is the root cause of such behaviour.
Young people nowadays ought to be given a heavier dose of confucian ethics, supplemented by good old caning on the backside.
While I agree to some extent that the individual must hold some personal responsibility for his/her own choices in life, should a government not expect to share the blame if the society it nurtured with its own policies and campaigns turned out this way?
A country is like a parent, its citizens like its children. Can a parent be completely blameless for his/her own child's poor character and/or misdeeds? -
Yes, this is exactly my stand as well; a society's character is shaped by the government and their policies - basically the system.Originally posted by spinsugar:Are you suggesting that the government should be absolved from this responsibility completely?
While I agree to some extent that the individual must hold some personal responsibility for his/her own choices in life, should a government not expect to share the blame if the society it nurtured with its own policies and campaigns turned out this way?
A country is like a parent, its citizens like its children. Can a parent be completely blameless for his/her own child's poor character and/or misdeeds?
Right now I can see that the shortage of babies have made children even more 'precious', to the extent of them being treated like royalties in schools - cannot scold them, can't touch them, can't even raise your voice at them, etc. This will only lead to more such ingrates in society, who chucks their parents at the whim of their spouse's or career's demands.
Ethics? Felialty? Hmmm...these are fast becoming rare attributes of modern youngs...
In a system where money rules, love of parents are becoming frequently thrown away...
To only just now begin telling people to strike a balance between work and family, is a cup of water splashed into a raging forest fire. The gov should relook at what the education system is inculcating into our youngs' besides churning up crap-jammed people who have no qualms about discarding their parent/s.
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Maybe it's OM, from his post he has shown us what he is capable of. Moreover he claims to be a doctor.
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Didnt know sg general practitoner can be such a immoral beast. Which clinic he from, i never going to visit that clinic!
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It is unfortunate that such an educated member of the public has resorted to 'kicking' his own mother out of their former house.
The full details are not yet known, but it is likely that either the doctor is indeed a mercenary, or married to one. It is unbelievable that such a doctor could conceivably conspire to recommend a change of ownership for the apartment just before dumping his own mother out of the house, when he could easily purchase a home for himself given his annual earnings.
It is even more surprising that the THE NEW PAPER did not try and obtain the Doctor's side of the story before publishing the article. -
Well, OM is supposedly a quitter living in Mother England.Originally posted by maurizio13:Maybe it's OM, from his post he has shown us what he is capable of. Moreover he claims to be a doctor.
Frankly, I wouldn't be the least surprise if it turns out to be him.
But then again, we'll never know.
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OM?
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If a person can earn S$200K p.y, dont need to be a balls carrier!!!
May be he is working at Geylang as a cleaner earning about S$800 per month and in order to supplement his income he has to do this type of bad KArma job!!!!
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Two Singaporean workers.
One a medical worker, popularly known as a doctor, the other an office worker that goes by the lable of human resource manager.
Their moral rectitude do not commensurate with their psuedonym. They can never be happy.
The old lady, on the other hand, is virtuous, she is only sad about her son's behaviour. She can be proud of herself. -
knnccb this kind of fcuking b@stard ought to be struck by lightning, nabei hope his wife get gangrape by 50 banglas!!! ccb.
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i hope the son wake up his bloody idea and divorce his wife for the reason "i realize my wife is some unfilial person who should be the 1 spending her old age alone..."
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Actually, the trend of children getting more and more spoilt and undisciplined has been happening in many other countries as well, it's a sign of a developed country (except China, China is unique with it's one-child policy and the policy has got real repercussions). It's very convenient to blame the gov for this, but if you've seen the trend in many other countries as well, then you'd think twice about assigning blame. At the end of day, if people are willing to take responsibility for their own actions, then situations like that could have been avoided. Marriage is a gamble, having kids is a gamble, no one knows how things will turn out in the end.Originally posted by ShutterBug:Yes, this is exactly my stand as well; a society's character is shaped by the government and their policies - basically the system.
Right now I can see that the shortage of babies have made children even more 'precious', to the extent of them being treated like royalties in schools - cannot scold them, can't touch them, can't even raise your voice at them, etc. This will only lead to more such ingrates in society, who chucks their parents at the whim of their spouse's or career's demands. -
I disagreed with U after we had married for more than 28 years and have 3 children!!!Originally posted by saffron60:Actually, the trend of children getting more and more spoilt and undisciplined has been happening in many other countries as well, it's a sign of a developed country (except China, China is unique with it's one-child policy and the policy has got real repercussions). It's very convenient to blame the gov for this, but if you've seen the trend in many other countries as well, then you'd think twice about assigning blame. At the end of day, if people are willing to take responsibility for their own actions, then situations like that could have been avoided. Marriage is a gamble, having kids is a gamble, no one knows how things will turn out in the end.
I can tell u mariage is not a gamble but a fate,having children who r faithful to us r our and/or parents'Karma!!!!
Hence,dont do harm or hurt others then u will be blessed!!!otherwise, bad karma may not happen to u now but it sure be occured at a later date!!! -
i say marriage is a gamble because some things may be within your control but others may not be. No matter how well parents raise their kids, there is no guarantee that the children will turn out to be model citizens, it's not all based on karma. In fact, if you place the outcome of things just based on karma, it's like pushing your responsiblity on 'karma' and expecting 'it' to make things right for you.Taking responsibility for you own actions is something which is within your control but forcing someone to take responsibility for their actions is not.Originally posted by foomwee88:I disagreed with U after we had married for more than 28 years and have 3 children!!!
I can tell u mariage is not a gamble but a fate,having children who r faithful to us r our and/or parents'Karma!!!!
Hence,dont do harm or hurt others then u will be blessed!!!otherwise, bad karma may not happen to u now but it sure be occured at a later date!!!
I'm sure that you are very proud that you have children who are high flyers (which is probably why you keep talking about them), but there are many parents out there who are not as lucky, so i wouldn't be so quick to place everything on karma. -
loss for words....
im tinkin mebbe the old lady is paying off the debts that she owe her son in their previous lives
but still....this is so disturbing....im quite appalled that this very incident is happening right at our doorsteps....
i believe there r many other more cases out there which did not manage to capture the attention of the media....
i hope this unfilial doc enjoy this lifetime....cos hes going to pay for his deeds in the next one.......big time
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wooot! congratz to the son, he just made himself one of the biggest f**ker in sg, hope he gets the same treatment from his children one day
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call himself a doctor somemore -
If the wife cannot get along with the mother-in-law , that's between them - not for us to comment. I know how much my paternal grandmother made life very very miserable for my mom , i.e. nitpicking on her for every trivial matter, so I don't think we should interfere in that matter. And how often do we hear forumners complaining about their mother in laws- quite a few times actually.
As for someone who commented on sg women being heartless , how would you know if the daughter in law is a singaporean lady? I would refrain from making such remarks.
There are many ways to deal with such matters - but making a mother, one who had provided care and support for him all the way, homeless is indeed heartless regardless of all the reasons. We should stop and look at it this way.
If they cannot live together, the onus falls on the son to provide his mother with alternative living arrangements and allowances necessary for her survival to accommodate both sides , NOT throw his mother out and make her homeless.
If the old woman chooses to be homeless to protest against her son not wanting to live with her ,regardless of any reasonable alternatives provided to her , then it is her choice - nobody asked her to play pity patty.
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I think some people here misunderstand the meaning of 'karma' and they use it in an oversimplified, inaccurate way in relation to what has happened to the old lady and her son.
In Buddhism, karma is not the only cause of anything that happens. The following are the five "Niyama Dharma" that cause effects.
Karma Niyama - Consequences of one's actions
Dhamma Niyama - Laws of nature
Irthu Niyama - Seasonal changes and climate
Biija Niyama - Genetic inheritance
Chitta Niyama - Will of mind
The last four cover 'conditions' or 'circumstances' in which karmic potential can ripen as result
quoted from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma
I hope people will not continue to misuse such a well-known concept of buddhism; the term 'karma' should not be misused to explain simple terms of 'reward' and 'punishment'. -
seriously speaking , u guys will never know , u might behave like this when u grew older. i can't help but kept thinking this way , i dont know why too , this is how i felt after i read this article.but i will try my best not to behave this way
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Mummys brought us into this world with great pain but still she was happy. To see her own flesh and blood have its life of its own. Its own communication methods, its way of living, everything.
Mummys never fail to accept us as what we are even though all the nags and dislikes about our habits and such.
To expect this kind of stuff happening in Singapore shows saddness. In this context, their future offsprings will treat them like what they treated his parents now. Karma.