Mismatch made in Peasant
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As a slave gal, i have no comment.
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Originally posted by SPLIT SECOND:
I am real man. I chased after a gal many years ago, and she did not give me the respect. Finally I told her to F$ off and now in married to a girl who is more richer, more prettier than her. hows that?
I am not a wimp, am I?
At least she taught you about $$ and love.You are not a wimp, but a super wimp.
$$ for love
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
I wonder what gives the thread starter the right to degrade singaporean guys and singapore ladies. Secondly, I wonder what gives the thread starter the right to segregate/degrade the singapore guys/ladies into so called peasant groups. Thirdly, what gives a person the right to define the guys and ladies from singapore into a single narrow band or over simplified view of society. And also, I wonder what gives a person the right to judge others and criticize their "peasant" mindsets as to how a single person (the thread starter) thinks the sg guys/ladies should be under his/her own judgemental mindsets.
And finally, for the thread starter, here's a quote from Mother Teresa.
“If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”
And a few others that I think is helpful to regain some humility for the thread starter.
“Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.”
“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”
“It is just as cowardly to judge an absent person as it is wicked to strike a defenseless one. Only the ignorant and narrow-minded gossip, for they speak of persons instead of things.”
Here's another quote, "The truth hurts".
It's obviously written tounge-in-cheek with enough truth to sting. The fact that you can't see that and take it as a personal attack instead says quite a bit about who you are peasant!
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Originally posted by NowWhatDoIDo?:
Here's another quote, "The truth hurts".
It's obviously written tounge-in-cheek with enough truth to sting. The fact that you can't see that and take it as a personal attack instead says quite a bit about who you are peasant!
Seems like that Daily person is imposing christian values on the TS. This is not a church or christian community. -
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Seems like that Daily person is imposing christian values on the TS. This is not a church or christian community.
Ya, this is an indian, chinese and malay rojak, satay meehoon and angmo subway community -
i am a free thinker and if i may be seen as a christian, i am not. see? it's so easy to make a mistake and start judging others and start believing what you think is the correct view, but reality isn't so. it's too easy to judge others and that's something i think isn't good. it's usually the arrogant and those that struggle for self esteem that degrade others, and that's what the TS is going about, so some may understand why I write my previous post. But if people don't understand why i choose to defend singaporeans in my post, that's too bad, for evil to triumph is simply for the good to do nothing. And if doing something means being part of it, I would gladly do so.
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
i am a free thinker and if i may be seen as a christian, i am not. see? it's so easy to make a mistake and start judging others and start believing what you think is the correct view, but reality isn't so. it's too easy to judge others and that's something i think isn't good. it's usually the arrogant and those that struggle for self esteem that degrade others, and that's what the TS is going about, so some may understand why I write my previous post. But if people don't understand why i choose to defend singaporeans in my post, that's too bad, for evil to triumph is simply for the good to do nothing. And if doing something means being part of it, I would gladly do so.
I agree with the above text in blue.
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
it's usually the arrogant and those that struggle for self esteem that degrade others, and that's what the TS is going about
I agree with the above text in blue.
Either that or the TS wants to highlight the issue so those concerned can reflect for themselves.After all the TS wears the tag "Singaporean" and I would be embaressed if that was issue was raised to me by a "Foreigner."
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
I don't have an issue with little boys falling in love with little girls bro
i am like little boy. some girl who took a fancy on me married me and she loves me very much. But i can be macho at times.
But i cant change myself to be a man who will sell his soul to being the 5Cs Man. Such a man is as good as death.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
At least she taught you about $$ and love.You are not a wimp, but a super wimp.
$$ for love
u are being idiotic , arent you. I am not a rich man, but i the girl i love earlier had more love for 5Cs than me.But the girl i am married to does have all the 5cs and she doesnt look for them. get it?
anyway, i am the one who is benefitting from my current situation remember marrying the first girl even if she agreed , will have resulted in a hell life for me.
i encourage men from my own life example, to marry a girl who is well off than you. No use going for a girl who expects everything from you. Nowadays girls are independent and equal to men already. so that evens out. But if they still want to cry gender equality, they can go ahead and cry
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Originally posted by SPLIT SECOND:
u are being idiotic , arent you. I am not a rich man, but i the girl i love earlier had more love for 5Cs than me.But the girl i am married to does have all the 5cs and she doesnt look for them. get it?
anyway, i am the one who is benefitting from my current situation remember marrying the first girl even if she agreed , will have resulted in a hell life for me.
i encourage men from my own life example, to marry a girl who is well off than you. No use going for a girl who expects everything from you. Nowadays girls are independent and equal to men already. so that evens out. But if they still want to cry gender equality, they can go ahead and cry
But i thot u married a gal richer and prettier than your ex. So u go for look and $$ rite?? U very fortunate lor, still wan to complain, I pity your ex. Nowaday guys are more sensitive than gals, a bit only want to break off, break off break off lor, no guy also cannot die mah. Also not handsome and rich..somemore want to act chivalry and manly..yak...!! -
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
i am a free thinker and if i may be seen as a christian, i am not. see? it's so easy to make a mistake and start judging others and start believing what you think is the correct view, but reality isn't so. it's too easy to judge others and that's something i think isn't good. it's usually the arrogant and those that struggle for self esteem that degrade others, and that's what the TS is going about, so some may understand why I write my previous post. But if people don't understand why i choose to defend singaporeans in my post, that's too bad, for evil to triumph is simply for the good to do nothing. And if doing something means being part of it, I would gladly do so.
Since we knew that judging and critism is simple for everyone to adopt, why take it so hard, relax lah. Afterall, empty vessel makes a hell lot of noises. Just read and hv fun ya. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Since we knew that judging and critism is simple for everyone to adopt, why take it so hard, relax lah. Afterall, empty vessel makes a hell lot of noises. Just read and hv fun ya.
yeah i know i may have over reacted to TS's opinions. afterall, everyone is entitled to their opinions and how they think, that is what is so wonderful about the world. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
But i thot u married a gal richer and prettier than your ex. So u go for look and $$ rite?? U very fortunate lor, still wan to complain, I pity your ex. Nowaday guys are more sensitive than gals, a bit only want to break off, break off break off lor, no guy also cannot die mah. Also not handsome and rich..somemore want to act chivalry and manly..yak...!!I am like the new age cosmopolitan man brought up by women themselves. Ya lor, i bbit only want to go away. i have so much "fish in the waterto catch"
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Originally posted by SPLIT SECOND:
I am like the new age cosmopolitan man brought up by women themselves. Ya lor, i bbit only want to go away. i have so much "fish in the waterto catch"
So u look for cosmopolitan lady rather than village gal ya, cosmopolitan enviroment changes very fast, so u will be an old age one, and be more patient with gals, a fisherman must hv patient. -
Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
yeah i know i may have over reacted to TS's opinions. afterall, everyone is entitled to their opinions and how they think, that is what is so wonderful about the world.
Well, that is how the world run, opinons after opinons with so much waste of time and resources, sometime i attend meeting for hours only to drink coffee and eat cakes. Everyone got different opinon just as everyone got different asshole. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
So u look for cosmopolitan lady rather than village gal ya, cosmopolitan enviroment changes very fast, so u will be an old age one, and be more patient with gals, a fisherman must hv patient.cosmopolitan guy is ok but cosmopolitan gir is no no. the one i am married to is a surburban type,
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
The government is worried that Singaporeans are not getting hitched - there are increasing number of singles in Singapore. The government is offering a slew of incentives, and even advice on how to date, how to get married, but I doubt it will work. The problem I think is because these measures target the symptoms and not the cause of the problem; in my opinion, the root of the problem lies in the minds of peasantboys and peasantgirls.
Singaporean peasantboys are one of the most boring members of the adult male species - dating them is often a somniferous experience. Ever notice that the only topic of conversation that excites them, other than their jobs, is National Service? Yes we really want to hear about your days in the army, crawling through mud, or gory tales of training accidents - that really gets our loins burning. The added irony is that despite their macho tales, most peasantboys are mummy's boys - what self-respecting man would continue staying with his parents till the late 20's and even early 30's , letting his mum cook, clean and wash for him? Real women want to date grown up men, not little boys staying at home.
Peasantboys are also wimps - they let peasantgirls walk all over them. They act as their chauffer, their ATM machine and chaperone all rolled into one. Yet, in another ironic twist, they are also male chauvinists, hanging on to anachronistic notions of submissve virginal women who would do as they are told and go off looking for Vietnamese village brides when they don't get what they want here. A message for you peasantboys: most women would love to defer to their men, but strong men who know what they want, who have strength of character. We are not going to submit ourselves to wimpy mummy's boys.
Peasantgirls are not any better - they suffer from the 'I want the cake and eat it syndrome'. Singaporean women want the rights of Western Women and none of the obligations. They also want all the rights of Eastern Women and none of their obligations either.
If you want to be treated as an equal - behave like an equal. Don't expect your man to pay for everything and not even thank them for it. Go dutch sometimes. Take a taxi to the place that you are going to meet your peasantboy and not expect to be driven around like an invalid all the time. If you want to be an equal in marriage, contribute equally to the family accounts - in what world do you think it's fair that you get to spend your husband's money whilst keeping your salary for yourselves?
On the other hand, if you want to be treated like an Eastern Woman, for the husband to take care of you financially, materially, drive you around, do things for you then be prepared to take on the obligations of an Eastern Woman. Go learn how to cook - and not just instant noodels and fried eggs. Learn how to sew. Defer to your husband as the head of the household, and learn how to care for him as the primary caregiver (whilst he is the primary breadwinner).
Neither Western or Eastern Woman is superior; however the Singapore Peasantwoman who wants the best of both worlds is definitely inferior. Make up your mind - choose one or the other. Even Peasantboys wake up one day when they have been screwed over in a bad deal for too long.
So the problem as I see it is that the Peasantboy and the Peasantgirl are fudamentally a bad match, to the extent that they probably hate the sight of each other. Peasantboys complain about Peasantgirls all the time, Peasantgirls whinge about Peasantboys, and neither the twain shall meet.
Therefore, until the mindsets of peasantboys and peasantgirls are changed, no amount of economic incentives or nagging by the government will turn things around.
The illnesses of the peasant are of the mind, and unless it's cured, it's probably better they don't get together and procreate.http://theladymelissa.blogspot.com/2008/08/mismatch-made-in-peasant.html
i think peasantboys and peasantgirls are perfectly made for each other!
btw i wonder is the author peasantgirl or peasantboy or she thinks she is the royal highness?
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Originally posted by lotus999:
i think peasantboys and peasantgirls are perfectly made for each other!
btw i wonder is the author peasantgirl or peasantboy or she thinks she is the royal highness?
I think TS is a rural girl
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Originally posted by SPLIT SECOND:
I think TS is a rural girl
Let me try this in point form....- TS = Me but does not = blogger Lady Melissa.
- Me = Boy ... sharp pointy object
- Blogger Lady Melissa = Girl ... carpet .. no sharp pointy object
As for the blogger being a rural girl .... here's abit of data i compiled for you from her blog. Again in bullet form to make it easier for you to grasp.
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The Lady Melissa was educated at Cheltenham Ladies College and St John's College, Cambridge. She is a member of the global aristocracy and spends her time mostly on another planet.
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".....Last week, the new Forbes Richest List was published. Although I was heartened to see my family still in the list, it got me thinking of the growing income disparity in Singapore."
http://theladymelissa.blogspot.com/2008/08/ignoble-nobles.html
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Originally posted by lotus999:
i think peasantboys and peasantgirls are perfectly made for each other!
btw i wonder is the author peasantgirl or peasantboy or she thinks she is the royal highness?
She gives herself titles such as "Lady", "High Princess". Dawn Yang whoever that is but i take it that she is a celeb in Singapore she calls a "Minor Princess".
I the TS on the other hand am a warlock and a gladiator of the arena serving the alliance to rid Azeroth of the burning legion. -
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interesting article actually
But seriously, guys staying at home with parents doesn't mean guys don't help out in housework, i.e. letting the mum do all the jobs. Eg. we are in the age where we use washing machines, not a washing board, for washing clothes.
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
Either that or the TS wants to highlight the issue so those concerned can reflect for themselves.After all the TS wears the tag "Singaporean" and I would be embaressed if that was issue was raised to me by a "Foreigner."
After all the TS wears the tag "Singaporean" and I would be embaressed if that was issue was raised to me by a "Foreigner."
The 'truth' hurts less when it is raised by a fellow countryman :D
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i have a sharp pointy object, girls love it.