Well i think alot of parents are busy bulliding their career and forget how to bring up their child. Look at eric cartmen who is going to torture his parent and u will know nowadays how the children is brought up.Originally posted by the Bear:what are parents for?
Thanks for the dose of early-morning entertainment...Originally posted by january:At age 20 plus, people in singapore has obtained a degree but he or she still lacks the general knowledge about realities of life, about the nature of ehtics and right or wrong about things. They also do not know about nature of their self of self, existence and emotions. They hardly have any good knowledge abt finding a good gf or wife.
Remember, this regime doesn't want to jeopardise losing its clutch on power, so why would they want to do anything that might compromise that? A caged bird that has never tasted freedom will never - or at least, less likely - clamour for it...Originally posted by january:Singaporeans are mainly trapped in few things, working, upgrading himself for better work opportunities and lesiure time. Out of his leisure time, only a small percentage is used for developing the intelligence and wisdom of himself.
Philosophy, a very important subject (i have a philosophy forum), is not known or studied enough by so many people in singapore. So its psychology
High level of intelligence about life, not just specilaized knowledge in their work, is critical to human himself as well as the society as a whole. Intelligence about nature of reality is highly correlated to more peaceful and efficient society. Many social problem and social ill like gangster kids, crimes, stress and anixety of citizens can be reduced greatly by solving the root of the problem instead of treating the symptoms. Ignorance is a great cost really.
i dun see how making people more intelligent will jeopadise the country..Originally posted by walesa:Remember, this regime doesn't want to jeopardise losing its clutch on power, so why would they want to do anything that might compromise that? A caged bird that has never tasted freedom will never - or at least, less likely - clamour for it...![]()
Lai CF wrote:There is no follow-through donation by ministers and MPs of the undeserved salary raise as PM Lee and Dr. Lily Neo have done.
My dearest wishes for August 09, 2007:
1) Parliamentary Charity Canival at City Hall/Padang
Lee Hsein Loong organises Parliamentary Charity Drive at City Hall, with Carity Carnival manned by all 84 no. MPs and MR4 civil servants (so we Singaporeans will know who the heck are they actually..)
- a) all pledge to donate S$10-miilion to charge till GE2011.
- b) MP Wee and Daughter at "Uncaring Elite face" where Ingpaoreans can throw powder balls at tehri face fro S$10.00 per shot.
- c) Vivian Balakeishnan cooking hawker food, selling them at S$1.00; and donate S$10.00 fro every dish sold.
- d) MM and SM signign autographys at S$100.00 per signature.
- e) Lily Neo, Denise Phua, etal..offerring S$10.00 per kiss and S4100.00 per hug.
They are not assumptions. It is a straight forward reasoning. But it appears that singaporean like to have counter reasoning and seems to make sense that raising pay leading to better economy is just a assumption.Originally posted by robertteh:There is no follow-through donation by ministers and MPs of the undeserved salary raise as PM Lee and Dr. Lily Neo have done.
Reason - PM Lee does not genuinely regret his recent raise to ministers' salaries which cause strong objections from the citizens was a morality act or leadership by example as stated in his donation of his own salary raise and his Ministers and MPs have to read between the line and took the cue from there not to follow through with their own donation.
One plain word will describe such behaviour - hypocrisy.
To do it with real heart, he would have to change and be his own man and not to continue to insist on using talents or leadership or meritocracy as if they could produce all the globalizations and results or cosmopolitan and inclusive society.
These are only assumptions which are not equal to paying his own elites more and more for his party to attract political yesmen to serve as political tools to stay in power.
:Originally posted by january:The current system is autocracy or something in between autocracy and democracy with resort to tweaking of the laws and regulations to entrench the ruling party in power forever at all costs.
They are not assumptions. It is a straight forward reasoning. But it appears that singaporean like to have counter reasoning and seems to make sense that raising pay leading to better economy is just a assumption.
hey, since when is there certaintly in life. There is no way government can have absolute knowledge abt what is the cause and effects of things. we make to make decision based on their reasoning.
i dun understand why singaporean likes to think there is some henious plot behind. Anyway, as usual, i think singapore goverment is smart to know that wave of complaint is common amon citizens and it is just a come and go issue like many other issues.
at the end of the day, if people voted off PAP, thinking it will lead to a better government and if voting PAP off is wrong, then it is the citizen who suffer. Of course, if voting PAP off is right, then its good.
secondly, are you not saying that by not increasing the pay, singapore will then continue to do well in the future? that is a assumption too.
No changing anything is itself a decision. But apparently many people dun understand things. They tend to blame things on changing decisions because of memory effect.
you dun feel angry or guilty if you dun remember that it is due to not making certain changes. If you make changes in decision making, it is more memorable event in ur brain. Therefore, if things go wrong, you will tend to allocate cause to the decisions you make.. and you will not think that things go wrong because you did not make the decision.
Parents have already been drawn into the economic system.Originally posted by the Bear:what are parents for?
This i agree...... nowadays parent seems to balme everyone else for their inability to 'teach' and look after their own children.Originally posted by january:all responsiblity should not go to the government and education ministry. i apologise for this.
citizens themselves, parents should also have some responsiblity theselves.
Could u please tell me which other Society in this world doesn't have this system..... that every single citizen is equal in stauts or 'rank'Originally posted by mancha:Parents have already been drawn into the economic system.
The children are being sucked into it now.
And so the system perpetuates itself.
A society of workers, like the ants and bees.
With drones bees, and leutenants ants above.
Workers below.
Right at the top is the Queen.
commons wrote:Now there is a slight improvement in the economy due to world recovery and ministers are playing up this improvement as their success.
My 3 children also refused to come back!!!
They told me I can stay on if I like but they will never return, for the
mere fact that they are having a much better and happier life there.
first, the teacher must be wise. some parents only have a skill or two.Originally posted by jianfish9:Erm. How do you teach someone "character" after all.
i appreciate your response. You said that government system is not working well enough. What do you based that on? How do you measure whether government system is working well or not based on high-pay-attract-talent system.Originally posted by robertteh:The current system is autocracy or something in between autocracy and democracy with resort to tweaking of the laws and regulations to entrench the ruling party in power forever at all costs.
That such a pseudo-democracy has produced some results initially up to the 1970s but from then on we have seen many Ministers and MPs inducted on heavy pro-elite money incentives called "pay top talents top dollar" policy without much results.
Instead the economy went down with despairs by all the talented ministers that all the deep recessions and large-scaled retrenchments or employment restructuring were caused not by their lack of economic restructuring as announced but blamed on citizens' own lack of skills or re-training.
This kind of pseudo-democracy will produced self-centredness and hypocrisy where autocrats have to continuously contend with problems and failures by blaming them on others. Such unaccountable use of power will spell disasters for the future generation if not corrected by the talents who at best are unwillingly aping the past autocratic policies which no longer work today.
As predicted in many earlier posts, as soon as the world economy recover under such hypocrisy our talented ministers would start claiming they have done it and true enough recently the whole of newspapers and media controlled by the government is claiming success of the present system even though 80% of the citizens are earning hardly enough due to dropping wages which still are not recovered from last recessions to pay for their basic living expenses.
So what has all these past mistakes at policy or system level of government as seen in the foregoing got to do with lack of understanding of natural human reactions to complaints or problems or government policies or actions?
The alternative solutions to autocracy have been proposed many times by many people.
Ngiam Tong Dow the ex-civil servant has proposed diversifying the top-heavy decision and policy making process which he billed as spartan for courtesy to distributive processes or people-oriented system which incidentally were proposed by many writers.
Our system of autocracy or pseudo-democracy has been justified with many other look-good assumptions or concepts like Confucianism, Asian Values, Family values but at the end it is still a system as we have seen based on one man's unproven concepts about leadership, meritocracy or "pay top dollars will retain or attract top talents which do not lead to greater abilities in restructuring the economy to value-adding technology-driven model talked about for years.
Arising from the Asian Financial Crisis, which were found to have been largely caused by top-down leadership system among certain Asian countries, our leaders have stopped using assumptions about their leadership or Asian values which could not make any management of any business more competitive in today's intensive knowledge-based application environment.
Empowering the masses in practical knowledge applications in all fields at every level of society holds the key to successful government.
Without translating all the assumptions behind meritocracy or leadership or talents no matter how plausible into a more cohesive and integrated mplementation processes, leaders will be talking and talking about the same things year after year and they can back-track and deny problems created and at the end get out of failures with excuses.
Hypocrisy is only one symptom but it is bad enough to turn off many ordinary people irrespective of more advanced psycho-analytical theories mentioned.
Are people not giving constructive criticisms when they give all these suggestions as posted and even written to or published in the newspapers. Why are there not changes made to wrong policies of the past?Originally posted by january:i appreciate your response. You said that government system is not working well enough. What do you based that on? How do you measure whether government system is working well or not based on high-pay-attract-talent system.[/quote]
You may not have read my past many posts in this forum about government major policy errors. Many cyber agents of the government have come here too to post rebuttals such as one Salman or OM who should be able to tell you whether he has succeeded in debunking such criticisms or mistakes of the government.Everyone is going to pluck data and evidence and support their argument that these are the proof to say that the policy is working or not working.We all make mistakes and are not blaming government for mistakes made. Many of us ordinary citizens have however been facing a big problem - government not willing to correct their mistakes even thought pointed out with clear arguments and facts. Example: persistent promotion of their own ministers as talents and selective benchmarking of their salaries to a few lottery winner CEOs in the private sector equivalent to giving them the right to write their own pay cheque. This is one major policy error which was not changed because of face or self-centredness.
Arguments have been put forward in this forum but newspapers too like Today and Straits Times. Owing to space constraints, I will not repeat those arguments and facts put forward or articles of mine published such as "Lack of Technical Excellence", "Need for Accountability and Transparency", "Practical Efficiency and Productivity".
Sad to say, many suggestions forwarded to the government have been ignored.
[quote]Also, all government in the world make mistakes. Do not capitalise on mistakes and hence talk about the incumbent of government. Has some sense of reasonability towards policies made by government which are a mistakes.
Who has not make mistakes in life? i make mistake all the time. Sometimes, have no time to decide how sure i am in making decisions big or small. I just simly make the decision to my best of knowledge and expect whatever outcome that happens. Do i look at a mistakes and start blaming myself or others.
[quote]Instead of engaging with negative criticism with the government, like Taiwan politics, lets contribute more constructive criticism. The government has to improve, so has to the people itself.
In psychology, we have what we call attribution theory, which explains why some people tend to place their blame on.
That is why i talk about the importance of people having more knowledge in life.
the suggestion make by people may not be right. that is why the government will not just follow.Originally posted by robertteh:Are people not giving constructive criticisms when they give all these suggestions as posted and even written to or published in the newspapers. Why are there not changes made to wrong policies of the past?
Actually FYI, the American system is like that; its a system that is supposed to 'remove' the ruling class while still keeping law and order. Let me explainOriginally posted by hloc:Could u please tell me which other Society in this world doesn't have this system..... that every single citizen is equal in stauts or 'rank'![]()
Communism was suppose to 'remove' the ruling class and make everyone the same...... have it happen![]()
Is North Korea really a worker's paradise as it always claim to be
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North Korea suffer from food shortage since the late 80s..... but their 'Dear Leader' Kim doesn't seems to have loss any weight....... then isn't him the 'Queen Bee'
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The whole world is base on such a patten for almost all Society..... it sucks....... but we have to accept it.
These.... i believe is why the Govt start the 'Workfare' system. Is it perfectOriginally posted by reyes:you are right no society in this world is equal. that goes to china/vietnam the still communist regime.
but what has our govt do to eliminate this social class discrimination problem, income gap widening problem?
why was it not accepted about the minimum wage system for workers with salary less than $1500.00. well i agree, before we could do that, we need to solve the problem of the foreign workers and talent, make it compulsary for company to employ fix nos of foreign workers/talents or we need to further increase the levy on foreign workers and talents as well.
the arguement from parrot of PAP will be, we will lose our competitiveness. well, that we have to strike a balance. the govt cannot just look at benefits of its side of attractive foreign company relocated to singapore to increase its tax coffers, creating jobs for middle and higher income singaporeans but neglect the livihood of bottom 30% of singaporeans. Ask yourself, how many of this MNC that relocate to singapore will help create employment for the bottom 30% of singaporean?
personally i do not support the welfare system but i would prefer a in between approach. at least by starting to taking care of elderly in singapore.
" Dear Leader" i sincerely hope you can spend some hours every month of your time to think how you can improve the livihood of the elderly and poor in singapore to justify your millionaire dollar salary and stop the further division in our small country.