I'm afraid not many Singaporeans treat their maid like what you do.Originally posted by oxford mushroom:We have a maid in Singapore. I don't think she is particularly lucky if she has to leave her family behind to find work so far from home. But I think we try to treat her decently. She has her own room with a big window, an electric fan, a bed, a wardrobe, shelves for books, a table and chair. She gets a day off a week but sometimes she does not want to go out; in which case, we pay her an extra day's salary.
The only other thing we did for her which may be more than what's expected of an employer is that we gave her $30 pocket money per month for the first few months. Many Singaporeans may not realize that for the first 3-6 months, your maid's salary does not go to her. It goes to the agent who paid for her airfare and other administrative costs. We feel that it would be good for her to have some pocket money over the first few months as she gets settled down in a foreign land.
Singaporeans will work as domestic help if the pay is good. With full-time foreign maids being so cheap, who would hire Singaporeans? If it were up to me, I would ban all live-in foreign maids. Instead of that, agencies bring in foreign maids, provide domitories to house them and hire them out to provide domestic service on an hourly charge basis. But Singaporeans will rise up in protest: so the government will never adopt that policy.
Originally posted by Atobe:Unfortunately with Singaporeans like you who are so blinkered that you cannot see facts as they are or debate in a logical manner, this will never be resolved.
While your intent is good welfare towards the maid, it is unfortunately another one more of your mindless [b]derogatory swipe at Singaporeans in general.
One more piece of sensational news on the front page to generate more sales revenue for SPH, and you jump to swipe at Singaporeans.
Amongst the large number of maids that have been employed in Singapore, what is the percentage of ill-treatment from the entire population ?
As many of the ill-treating abuses that surfaced in the pages of the various gossip papers in Singapore, there have also been news report in print and TV broadcast on families who have gone beyond the role of employers in the welfare extended to the employee-maids.
Are Singaporeans slave masters in general ?
With no history of slavery in our country, what possibly can make normal Singaporeans to behave in such an ugly manner ?
Is this a reflection of the economic-social-political environment that a tightly and closely managed society is governed through tough legislations to govern all aspects of social behaviour and attitude ?
Should we be surprised that the government has stayed their hand in legislating another piece of legislation to mould Singaporean attitude, when so many have been legislated to little effect - but giving Singapore a dark reputation of being a very 'FINE' country ?
Even the Minister of Manpower has admitted that there are enough existing laws to deal with errant employers and maids.
Those errant few are the black sheeps in Singapore - typifying the ugly Singaporeans who have no regards towards others, talk loud, and purposeful with their crass behaviour.
Fortunately, these are only a minority few amongst the 4.5 Million Singaporeans.
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Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Me - "Blinkered" ? versus you being a "knee-jerk" ?
Unfortunately with Singaporeans like you who are so blinkered that you cannot see facts as they are or debate in a logical manner, this will never be resolved.
I admitted I am n the minority here. The majority of Singaporeans are happy to treat their maids as they do and there is therefore no incentive for the government to change the legislation.
Majority rules and in this case, the majority like you choose to keep or maids in a state of fearful servitude.
Originally posted by Atobe:You have a knack for backing the wrong horse and dig in your heels despite being clearly wrong...well, that's just typical of you. Myopic? Coloured lens? Well, put forth your arguments in a proper debate rather than making snide remarks. But then again, that's just typical of you again...
What are facts to you - as you prefer to see things with a myopic view, seen through your preferred colored lens - may not necessarily be the same set of supposed facts as seen under different lighting or environmental conditions.
Higher levy or higher pay for the maids.Whichever way SIngaporean would still pay.Originally posted by nismoS132:yes, ban all live-in maids.
or make them extravagantly expensive.
Unfortunately that has not stopped Singaporeans from employing maids when many are just not suitable employers.Originally posted by livspore2006:The odds are heavily stacked against the employer and I hope everyone out there will appreciate it.
Tiok-Lah and that is why the TS message is crystal clear.Originally posted by livspore2006:The current Govt's fundamental principle towards non-skilled foreign workers employed in S'pore is to make the local employer be responsible for them. The other principle is to introduce harsh penalties to prevent these foreign workers from committing too much crime in our society (as in any society, we also blame the foreign workers for high crime rates, etc).
As of now, none of the civil servants in the Manpower Ministry has got a good solution of how to deal with errant or delinquent foreign workers in our country. It is therefore, not unusual for the Govt to introduce the Foreign Worker Bond to hold their employers responsible.
I am not sure if anyone out there knows that if a foreign worker is to be deported back to their home country, it is the responsibility of the employer to ensure that their charges are "escorted" into the non-returnable area of the airport or seaport. If the foreign worker somehow escapes, the bond is confiscated too! If the foreign worker hurts himself or the employer hurts him/her in the process of this "escort", the local laws of "causing hurt" or "unlawful restraint" may be applicable to the employer as seen in the eyes of the police. Do take note that the employer is responsible for all hospitalisation and even morgue and body retrieval charges (if the employee dies).
The odds are heavily stacked against the employer and I hope everyone out there will appreciate it.
The maid should have knocked on the door of her employer. She chose to climb back to her flat and in the end it resulted in her death.Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Once again in the Straits Times we read about a maid who fell to her death trying to climb back to her flat after a rendez-vous with her lover and finding that her employer had locked the flat. Another article wrote about a man who spent 5 hours on the window ledge when his lover's employer came home earlier than expected.
There are better ways to deal with this problem than to imprison your maids in your homes.
Originally posted by oxford mushroom:So are u waiting for your trust to be misplaced before you do something?
Nonsense. Singaporeans will still employ maids even with tighter legislation to protect the welfare of maids. If they all stop employing maids, that's good for the older, unemployed Singaporeans who can finally compete for domestic services with cheap foreign maids. But I do not believe Singaporeans will give up their maids.
If the maid gets pregnant, she gets deported as according to the law. Your daughter can also allow a boyfriend in and rape her. It is very simple, if you do not trust your maid, you have [b]no business employing one.
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Having a live-in maid requires a great deal of trust. If you do not want to take the risk, do not hire one...simple. Let maid agencies bring in the maids and provide them with accommodation...hire them out for the hours you need.Originally posted by TYING:So are u waiting for your trust to be misplaced before you do something?
If you read through the terms in hiring a maid correctly, its the employers who stands to lose out. It because most singaporeans are too busy with their work that they have no choice but to entrust their child or elderly parents into the trust of these workers.
Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Am I the one backing the wrong horse, or were you putting the cart before the horse all the time, and being caught with the wrong hoofs in your mouth ?
You have a knack for backing the wrong horse and dig in your heels despite being clearly wrong...well, that's just typical of you. Myopic? Coloured lens? Well, put forth your arguments in a proper debate rather than making snide remarks. But then again, that's just typical of you again...
Originally posted by oxford mushroom:The quality of your replies continue to amaze me.
With Atobe's attitude towards domestic maids, it is no wonder that we keep hearing instances of maid abuse by Singaporeans so typical of the likes of him. What's worse is that he persists in taking the side of the abusive employers and ravel in oppressing the foreign maids that have next to no bargaining position.
What would you call the conditions for Singaporeans who have to work 2 jobs in 24 hours, just to put some food on the table, pay the utilities, give their children an education, employ a maid to look after the children and the old folks, while the Singaporean slave through the 2 jobs ?
Maids who take advantage of their employers? What do you call working 18 hours a day, seven days a week without annual leave or weekend off? What do you call restriction of movement and the freedom to associate with whom she wishes?
With the thinking ability of a kid, it is not difficult to associate you with the character Chicken Little crying out that the 'sky is falling' and that the world is coming to an end, just because an acorn fell on your head.
Unfortunately, as I have said, the majority of Singaporeans are abusive employers like Atobe has shown himself. Without public support for a change in policy, the government is unlikely to effect any policy change in this regard.
As you said, there are goood and bad maids, just as there are good and bad employers. The big difference is that the employers have all the power, not the maid. The employer can send back a poor maid, whilst a maid cannot escape from an abusive employer. That is why the law must give greater protection to the the weaker party, ie. the foreign maid.Originally posted by fymk:So I would hesistate to pass judgements on all employers and all maids . Some are good , some are bad in both sides.
Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Should we need to be surprise at your feeling pique and feeling discouraged with an inability to face logical disposal of your preferred arguments ?
It is really a waste of time engaging Atobe in any form of debate when all he does is slip into a circumlocutory diatribe that completely discourages any further discourse. I suppose that is his exit strategy whenever he loses an argument. In his latest verbose and rather tedious post, he is even trying justify imprisoning a maid in the home by comparing it with restrictions on harzardous activities in a factory on grounds of health and safety.
If Atobe is typical of what the Opposition party has to offer, what alternative choices are there for Singaporeans apart from the ruling party? Res ipsa loquitur.
Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Should we be thankful to the Manpower Minister for stating that there is enough laws available to handle any continuing situation concerning Singaporean Employer abusing the foreign maids ?
As you said, there are goood and bad maids, just as there are good and bad employers. The big difference is that the employers have all the power, not the maid. The employer can send back a poor maid, whilst a maid cannot escape from an abusive employer. That is why the law must give greater protection to the the weaker party, ie. the foreign maid.
Originally posted by Atobe:Unlike you, I speak out because I think the practice is wrong and the law is not adequate. It is precisely because the majority of Singaporeans favour the status quo that the government is not in a rush to change the law. Human rights? Singaporeans' human rights are far more protected compared to those of foreign maids.
Should we be thankful to the Manpower Minister for stating that there is enough laws available to handle any continuing situation concerning Singaporean Employer abusing the foreign maids ?
One can only wonder the anxiety that you have in protecting the foreign maids with more draconian laws, while you are residing in UK.
Why do you care more for the basic human rights of the maids but not the human rights of Singaporeans ?
Are you having a soft spot towards anyone of these foreign maids ?
Have you been getting involved with some midnight tryst with those maids in Singapore that are illegally accessing the employers' computer to have illicit net chat with you, and conducting on-line research with a few of these foreign maids in Singapore, and extrapolating these few sobs to your magic numbers ?
Otherwise how do you come to the conclusion that the [b]majority of Singaporean Employers are abusing the foreign maids ?
Would that also include your parents and relations - presumbaly wealthy enough to employ one maid or more, considering their unfortunate ability to fund your academic qualification; or will you be more circumspect and avoid enlarging the net to embarass yourselves ?
What possibily could be your intention to constantly deride the downtrodden Singaporeans ?
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Originally posted by oxford mushroom:Is it any wonder that there are so few PhD as Ministers, and those that exist for so many years in the Cabinet are at best Minister of State despite their brilliant qualification ?
Unlike you, I speak out because I think the practice is wrong and the law is not adequate. It is precisely because the majority of Singaporeans favour the status quo that the government is not in a rush to change the law. Human rights? Singaporeans' human rights are far more protected compared to those of foreign maids.
How low can I stoop ? Will you believe that I can go as low as you can go.
How low can you stoop? When you cannot win an argument you resort to name calling and making totally unfounded allegations of 'midnight trysts'. Then again, what can we expect from a rabid anti-government muckraker like you.
Not so remarkable a performance in simply plagiarizing a statement that has been more often attributed to you, as seen from your many brilliant performance on record.Originally posted by oxford mushroom:I suppose they don't teach precis writing in school nowdays...either that or Atobe must have been a poor student. His reading and comprehension also leaves much to be desired.
You seem to be an expert at inflating every issue - besides inflating your own self-worth.
I have conceded that the majority of Singaporeans do not favour a change in the law and indeed the Minister is not at all keen to rock the boat. There is no political will to do so when most Singaporeans think like Atobe.
The darkside never fail to reveal itself - especially coming from mushrooms that are said to be accustomed to grow in some damp and dark environment.
They want their maids at $300 a month, work 18 hours a day, seven days a week without any right to movement or free association. Whilst folks like Atobe can hardly guarantee that their teenage daughters are not having sex with boyfriends outside the house, they want to ensure that their maids are chaste as the Virgin Mary![]()